desjardins
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And.......the guys who overextend themselves trying give the world get friend zoned and clowned with their dms exposed on social media 
"No flowers, no planned dates, just “wyd” texts & 50/50"
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dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
breh, if a woman dislikes you, still hangs with you - either two things are happening. she's coming around only when you give her shyt or are spending money - this one becomes easy to see and it's on the man to stop simping. she dislikes you yet by spending all this time with you - even going so far as getting into a relationship/married as you mentioned - she's still giving you sex, which is the other issue yall brought up - spending money/time on a woman who isn't sexing you.Y’all gotta stop think you’re own experiences are the only truth. If you don’t hang out with nikkas you don’t like great for you, but not every women is like that. A friend of mine recently broke up with her boyfriend of three years who she disliked. She stayed with him Because “he was nice to me” her words.
millions of people do the bold every day. Some of those people even get married to each other and have children.Many of us wouldn’t exist if our parents or grandparents only dated people they actually liked
have you ever dated women ? I think some of the disconnect here is that some of y’all women don’t believe that women be doing the things we men say they do
what world does a woman who doesn't like a man spend 8 months with him and not fukk (outside of religious folks) and the man is ok with that? she either is fukking a dude she don't like or the man bushes her. they both can't be not getting anything they want and be together, that's two losers if that's the case.
Well then accept acts of service, etc. graciously (If they are clean & can actually cook, that is).
Sometimes words are not enough to express depths of feelings - in comes affection, gifts, favors, service, etc.
Absolutely love flowers - giving & receiving.
Ask a woman out for a coffee date for the first date and see how fast they curve you. My thing is if she won't hangout with me on a coffee date, they aren't really into me. Only what I can do for them.Yeah I've read how some dudes would take a girl out on tinder only for her to be dropped off at some other dude's house. shyt is a life contemplating L
Why do these women think they deserve dates on the first day? They always making demands, can't we just chill at the park and talk first then go on a date?
It's crazy how women ruin the dating process but then blame men. Men can't cold approach, have a simple first date, can't be working on himself or have any issues. While they sleep on a pallet on the floor, no job but always going out, dating for meals and have to be picked up bc they don't have a car. Can't make this up breh
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MajesticLion
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You are projecting your viewpoint on how things should be and have a serious blind spot for what is. You're having trouble reconciling the two because of your blind spot here.
I strongly suggest you take a hard, honest look at the last two generations of those that would call themselves women. There is a significant portion of them that have gotten so used to being told they're "losing" in relationships - as though it's a competition - that they have given up and will use "spending time" as time fillers/entertainment...which is itself the payoff for them. Whether they like the person is irrelevant. They simply do things just to do them and feel like they have a life.
Do not underestimate this contingent.
Exactly. nikkas won't use that "wyd" if it didn't work on her before. All that stuff she's asking for comes before the p*ssy. If dude fukked already he has no reason to try anymore
There’s a woman here who consistently argues that these women who punch above their weight class are better off doing so because the men in their weight class will treat them the same. No matter how many different men tell her otherwise she still sticks to this story and argues that these women are happier this way even though (not if) they end up alone.
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Ezekiel 25:17
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We gotta start letting these women know they aren't entitled to our money just like we ain't entitled to their p*ssy. Start calling them out.
the bossman
Superstar
some yall nikkas make dating seem stressful as fukk. shyt supposed to be fun man. It's the first Summer after covid. just go out and have some fun with these broads man damn
I was a Tomb Raider in a past life.I’ve only ever wanted to explore ancient ruins and tombs and underwater temples.
Then I saw the shyt that lurks in some of those areas, and said NOPE!
What’s gross about this?
Nature is beautiful
That centipede was dope. I like how it knew the dude was friendly and was being borderline playful with him. Nature is ridiculously intelligent
some yall nikkas make dating seem stressful as fukk. shyt supposed to be fun man. It's the first Summer after covid. just go out and have some fun with these broads man damn
True but nikkas sat inside for a long time watching shows and on social media listening to someone else tell them what their self worth is. Everybody has inflated views of self. So call "relationship experts" telling people how everyone else is fukked up but not telling them they won't find the perfect person. It takes trial and error.
Kinda hard to make this nonsense fun
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
no, i take the view in having dated well-adjusted, emotionally secure people. men and/or women who think being in a relationship is an L are not well-adjusted or emotionally secure.
i do think there's 2-3 months that cat be wasted with folks, people hanging just to hang, but people who know what they want and are clear about what they expect from their partner don't usually end up spending significant time with people who aren't into them. things won't be progressing how you want them to, and it's either time for an open conversation or to move on.
This. Also, you never know if the person you meet will end up being bad down the line. Theres no sign on their head. You have to meet and engage with them long enough first.Y’all gotta stop think you’re own experiences are the only truth. If you don’t hang out with nikkas you don’t like great for you, but not every women is like that. A friend of mine recently broke up with her boyfriend of three years who she disliked. She stayed with him Because “he was nice to me” her words.
millions of people do the bold every day. Some of those people even get married to each other and have children.
have you ever dated women ? I think some of the disconnect here is that some of y’all women don’t believe that women be doing the things we men say they do
Some people have decided to put a shorter leash on that time. Especially when you get the feeling that they treat others better than you
