I'm taking the advice and still participating in the threads I have open I just don't want to make anymore new threads about the same topic over and over
fukk the haters. The majority of us are down to help. Please leave the coke alone and seek professional help. I'm a loner myself and despite not being a virgin. I struggle getting women too. I might fukk once a year or two years. I lost my virginity at 19. Highschool was ass.
I've only had one date in my life and I was in my early 20s. I'm 24 right now. shyt sucks but good friends is what you need more, especially in this time.
I hanged with a good old friend from high school and a friend of his the other night. We smoked and drinked a little. We just had a good time talking about life, taking about fukkery, etc.
After you seek help ( I pray you follow through). Don't be thirsty for sex nor women. Instead develop an interest for making people feel good and people in general. Whether it's co workers who can be potentially friends, cashier's, etc.
This the approach I have been doing. I break the ice and get to know people. Joke around if I can. Get them comfortable. I decided I want to be someone who's loved and loves others.
Pretty much treat people like old friends.
I'm a cashier/self checkout overseer.
The other day two old men were buying alcohol. I had to ID at least one of them.
I greet them, and politely ask for an ID. One gets his ID out while the other jokes he's 16. I tell the joking old man yeah. Look at the other old man who got joked on. Go "barely making it" and just busted out laughing with the other one.
Minutes later I'm helping a cashier and the old men say goodbye to me while smiling.
That may be a fleeting moment but I put positive energy out there and it was well received.
I even talk to my shy coworkers and have gotten to know them.
You're already in shape and tall. I'm scrawny with a belly and short. Maybe you need a new haircut and maybe a better fashion sense.
We have no way of knowing if you dont tell us. fukk the haters, youre welcome to ask for anything from us anytime breh.