No woman will respect a man without options

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lol, relationships are filled with unwritten rules. That's why all relationships need to be based around a foundation like God or a common interest that is morally demanding.
I get it, but the LR makes it annoying listing them all out like we have to be mindful of this all day.

":damn: I text her twice, in a row without her replying once, first...shes gonna cheat on me"

":damn: I told her 'I love you, too' instead of 'aight, bye' she gon' I'm whipped"

"I loaned her $50 last month and forgot to ask for it, back...shes gonna take half if we get married and divorce"

Yall make relationships sound so laborious
 

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Not true for me. I dislike competition. The other chicks can have him.

I'd rather a dude who sees me as the prize. If I have to fight to get him, I'm gonna have to fight to keep him. I'm not about that life.

If he wants me, he'll make it known and I won't have to compete with anyone because I will have already won.

Well said. :salute:
 

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I've been an observer of humans for 35 years. Had a keen interest in Sociology when I was in school. Married for 12 yrs so I'm authorized.
:hijowhoa:not encouraging anybody to fukk up a good thing. But there are blatant laws of nature that can't be ignored.

Pre-menopausal women must be in a state of competition in order to be happy. But at the same time they must also feel like they are in control. A man(ager) who is able to control those two elements will always have a woman who will kneel at his feet.

Me and the :flabbynsick:squad were watching football last night and the convo came up about wives not giving it up. I'm sitting back like :dwillhuh:I couldn't relate. I realized at that moment that these former wolves had forgotten how to hunt. They had all gotten fat & sloppy, relinquishing their power because they depended on one source. That one source now has all the power.

You can still be a "good man", whatever that means, but at a minimum you need to at least flirt with other women(lord knows your woman is flirting her ass off). It really does help sustaine your testosterone levels and overall drive. Women are very intuitive-shyt is kind of creepy sometimes-and they pick up on shyt like this. If you can put a woman in a state of competition but at the same time make her feel secure, you'll never have to worry about sharing that girl.

You are welcome to try the Disney route. Give her the world, let her be your equal. I hope it works out for you. Maybe you're somehow different than the millions of souls that were ethered before you.

But remember these words, a man without options will always become undesirable to his spouse over time. You can dispute it, but you can't refute it.

But similar advice goes for brehettes. Don't let your man turn your sexy down. It's a fukking trap.

Next episode I'll school you youngstas on the importance of why you should only chase women who are "perceived" to be out of your league:myman:

This is the truth told my girl I don't care what you do(she was going to hang with her friends) cause I'm going downtown to mingle with the people and you see this right here...Don't know what he might get into it's one of those nights. Long story short she sitting on my face(without going to see her friends) talking about I'm the only one who is gonna be doing this:mjlol:

Always gotta throw a curveball and fukk woman heads up they get too complacent they will seek other adventures:sas2:
 

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For different woman, different tactics may apply. The only issue with OP is in my relationship, if I did what he said, I would be a big trouble. My girl is direct. If she has an issue, she will let me know. Every woman is different, it doesn't change the facts that women desire desirable men. We as men desire desirable women but we don't need outside validation. We can look and see what we like and want.

Disagree with the bold
 

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:childplease: No shyt sherlock! It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out.



You're nothing but a fraud who's trying to backtrack with excuse after excuse :camby:

If you aren't Christian & didn't get married under Christian beliefs, then you shouldn't be debating or giving your opinion on marriage from a Christianity viewpoint.

But you do you, breh! :shaq2:
......sigh....fraud?....riggggghhhttt.....you don't know me and until you quoted me I didn't know you existed.....if your so christian why do post a secular board with things that clearly go against Christianity? You aren't going to save anyone here....you are sitting on message board getting your rocks disrespecting people you don't know...very christian of you to call me a bytch and a fraud....sure your pastor would love to know one of the church members post on a board with links to pornography, discussion about anal sex and homosexual behavior....you so christian why are you among heathens... Water seeks its level...so you clearly are a fraud...you just want to be right and have the last word...wouldn't be surprised if you were a woman...no man cares about another mans opinion about marriage that much to type diatribes and quote scripture.....if you happen to be a man ....well.....truly sad...
 

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......sigh....fraud?....riggggghhhttt.....you don't know me and until you quoted me I didn't know you existed.....if your so christian why do post a secular board with things that clearly go against Christianity? You aren't going to save anyone here....you are sitting on message board getting your rocks disrespecting people you don't know...very christian of you to call me a bytch and a fraud....sure your pastor would love to know one of the church members post on a board with links to pornography, discussion about anal sex and homosexual behavior....you so christian why are you among heathens... Water seeks its level...so you clearly are a fraud...you just want to be right and have the last word...wouldn't be surprised if you were a woman...no man cares about another mans opinion about marriage that much to type diatribes and quote scripture.....if you happen to be a man ....well.....truly sad...

:russ:

I'm not Christian dumb fukk, I was just pointing out that the majority of the people in the U.S are married under Christianity & under the religion it clearly states that a wife should not dismiss or forgo her husbands desire for sex.

