nicest thing you ever did for a female?

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One of my boys and I were talking about holidays coming up and Valentines day was right around the corner. I said "fukk that shyt... Haven't had a valentine since high school." He was like "I'll be your valentine :ld: " This was 3-4 years ago... So Valentine's day comes and I'm at work, they call my room to tell me there's a gift for me in the office, dozen of roses and 3 boxes of different chocolates. :ahh: I figured his sister helped him pick it cuz she'd call me asking me random questions n shyt lol. I got the gift around 10 and he knew my lunch break would be around 11:15 so he picked me up and we went to lunch.

He wasn't even my boyfriend, just my valentine.... I thought that was sooooooo SWEEEEEET! :smile:

Oh yeah if nicest also means a guy helping me with car issues in the winter, rental issues, n other miner problems where the guy goes out of his way and sticks around 2-3 more hours to make sure I'm alright. :hug:
 

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lol damn thats fukked up

my bro took his girl on a Cruise like two years ago
nikkas in the hood was clowning him cuz he spent so much
like 2 racks too

they still together and she dont be on no bullshyt
i remember when he met her i never knew she gone be a keeper
but they still togther

Hey, it happens lol

We did have unreal vacation sex, so I guess that was a positive :stopitslime:
 

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One of my boys and I were talking about holidays coming up and Valentines day was right around the corner. I said "fukk that shyt... Haven't had a valentine since high school." He was like "I'll be your valentine :ld: " This was 3-4 years ago... So Valentine's day comes and I'm at work, they call my room to tell me there's a gift for me in the office, dozen of roses and 3 boxes of different chocolates. :ahh: I figured his sister helped him pick it cuz she'd call me asking me random questions n shyt lol. I got the gift around 10 and he knew my lunch break would be around 11:15 so he picked me up and we went to lunch.

He wasn't even my boyfriend, just my valentine.... I thought that was sooooooo SWEEEEEET! :smile:

Oh yeah if nicest also means a guy helping me with car issues in the winter, rental issues, n other miner problems where the guy goes out of his way and sticks around 2-3 more hours to make sure I'm alright. :hug:

damn thats wassup

i suprised my girl in high school for her bday

begged my uncle let me see the benz. picked her up skipped from school. went to the mall
bought her a tiffany bracelet and some shoes. went to benihana

that was the last time i actually went out my way for a female
im in that mood again
 

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Brought Christmas presents to our job, on my day off, in front of other female co-workers

:sad: Stop dappin' this ^^^ post :sad:

It didn't end well, for me

Learned a good lesson, but, it took my frail heart/feelings, a minute to get over her

She wasn't a bad person, but, I read her all wrong and wasn't aggressive (in terms of progressing from the "talking" stage)
 

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had an ex-girlfriend who was suicidal and suffered from depression. put her in contact with a suicide hotline, notified a support group and had them contact her, intervened when she had beef with a crazy roommate who basically threatened to kill her, stayed with her on the phone whenever she had one of her "episodes"

did all of this after we broke up and I wasn't even hitting it :wow:

the day I finally realized that all the :cape: I was doing was never gonna help her and I decided to cut all contact from her was an incredible day. removed a lot of unnecessary stress and drama from my life
 

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had an ex-girlfriend who was suicidal and suffered from depression. put her in contact with a suicide hotline, notified a support group and had them contact her, intervened when she had beef with a crazy roommate who basically threatened to kill her, stayed with her on the phone whenever she had one of her "episodes"

did all of this after we broke up and I wasn't even hitting it :wow:

the day I finally realized that all the :cape: I was doing was never gonna help her and I decided to cut all contact from her was an incredible day. removed a lot of unnecessary stress and drama from my life

i think nikkas on here get confused with saving a chick and doin something nice

you was doin something nice for her imo

unless you was doin all dat for some p*ssy
 

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i think nikkas on here get confused with saving a chick and doin something nice

you was doin something nice for her imo

unless you was doin all dat for some p*ssy

A part of it was me doing something nice for her. But a huge part of it was the fact that she didn't have any type of relationship with her parents (her father died, she had a terrible relationship with her mother) so I was really all she had at that time. I genuinely believed she would've offed herself if I wasn't there to help her which is why I stuck around because I didn't think I could deal with the guilt if she ended up killing herself. I realized though she was sick and I wasn't a professional, so there really wasn't anything I could do to help her besides put her in touch with the right people.

Cutting her off was one of the hardest things I've ever done, but I had to do it for my own well-being. At that point everything I was doing for her was draining and felt like a burden. don't know if you've ever dealt with a depressed person but if you get to the point where that person is codependent on you, shyt effects you mentally. you end up getting depressed yourself just by getting caught up in their depression.
 

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Bought my ex a really expensive DLSR camera just because she liked photography and it wasn't bday or Christmas. Also on vacay she got sick and I went out at 3am to get her some medicine.

A lot of little things as well.
 

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what is the nicest thing ive done for a female.......................

tough question.....

im having trouble answering this
 
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