but u not drake or michael B
"No flowers, no planned dates, just “wyd” texts & 50/50"
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That.... didn't really answer my question
but good luck to yaVinny Lupton
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I hold myself in high esteem and so should youbut u not drake or michael B
Saysumthinfunnymike
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hold on this is just funny to me.. nobody wanna pay $100 for lobster if the place down the road is just as good and they at $40. Nobody wanna pay a cover charge if everyone else is being let in through the backdoor.
This is common sense. if a dude knows that you are giving it for "free" and men are smart they'll find out one way or another.. then yeah he probably not gonna wanna pay the extra to "get to know you" unless he's desperate.
He will get the lobster down the road. That's just the way it is. Yeah maybe y'all would have a connection but you are selling yourself at a discount to other people.
You lost debating a woman about what men do or what lol
Saysumthinfunnymike
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Everyone else is debating.. i'm putting an end to the debate. this is a common sense issue. Women and men can sell themselves however they want... but to pretend that the future price won't be affected is foolish.
Vinny Lupton
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Doesn't translate because it doesn't bother me if a woman sends me "wyd"and I'd certainly never make a tweet about it
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
When I click with somebody, their presence is a balm for the soul.
It’s that staying up until 4am in the morning talking on the phone moment.
Basking in the smell of em. Just enjoying their company.
If somebody’s presence doesn’t soothe you, they ain’t worth it. Life too short to be stressed out over a whole nother human being that shyts, farts, laughs and cries just like you. They either gon fukk with you or not.
So when was the last time you "click with somebody"?
Cause your ass stay on here pushing nonsense.
my point is nothing to even talk to them about just ignore em lol
My issue isn't even just paying more - It's that what I'm paying for isn't worth much more. Sometimes it's worth less
A lot of chicks - not all, but a lot -.have this sort of self-centered view that them just being them is all they need for a relationship, and it's my job to prove my worth.
So I'm paying extra money for a chick who is literally just there? Doesn't really care about me emotionally? Finds it an affront for her to pay for anything? Thinks an affront to spend money? And actually won't have sex as early or as much? Acts like everything they do is then sacrificing while everything I do is the bare minimum.
Maybe that's the disconnect. I feel like I've said this repeatedly, but I'll say it again. Not every chick is some good fair, person. @dora_da_destroyer @Booksnrain not every chick's definition of "relationship" is the same. For a lot of women, they have a very one-sided view of relationships. Yall don't see it because yall don't date women. Its that simple. Y'all probably get upset when men mansplain what women do.
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
smh...you're doing the same thing, looking at it through a prism of sex.
no, no one who just wants to smash is going to want to do the extras when the other person who simply wanted to smash was able to do nothing and get it...no shyt.
someone who is trying to build a relationship with you is not focused on just sex, sex does not a relationship make and it doesn't sustain a relationship, a real connection does, so if the point is to build a real connection, you both do the work to establish that. and it doesn't require money to get to know someone
lastly, yall have no clue what someone else did/does with other people. i've never had a first date in a park and asked if they took the previous person they went on a first date with to a $100 dinner - i don't care, that does not effect what the two of us are doing
how would you even know a woman had sex with a man after mcdonald's while you're getting no sex after Ruth Chris? this is what you're thinking of when planning or on a date?
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My issue isn't even just paying more - It's that what I'm paying for isn't worth much more. Sometimes it's worth less
A lot of chicks - not all, but a lot -.have this sort of self-centered view that them just being them is all they need for a relationship, and it's my job to prove my worth.
So I'm paying extra money for a chick who is literally just there? Doesn't really care about me emotionally? Finds it an affront for her to pay for anything? Thinks an affront to spend money? And actually won't have sex as early or as much? Acts like everything they do is then sacrificing while everything I do is the bare minimum.
Maybe that's the disconnect. I feel like I've said this repeatedly, but I'll say it again. Not every chick is some good fair, person. @dora_da_destroyer @Booksnrain not every chick's definition of "relationship" is the same. For a lot of women, they have a very one-sided view of relationships. Yall don't see it because yall don't date women. Its that simple. Y'all probably get upset when men mansplain what women do.
my point is women will never be honest when it comes to gender and relationship convo thus its pointless to engage in it with them. Just control what you can in your life and protect yourself.
the bossman
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LOL if a chick was a porn star shyt would probably be all over the internet. You'd find out quick one way or another.
I'm talking specifically to this mentality of worrying about what she did with the last nikka.
Yall really out here Google searching or asking these broads how many days was it before you cooked for the last nikka you dealt with? How many days did it take for you to fukk the last nikka you was with?
If we already fukking or if she's cooking for you and you're happy with the situation why would you care? How does that change yalls dynamic? Yall worrying about shyt that is irrelevant
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
i have a clear definition of what i mean by a relationship - i'm talking two people who choose to be monogamous, are committed to one person, and are an official item, a boyfriend & girlfriend, people who are together with the hopes of being together for the long term (clearly not every relationship lasts forever or else we'd all be married to or with our first BF/GF).My issue isn't even just paying more - It's that what I'm paying for isn't worth much more. Sometimes it's worth less
A lot of chicks - not all, but a lot -.have this sort of self-centered view that them just being them is all they need for a relationship, and it's my job to prove my worth.
So I'm paying extra money for a chick who is literally just there? Doesn't really care about me emotionally? Finds it an affront for her to pay for anything? Thinks an affront to spend money? And actually won't have sex as early or as much? Acts like everything they do is then sacrificing while everything I do is the bare minimum.
Maybe that's the disconnect. I feel like I've said this repeatedly, but I'll say it again. Not every chick is some good fair, person. @dora_da_destroyer @Booksnrain not every chick's definition of "relationship" is the same. For a lot of women, they have a very one-sided view of relationships. Yall don't see it because yall don't date women. Its that simple. Y'all probably get upset when men mansplain what women do.
and what are you on about? it doesn't take money to get to know someone, people aren't emotionally invested off jump, you have to get to know one another. if all you, or her, can think of to get to know one another are paid dates, you need to to re-evaluate your approach. and it's dating, everyone you go on a date or two with doesn't become your GF/BF