night before the wedding your fiance comes clean that they cheated......

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Please tell me indepickwest is not 50 nbanks from sohh the bytch that was showing everybody her titties and ass. I still remember your razor bumps. Get some self respect.
 

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I would still get married. Me and husband were young and if he cheated when we first got together I wouldn't be mad. Men do dumb shyt without thinking. If he was or is cheating in our marriage we would have some conflict. some of yall gonna miss out on a good man because he cheated on you when you guys were dating or day 2 of a relationship.

lmfao you sound like one of them "piece of a man is better than no man" type of women. I don't mind "missing out" on a man that cheats on me and will continue to cheat on me. Someone doesn't automatically stop cheating because you guys had a ceremony and signed some papers. Marry a dude that you know cheated on you before you were married and get mad that he continued to do it. lmfao I swear people are dumb as fukk.

Of course two dudes dapped that, men loooooove to do people wrong and then try to guilt them into accepting it.
 

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I never got that part. Crying like he was asking for forgiveness
Usually, in these weird situations, why wouldn't the guy just leave her?
1. Money. She's loaded like a Wendy's baked potato.
2. Self-esteem issues. She's a grade above him. He's got Anthony Davis teeth without the NBA contract.
3. He cheated too and so they are both guilty.
4. PWed. She's doing Kegel exercises with 45 lbs. plates. Dude doesn't want to walk away from that.
5. She's got something on him that pretty much is as good as extortion/blackmail. Maybe he found a bag of $10,000 that was a drug dealer's stash and if she told on him, he would be dead.
 

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I would still get married. Me and husband were young and if he cheated when we first got together I wouldn't be mad. Men do dumb shyt without thinking. If he was or is cheating in our marriage we would have some conflict. some of yall gonna miss out on a good man because he cheated on you when you guys were dating or day 2 of a relationship.
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Get married to cheaters because they might be "good men" brehettes :mjlol:
 

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its funny to me that 100% of nikkas who get cheated on think they can whoop the other man's ass just cause
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Holding that secret until the wedding is almost like asking for the wedding to be cancelled...
 

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Nah I dont. That's why I'm married. I attracted a man that was about that worship the ground my wife walks on life. Never said my husband cheated on me. To my knowledge he hasn't.
Oh. Ok. Good. For a second I thought you were one of those broads thatll take any type of shyt from a nikka just to say you got a man. Can't stand women like that cuz nikkas start thinking that all women will do anything to keep a man and frankly..if a nikka wanna act up Ill snatch his ass together and give him to the mailman to deliver somewhere else. lol
 

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You can keep believing that shyt if you want to. It's not about being good all the time it's about being strong and resisting temptation sometimes.
It's elementary to think that temptation and desire for someone other than your partner won't come when you're in it for the long haul. Good people simply don't give into it. Feeling tempted doesn't make you bad. As long as you don't go the emotional indefility route where you're only staying with someone you no longer like out of some sense of being obligated.

If you're with someone you should be with them because they're the shyt to you, not because you feel as though you're being charitable.

To that extent. If you're married and happy with a man that cheated on you then good for you and I wish the best. :ehh:
 

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It's elementary to think that temptation and desire for someone other than your partner won't come when you're in it for the long haul. Good people simply don't give into it. Feeling tempted doesn't make you bad. As long as you don't go the emotional indefility route where you're only

everyone is tempted, even satan tempted Jesus.

The key is to have th strength to not give into it. I've been in a relationship, and a hotter chick that lived two minutes away wanted me but I never gave in, even if no one would have found out. IT's just my moral code, just like if i was dead broke and found a wallet with a bunch of cash in it, I would return it just the way I found it
 

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I don't believe something like that could be overlooked. That shyt would eat at you and most likely make you paranoid as hell.
 
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