No woman will respect a man without options

[Queen]

I always see that, but I don't understand how.

I have never competed for a male and was never forced to.

I think competeing for someone's attention is kind of pathetic.

Conditioning is not about forcing anyone to do anything. Also, just because a society embeds certain programming into its framework, it doesn't mean that the conditioning will impact everyone.

That being said - my original point remains that all women do not view other women as adversaries. If a man's experience tells him otherwise, then that is not a reflection of women as a whole; it is a reflection of the types of women he chooses to associate with and perhaps it is a reflection of the type of person he is.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

You like to deal with immature women, probably because you're immature yourself & No one wants to marry you.

The males on here also cosign #GMB. So, it doesn't really matter what the males on here cosign. Most of the males on here are not in healthy relationships, have never been in one, and claim that they don't want one, so their advice on women/relationship doesn't matter.

You keep talking about maturity while attacking me personally and emotionally because I spoke my truth. Hardly a mature way of handling things ironically.

I don't need marriage, could have easily been married if I cared

You basically shyt on everything you were saying based on how you handled this alone hence "what women say and do are totally different things".

Talk about maturity while lacking it brehette.

 

[philmonroe]

So basically in this topic is the opening post dropping facts about how women generally approach relationships and women calling the opening poster a liar.

I'm not the type of dude to blatantly plant verbal seeds on a girl and flirt hard body when I'm a relationship. Other than that though, he's right.

I'd also add that we as men don't want to be with a girl who isn't desirable either. It might not be processed the same way emotionally but I definitely would want my woman to be one who other dudes look at and say "damn I wish I had that."

If no dude is checking for my girl at all, that obviously means my girl ain't on point. Some may argue that due to me being 6'1, 230 pounds that dudes might be intimidated and hesitatant to look but sneak a peep nikka damn

What is this bullshyt in bold? Without you saying your measurements nobody would have argued anything. nikka just wanted to brag or something lol.

 

[rapbeats]

My cheater/player detector is amazing. I know when a guy is full of sht no matter how sweet/romantic he pretends to be.


Actually, I think it is the opposite. If someone had a father who was the type of guy the op and you are describing, then a person would be better at identifying when they are dealing with that type of person and know to avoid them.


& even if a person didn't have a parent like that, it's pretty clear to see when someone is trying to make you jealous or make you compete over them. Women with common sense know to leave those type of men alone.

you're right. LEAVE Them. but that means at some point they got with this dude. i didnt say this kind of dude can keep a chick. but she is surely going to fall for him unless her pops was a real dude and a real husband to her mother so she knows what a real dude looks like which is all she's ever looking for.

If you dont have that husband figure as your pops to look up to. Then your idea mate will end up being a dude from the movies/ women's magazines, books, etc. which are usually fairy tales. Ladies men already know how to get a chick all moist, just feed her the fairy tale stuff.

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

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Obviously coli women will come in here and deny this. That's why I always tell you all watch what a woman does, not what she says.

Women want what other women want.

Remember when I said this earlier brehs...now I want you to observe what happens in the real world

 

[True Blue Moon]

fukking thread started meandering all over the place

..aight so let's pretend a marriage is like the 95 sonics
you're gary payton, wanting to be on a championship team
so off season you're working out, watching film, getting ready
then.. camp starts and shawn kemp comes strolling in late at least 50 lbs overweight
it's like.. all of peyton's effort is wasted
cause shawn kemp just didn't give a fukk anymore

i mean, if you're really teammates, you wouldn't mail it in like that
barring injury or some real shyt
you'd at least show up "mostly" ready to go

so.. don't take your wives for granted, brehs
honor your commitments, do what you said you' do, be a credible version of the man she married
so when she does the same as a woman, then you're ready to achieve the shared goals

Exactly. All OP breh was saying was do your best to stay as sexy as you were in the beginning and she'll keep herself up and do the same. This is realer than what most people's marriages are, two motherfukkers letting themselves go and getting comfortable instead of staying hungry for life.

 

[VFib]

Not true for me. I dislike competition. The other chicks can have him.

I'd rather a dude who sees me as the prize. If I have to fight to get him, I'm gonna have to fight to keep him. I'm not about that life.

If he wants me, he'll make it known and I won't have to compete with anyone because I will have already won.

EXACTLY! If I have to 'compete' for him, then he didn't want me in the first place and I'll spend my life competing for him. No thanks.

 

[VFib]

what is it about you that makes you the prize?

I think everyone has varying definitions of what they consider to be a prize in the opposite sex. One person prize is another person's trash.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

I was just thinking about this the other day.
I personally don't want a guy who a lot of girls are after. Less hassle and headache for me

That you in the avi?

 

[Wild self]

The premise of this post is extremely immature. But seeing as how society strives to prolong adolescence for as long as possible, I am not surprised. Grow up.

However, if you as an immature man have found yourself in a relationship with an immature woman then do what works for you. But don't try to contaminate others with your filth.

Problem is, women don't like a grown up man until she been abused and ran through.

 

[Action Mike]

it doesn't change the facts that women desire desirable men.

Brehettes can flip it any way they like...the above fact is true, and so is the op.

The fact also you ladies have had a celebrity crush in your life, voids your arguments (with no alternatives btw).

 

[Wild self]

All these holier than thou coli chicks in here talking about this isn't true like they didn't spend 4 years in high school on status over the most popular dudes there.

Many of them got ran through, but say they want that smart dude that is quiet.

 

[Hijo de luna]

Conditioning is not about forcing anyone to do anything. Also, just because a society embeds certain prog

That being said - my original point remains that all women do not view other women as adversaries. If a man's experience tells him otherwise, then that is not a reflection of women as a whole; it is a reflection of the types of women he chooses to associate with and perhaps it is a reflection of the type of person he is.

That's all women do is compare themselves to other women. But hey do you. There are 10 women to every eligible bachelor and you best believe those other broads will be competing

 

[Hijo de luna]

& I'm telling you that you're wrong. Only a certain type of woman does that. I would never compete for a man, and I'm sure there are plenty of women who would not either.


You can't tell me how I am because you don't know me. You only know the type of women that you've been around, the type who compete. Immature, attention craving heauxs. Which probably explains why you're single/not married.


Both men and women are competitive, but not everyone competes over the same thing.


I am competitive in school, work, sports, but never over a male. No person is worth competing over.


A healthy relationship is does not involve competing with other people.


Deal.



* I find it hilarious that you all say we can walk outside and get dck, then turn around and say that every woman competes with eachother over it. Make up your mind.lol That just proves that you all are clueless about women or that we're not all the same and you're dealing with different types. Either way, you're still wrong. lol

That's basically saying you don't value that person . I'm 12 years married because I compete every damn day. I keep myself up, I keep my money up, take care of business, I keep my word. I don't have to worry about competition because there is none.

 

[b_priest9mm]

What the OP states is the truth.

If you are not desirable to other women, you won't de desirable to her. You hold no value.

It's why women generally don't go after virgins. It conveys he is undesirable to other women.

This is similar in concept to preselection (PUA) where you are desirable to a woman because other women want you. I've personally used this to my advantage.

Obviously coli women will come in here and deny this. That's why I always tell you all watch what a woman does, not what she says.

Women want what other women want.

This is all I needed to read.