You're so full of shyt
Most, if not all, the insane age of consent laws you mentioned only apply if the sexual partner is within a year or two, you can't be 23 and sleep with a 16-year-old in Maryland. Those laws are in place so high school kids and 19-year-old students don't get charged with sexual assault for dating a girl at their school.
Imo it seems like people who make this argument are attracted to teen girls and are offended by being lumped in with child molesters. It's a useless pedantic argument, why would you want to die on that hill unless it made you feel a type of way?