"No flowers, no planned dates, just “wyd” texts & 50/50"

[RareHunter]

breh, if a woman dislikes you, still hangs with you - either two things are happening. she's coming around only when you give her shyt or are spending money - this one becomes easy to see and it's on the man to stop simping. she dislikes you yet by spending all this time with you - even going so far as getting into a relationship/married as you mentioned - she's still giving you sex, which is the other issue yall brought up - spending money/time on a woman who isn't sexing you.

what world does a woman who doesn't like a man spend 8 months with him and not fukk (outside of religious folks) and the man is ok with that? she either is fukking a dude she don't like or the man bushes her. they both can't be not getting anything they want and be together, that's two losers if that's the case.

Be honest. Is it better to be the side nikka or the “boyfriend/husband”? The side nigha gets the p*ssy with no headaches and the women is doing a lot for him whether they admit it or not (they know they can’t lock him down)
What does the boyfriend/husband get that a side nikka can’t get from a women, if the side nikka wanted?

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

no courting no spoiling

this is equality

 

[Speaking Womanese]

And.......the guys who overextend themselves trying give the world get friend zoned and clowned with their dms exposed on social media

Why would you give the world to a girl who ain’t ya girl tho?

This generation is prime example of expecting Apple juice from oranges.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Be honest. Is it better to be the side nikka or the “boyfriend/husband”? The side nigha gets the p*ssy with no headaches and the women is doing a lot for him whether they admit it or not (they know they can’t lock him down)
What does the boyfriend get that a side nikka can’t get from a women, if the side nikka wanted?

LMAO - yall have a warped sense of reality. i made it very clear to yall but you don't want to listen, there are plenty of women who have men they get the D from who they're not doing anything for because they're not interested in locking him down. that's like the definition of FWB - yall just fukk, maybe netflix, smoke out or grab some cheap takeout before fukking, but the point of yall linking up is to fukk and KIM

and your question about whether it's better to be the dude just getting to fukk is subjective. if you're at the stage in life where just having access to some p*ssy is all that matters, then be happy if a woman chooses to make you her fukk buddy. if you're at the stage of life where you want an actual relationship - which is much bigger than just sex - you're approaching women differently and interested in more than just p*ssy.

how old are you and have you actually had a real relationship? i'm talking a committed relationship of 12+ months? have you been in love with a woman who loves you? if you have, you wouldn't even be asking what a boyfriend gets over a side nikka, you'd know the difference between two people sharing love and respect vs someone you're just smashing

 

[desjardins]

nvm

 

[BigMan]

Why would you give the world to a girl who ain’t ya girl tho?

This generation is prime example of expecting Apple juice from oranges.

Men are not taught how to date and how to view women aS humans

 

[BigMan]

breh, if a woman dislikes you, still hangs with you - either two things are happening. she's coming around only when you give her shyt or are spending money - this one becomes easy to see and it's on the man to stop simping. she dislikes you yet by spending all this time with you - even going so far as getting into a relationship/married as you mentioned - she's still giving you sex, which is the other issue yall brought up - spending money/time on a woman who isn't sexing you.

what world does a woman who doesn't like a man spend 8 months with him and not fukk (outside of religious folks) and the man is ok with that? she either is fukking a dude she don't like or the man bushes her. they both can't be not getting anything they want and be together, that's two losers if that's the case.

I think you have trouble seeing that what you do /accept and what happens in the real world with other people may be different

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Men are not taught how to date and how to view women aS humans

From the Male perspective, what mistakes do you think men make with the women of today?

 

[the bossman]

True but nikkas sat inside for a long time watching shows and on social media listening to someone else tell them what their self worth is. Everybody has inflated views of self. So call "relationship experts" telling people how everyone else is fukked up but not telling them they won't find the perfect person. It takes trial and error.

Kinda hard to make this nonsense fun

that nikka kevin samuels cakin something serious off this dysfunction. now I see how he got 1 million subscribers

but as you put it, it's as simple as trial and error. but sounds like some people are not learning from the errors

 

[BigMan]

From the Male perspective, what mistakes do you think men make with the women of today?

