I asked why do some of us, meaning black people, shyt on one shade to big up another. In this thread that very thing is happening. I havent gotten any negative treatment or comments about my skin color from men so I dont know where you pulled that from.

Again, no idea how you're pulling these assumptions about me from what my first post said. But I will entertain you.So I assume that you consider yourself some kind of dimepiece when men like you in high ratios
But I agree that colorism needs to stop. Problems, the thirsty ass people gas up light skinned as mental slavery simply cause it will get their kids closer to be "desirable" to mainstream society.
. I dont feel insecure about my skin color, and I also dont think that because I'm not light that its a big feat for men to find me attractive. I dont view my skin color as something that is a burden when attracting men. Your assumptions are very telling lol. Again, no idea how you're pulling these assumptions about me from what my first post said. But I will entertain you.
Believe it or not I really don't pay attention to that color shyt. I don't look at a girl thats lighter than me and assume that she will get more attention. I dont feel insecure about my skin color, and I also dont think that because I'm not light that its a big feat for men to find me attractive. I dont view my skin color as something that is a burden when attracting men. Your assumptions are very telling lol.

I date all shades of black.
I ain't saying that your darker skin tone is a set back of any sort, but you are equal opportunity when coming to dating men of lighter or dark skin, right?

I date all shades of black.
But I love dark women too. Im my opinion though, from my experience, darker women tend to be more controlled in their emotions but also more reserved and I guess more masculine im the athletic department.
But thats just my experience.


More reserved and submissive = more masculine?![]()
The darker skin women seem to have more internal confidence and be less submissive. they didnt need so many compliments or day to day maitenance. Weren't so easily swayed. I think they had less ego and be more realistic in expectations and down to earth



not calling it fact, thatd be ignorant af . Just stating my experiences.