'Here a thing, if the wife put on 200 pounds and the husband like a nice slim wife what should that man do?'
That must be an exaggeration on how much weight she piled on ,given what the average woman weighs, that would make her majorly obese to the extent I doubt she would be capable of constant sexual demands before she had a heart attack ,. I can quite believe she packed on the pounds though, many wives do when they get 'comfortable'And I personally believe barring some kind of rare physical health problem, if a wife or husband piles on significant weight, that should be seen as fault in a divorce.