nikkas can't even ask for Sunday dinner without being attacked

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Antagonistic attitude.

I remember my mum having to check my sister when my mum cooking messed with her feminist sensibilities. My grandmother has had to check female cousins.

There are several problems when women go on these rants. One of them is the tendency to overlook the work put in by male relatives on the day and throughout the year. The second aspect is the inability to understand nurturing a family and reciprocity.

A lot of these women are going to be left wondering why they don't receive the same love, support, and respect as their grandmothers.
 

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If you study anthropology culture is passed on directly by its women. Its not just about cooking. I cook more than my wife does. Yes Black men can cook just any other group but traditions are the responsibility of women to keep typically and women of other groups do it to this day. We are the only group that tries to buck the system to our own chagrin.
Name some cultural anthropologists you’ve read.

Many if not most cultures pass on most traditions through men. The town elder, the wise man/magi, the medicine man, etc. FAMILY traditions are different and usually centered around the entire family, creating a sense of identity that is passed on. The problem here is we have a group of American men whose idea of tradition is watching football while women make you a plate. That’s it, and if the woman doesn’t do her “job” the tradition dies. That’s not real tradition, and it’s no wonder you guys have zero interest in keeping it alive if women don’t do their job lol.

Cooking tradition is not a woman exclusive role in non American cultures. That’s simply a fact. The real question than needs to be asked is why are American traditions dying while everyone else’s remain strong. This isn’t black exclusive. White people are going through the same shyt. I’m not talking about Italian Americans, or Irish Americans, etc - people with strong cultural connections to a home country who maintain their tradition. I’m talking about normal, white Americans who have no cultural connection to their European heritage. Southern cacs, Midwest cacs etc.

We got men who don’t contribute shyt, won’t get married, and just want to go somewhere to watch a game and eat turkey. We’re fukked.
 

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lol just remember. only 22% of the united states population is on twitter - and 10% of that number actually tweets.

so whatever these idiots are babbling about... they actually have time to do it. literally everyone else is out there living life and being happy.

if they want to find 2pac in a suit that cooks, cleans, and loves them unconditionally, they can find that in heaven with Allah.
 

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the msdonalds lines by the crib be long asfukk after 5pm......ain't noone cooking when dinner is mcdonalds...:scust::scust::scust::scust:

The worst thing America did in the modern era, is to make fast food CHEAP and ACCESSIBLE. Undisciplined actions led to the obesity epidemic.
 

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My Grandmother died back in March 2017...


She made sure to make dinner every Sunday no matter what. These chicks now don't have that old school family member that'll show you how to do things.


I remember how I used to gobble a plate of Sweet Potatoes, Beets, Greens, Baked Chicken etc after watching Sunday Football.



On the subject at the hand, they need to bring back Life Skills in classes. It should be a mandatory thing.
 

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I've come to the realization that the Black community is on fire and no one is coming to save it.

My grandmother worked 45 hours a week as a maid scrubbing white peoples floors and still kept a spotless home and made dinner every night on top of Sunday Dinners.

Women are the keepers of the culture and the first teachers but they would rather drink wine, eat brunch and see how many men can give them money thirst trapping on IG while getting their back blown out by the trainer at their local planet fitness.

"Stop being a mysongist and let these women drink hard liquor and eat burgers. That's very empowering" :troll:

"So what the kids eat unhealthy garbage and spend no time with the family? The tradition is oppressive and cooking is too stressful becuase the office job has my male boss telling me wat to do!"
 

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My Grandmother died back in March 2017...


She made sure to make dinner every Sunday no matter what. These chicks now don't have that old school family member that'll show you how to do things.


I remember how I used to gobble a plate of Sweet Potatoes, Beets, Greens, Baked Chicken etc after watching Sunday Football.



On the subject at the hand, they need to bring back Life Skills in classes. It should be a mandatory thing.

Higher education got caught up in stressful academic nonsense, and schools dropped those life skills classes. Now we got a bunch of wannabe CEOs making 40k in their low level desk jobs, talking about they too good to learn how to cook healthy meals.
 
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They say that the way through a man's heart is through his stomach...


I want some Collard Greens, Mac & Cheese from scratch, and some Fried Chicken.



If u off weekends, then u should be cooking for your man or kids.


Of course everyone should help with the clean up. I agree with that.
 

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As a kid in the 90s, I could probably count on one hand how many times we ate Burger King, McDonald's, etc in a year. Eating fast food was considered a "treat" but nowadays people eat it daily or multiple times a week. Combination of increased sedentary lifestyle, it's no wonder Americans are so fat. :wow:

These hypertension high blood pressure prone hoes, telling other women not to cook for their kids. :picard:

If Fast food went back to their old prices back in the early 90s, a lot of these birds would be forced into the kitchen to save money.
 

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Antagonistic attitude.

I remember my mum having to check my sister when my mum cooking messed with her feminist sensibilities. My grandmother has had to check female cousins.

There are several problems when women go on these rants. One of them is the tendency to overlook the work put in by male relatives on the day and throughout the year. The second aspect is the inability to understand nurturing a family and reciprocity.

A lot of these women are going to be left wondering why they don't receive the same love, support, and respect as their grandmothers.

Most Women on The Coli don't want to feed their kids non-fried foods or veggies. They think that an offoce job doing basically nothing is "successful"
 

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Higher education got caught up in stressful academic nonsense, and schools dropped those life skills classes. Now we got a bunch of wannabe CEOs making 40k in their low level desk jobs, talking about they too good to learn how to hook healthy meals.



I remember at school, u had to learn something...

Parents used to ask you what did u learn in school. My Mom and Dad did that no matter what.


The school system nowadays just wanna pass the kids on rather than them earning the grade the right way. America wants to worry about Ukraine but our house isn't in order. My Cousin once told me as a kid, take care of home first before you worry about the outside.




Basic Life Skills should be taught before they graduate. There's no reason a kid shouldn't know how to save money, cook, pay bills, wash clothes, and fill out a resume.
 

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I remember at school, u had to learn something...

Parents used to ask you what did u learn in school. My Mom and Dad did that no matter what.


The school system nowadays just wanna pass the kids on rather than them earning the grade the right way. America wants to worry about Ukraine but our house isn't in order. My Cousin once told me as a kid, take care of home first before you worry about the outside.




Basic Life Skills should be taught before they graduate. There's no reason a kid shouldn't know how to save money, cook, pay bills, wash clothes, and fill out a resume.

I blame STANDARDIZED TESTING for the elimination of Home economics and trader electives classes altogether. Too many people prepare for one big test that is useless for learning, and too many people sacrificing life skills for studying hard subjects.
 

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I blame STANDARDIZED TESTING for the elimination of Home economics and trader electives classes altogether. Too many people prepare for one big test that is useless for learning, and too many people sacrificing life skills for studying hard subjects.



Math is most definitely needed word to Furious Styles....


Nothing wrong with that. At the end of the day, they should be learning these things.


I had electives classes years ago after all my basic classes.


If the schools aren't gonna teach them, then the parents need to step up and do their job and stop being lazy.


The women need to teach their daughters to be women and the men need to teach the sons to be men. Each one, teach one has gone extinct because people dont wanna help the next person come up.
 
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