All this other mished mashed bullshyt you wrote is nothing but a bunch of :trash:

:pachaha:
 

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The premise of this post is extremely immature. But seeing as how society strives to prolong adolescence for as long as possible, I am not surprised. Grow up.

However, if you as an immature man have found yourself in a relationship with an immature woman then do what works for you. But don't try to contaminate others with your filth.

The way OP worded his post was slightly misogynistic, but you have to agree that there's some truth to it?

Men own their bullshyt a lot more in this case. We'll just flat out say that the size of a womans t*ts and ass is important in a relationship even though it's completely ridiculous. Women, for some reason get very upset when you point out what kind of guys they evidently respond to in reality.

You'll say that humour and confidence is important, but where do you think he got that from? Just magically born that way, or do you think he got that from a lifetime of positive reinforcement by various women?

You'll be very turned off by a guy who's too "thirsty", but why do you think some guys are more thirsty than others? Do you think non-thirsty guys are that way because "p*ssy is just not that important to them", or do you think they're non-thirsty because they got other situations going on?
I could go on about this...

If you ask any woman if she likes those slightly "player-ish" type of men she will say no, but where do all the women they hook up with come from then? I think it would be quite rude and bold to call all of those girls sluts or insecure. All of the characteristics women say that they look for are essentially the characteristics of the type of man OP is describing, but when you point it out they get mad.

It's kind of the same as when men are constantly talking down on "hoes", but "hoes" get wifed by men with options everyday (Cam Newton, Ross etc.), so it goes both ways. I'm just saying that to show that I don't think (I don't hope) OP is attacking women, but that he's making an interesting observation about the type of double communication that goes on by both men and women.
 

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Well said. :salute:
Be honest is it that you dislike competition or don't think you can win? I'll believe whatever you say since I don't know you to think you're lying on this issue. Personally, I truly think if you truth serum most people up they don't think they can win so that's why they say they don't like competition.
 

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Be honest is it that you dislike competition or don't think you can win? I'll believe whatever you say since I don't know you to think you're lying on this issue. Personally, I truly think if you truth serum most people up they don't think they can win so that's why they say they don't like competition.

I dislike competition. If there's competition, I'd just kill them hoes.
 

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I guess I was thinking about secure men. Insecure men is a completely different ballgame.
Even with secure men they want a chick that's nice compared to those around them. I don't think that has anything to do with secure/insecure. That's just how most dudes are wired. When its cats with "wack" chick its usually a pack thing and vice versa. Its the same with a lot of things people do in general that's why they say you are similar to the people you spend time around the most. I'm just generalizing though
 

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I'm not Christian dumb fukk, I was just pointing out that the majority of the people in the U.S are married under Christianity & under the religion it clearly states that a wife should not dismiss or forgo her husbands desire for sex.

All this other mished mashed bullshyt you wrote is nothing but a bunch of :trash:

:pachaha:
Who's the loser here?....someone who stated an opinion that you could have scrolled passed or someone that would go to such lengths to prove they are right to a "dumb fukk".... if im so dumb why do you entertain my responses...that means your just a dumb as me....you wasted half your day trying to make a fool of me and you still failed.....Your troll game is impressive... Try harder...you can be in the troll hall of fame in Kalamazoo one day....you just gotta believe in yourself...I see troll greatness in you but I'm not the one...sorry...
 

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I've been an observer of humans for 35 years. Had a keen interest in Sociology when I was in school. Married for 12 yrs so I'm authorized.
:hijowhoa:not encouraging anybody to fukk up a good thing. But there are blatant laws of nature that can't be ignored.

Pre-menopausal women must be in a state of competition in order to be happy. But at the same time they must also feel like they are in control. A man(ager) who is able to control those two elements will always have a woman who will kneel at his feet.

Me and the :flabbynsick:squad were watching football last night and the convo came up about wives not giving it up. I'm sitting back like :dwillhuh:I couldn't relate. I realized at that moment that these former wolves had forgotten how to hunt. They had all gotten fat & sloppy, relinquishing their power because they depended on one source. That one source now has all the power.

You can still be a "good man", whatever that means, but at a minimum you need to at least flirt with other women(lord knows your woman is flirting her ass off). It really does help sustaine your testosterone levels and overall drive. Women are very intuitive-shyt is kind of creepy sometimes-and they pick up on shyt like this. If you can put a woman in a state of competition but at the same time make her feel secure, you'll never have to worry about sharing that girl.

You are welcome to try the Disney route. Give her the world, let her be your equal. I hope it works out for you. Maybe you're somehow different than the millions of souls that were ethered before you.

But remember these words, a man without options will always become undesirable to his spouse over time. You can dispute it, but you can't refute it.

But similar advice goes for brehettes. Don't let your man turn your sexy down. It's a fukking trap.

Next episode I'll school you youngstas on the importance of why you should only chase women who are "perceived" to be out of your league:myman:

That is absolutly false. I am a woman, and I respect "men without options".

I will never compete for a man. I don't get jealous or competitive, I move on.

It's disrespectful to flirt with other people while you're in a relationship.

Only an immature person would "not respect men without options".

Take his advice and you'll be single.
 
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