How much time you got ? JUST MY OPINION but I think the biggest mistake is not humanizing the woman.

many dudes see women as either perfect princess or child like that need to be taken care of (simps) or cum receptacles (womanizers). The reality is woman can be both or something in the middle (as are all humans)

May dudes don’t know how to talk to or approach women (women are different than men)
We don’t understand their sexuality or thoughts or how their attraction works (I still fully don’t)
We don’t understand that you can do XYZ and the woman still won’t like you or fukk you
A lot of us don’t understand that women have agency have their own thoughts dreams opinions vices virtues etc.

We also fail to be able to discern quality in women
That big butt and a smile combo is deadly

 

[Speaking Womanese]

@BigMan so... they have a Madonna-Whore complex.

Would adopting a friend-like interaction first benefit both parties or would that be interpreted as playing it cool?

 

[RareHunter]

LMAO - yall have a warped sense of reality. i made it very clear to yall but you don't want to listen, there are plenty of women who have men they get the D from who they're not doing anything for because they're not interested in locking him down. that's like the definition of FWB - yall just fukk, maybe netflix, smoke out or grab some cheap takeout before fukking, but the point of yall linking up is to fukk and KIM

and your question about whether it's better to be the dude just getting to fukk is subjective. if you're at the stage in life where just having access to some p*ssy is all that matters, then be happy if a woman chooses to make you her fukk buddy. if you're at the stage of life where you want an actual relationship - which is much bigger than just sex - you're approaching women differently and interested in more than just p*ssy.

how old are you and have you actually had a real relationship? i'm talking a committed relationship of 12+ months? have you been in love with a woman who loves you? if you have, you wouldn't even be asking what a boyfriend gets over a side nikka, you'd know the difference between two people sharing love and respect vs someone you're just smashing

Stop being obtuse. I’m asking from your perspective and you’re giving all this “if it makes you happy” answers but atleast u wrote 5 less paragraphs than booksnrain. You know women don’t just use men for dikk, just like men don’t just kick it with women, stop playin.

In all honesty I dnt believe in “relationships”. What do they amount to on average? And u dnt marry for love. That’s how u get a collapsing society like we have now, but you should treat who you’re married to with love.

 

[BigMan]

@BigMan so... they have a Madonna-Whore complex.

Would adopting a friend-like interaction first benefit both parties or would that be interpreted as playing it cool?

Personally hearing the word “friend” from a woman makes me totally unattracted since I’m not dating anyone to find friends

I think women should be more assertive with what they want.
Both parties should but I think many women enjoy being chased/courted in a respectful manner so a dude straight up telling you I’m only interested in you because you gotta fat ass and look like you can suck good dikk is usually a turn off lol

dudes can’t read signs so being unambiguous should help

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Personally hearing the word “friend” from a woman makes me totally unattracted since I’m not dating anyone to find friends

I think women should be more assertive with what they want.
Both parties should but I think many women enjoy being chased/courted so a dude straight up telling you I’m only interested in you because you gotta fat ass and look like you can suck good dikk is usually a turn off lol

dudes can’t read signs so being unambiguous should help

Have you personally come across women who wanted to stay casual but stunted like they wanted a relationship and vice versa?

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Stop being obtuse. I’m asking from your perspective and you’re giving all this “if it makes you happy” answers but atleast u wrote 5 less paragraphs than booksnrain. You know women don’t just use men for dikk, just like men don’t just kick it with women, stop playin.

this seems to be something you'd like to believe. you're talking to a woman who has, most of my friends have had a dude, or dudes, they simply had a FWB relationship with. like i said, all of yall aren't hubby material, but you can be fukk buddy material.


and i'm not being obtuse about shyt. you're either just out to get p*ssy and happy to be a side nikka/FWB or you're looking for more. a man who wants a significant other isnt gonna be satisfied in FWB situation. not sure how that's so hard to digest.

saw your edit - then you clearly only have your perspective on the situation so of course you'll be happy to be the dude who gets no strings attached sex. and while love isn't the only thing you marry for, it does play a big part, especially if your goal is to stay together