Hijo de luna
Superstar
Man I'm taking long term solutions when dealing with one woman. I'm telling men to never forget who they are, never lose themselves in a relationship. How is that even disputable
No woman will respect a man without options
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It depends. Can't say that I disagree when women say one thing and do another; HOWEVER, yesterday's news is just that. I don't entertain idle chatter past the Coli to make my day go faster so what a hoe does is exactly hoe business. I don't know how old the heads are in this thread but I would be dissapointed if dudes were in here past the age of 30 with the mindset that they must do all of this in order to pique or keep a womans interest; esp
Its about knowing self, thats the best way to put it, and the greatest approach for any man deciding on how to deal with women. A lot of brehs follow programming that tells them they need to get married and have kids as if its basic coding language. It doesnt get questioned, when in reality theres nothing that says 'committed' or 'father' about the dude.
Its even ghey cats having kids or marrying women to follow the unwritten code without questioning what theyre really about.
Personally, i broke the code realizing that with the exception of a few chicks i dont even like female company, except to smash. I also realized that what works for me is having fwb, not ever paying because i still like to actually have a woman attracted to me, not my wallet.
I can only speak for myself in saying i dont trust a soul because i cant read minds. People dont make a habit of saying what they think. Scgizophrenics do that and it turns out bad for them soo... Its a personak choice to be a loner when people obviously cant tell you whats on their mind. Thats not why im single though. I know self and self does not like obligation because self does not put p*ssy on a pedestal. Self gets annoyed by women quite easily and even when attracted to one, self knows that females are like landmines for a dudes life if he's not careful. Cant trust a big butt and a smile - word to mike bivens
It's not but see your op below. You are telling someone in one tone to flirt with women in order to be perceived as valuable to his wife. All I am saying is yall put too much stock into humans which in which their behaviors are often erratic and intangible.Man I'm taking long term solutions when dealing with one woman. I'm telling men to never forget who they are, never lose themselves in a relationship. How is that even disputable
There is no long term solution. I am sure all the GMB heads would have followed D. Jeter's template to the death of them only to find out that he too had to go through what he did to find a woman for him. Do you think he will go out be the Derek Jeter of old to keep his woman interested? NO. Simply because he is a man of high worth and if you are a man of high worth you don't have to be anyone but yourself.
I've been an observer of humans for 35 years. Had a keen interest in Sociology when I was in school. Married for 12 yrs so I'm authorized.
:hijowhoa:not encouraging anybody to fukk up a good thing. But there are blatant laws of nature that can't be ignored.
Pre-menopausal women must be in a state of competition in order to be happy. But at the same time they must also feel like they are in control. A man(ager) who is able to control those two elements will always have a woman who will kneel at his feet.
Me and thesquad were watching football last night and the convo came up about wives not giving it up. I'm sitting back like
I couldn't relate. I realized at that moment that these former wolves had forgotten how to hunt. They had all gotten fat & sloppy, relinquishing their power because they depended on one source. That one source now has all the power.
You can still be a "good man", whatever that means, but at a minimum you need to at least flirt with other women(lord knows your woman is flirting her ass off). It really does help sustaine your testosterone levels and overall drive. Women are very intuitive-shyt is kind of creepy sometimes-and they pick up on shyt like this. If you can put a woman in a state of competition but at the same time make her feel secure, you'll never have to worry about sharing that girl.
You are welcome to try the Disney route. Give her the world, let her be your equal. I hope it works out for you. Maybe you're somehow different than the millions of souls that were ethered before you.
But remember these words, a man without options will always become undesirable to his spouse over time. You can dispute it, but you can't refute it.
But similar advice goes for brehettes. Don't let your man turn your sexy down. It's a fukking trap.
Next episode I'll school you youngstas on the importance of why you should only chase women who are "perceived" to be out of your league
Dude gets it... Not sitting around trying to figure out how to please a chick and make her life better. So simple but so hard for most men to comprehend
Brehs in here like 'What i gotta say or do to attract a fly breezy". You already lost out the gate. I learn from fly women who never pay dudes mind. They focused on their own self and dudes flock like flies on wet brown. Lonely? Get a puppy. Bored? Learn martial arts. Need a chick? Let em fall in your lap. Yea i know some chicks attract like a sun pulling planets but realize you lost at the gate if youre that thirsty for her. Developing a 'meh' attitude towards getting trim could take time but its better than being simp #809 on a chicks instagram like 'damn shawtu u bad'.
Females dont date fanboys.
Agreed. Like the late Comedian Patrice O'Neal used to say, you have to be with a woman that is better than her p*ssy. So many dudes never got the hot women or the ones with the instagram bodies so when they get it and the woman stops giving it to them, they dont know what to do.
In order for me to claim a woman as mine, she has to be superior to her p*ssy. The intangibles that she must bring to the table must far outweigh those that she brings to the bed therefore I choose this woman as mine to be committed to for the rest of my life.
Of course I am saying this with age though...
Talk to 20s TIBS and its a different story
Hijo de luna
Superstar
No I told them to flirt if that's what truly what they want to do. If you see a female you want to chat up for no particular reason, don't think "damn what would my girl think". I personally think men are being neutered by society. I'm encouraging them to do wtf they want to do and the woman will fall in line. In the end you and I won't agree but keep doing what you do.
Agreed. Like the late Comedian Patrice O'Neal used to say, you have to be with a woman that is better than her p*ssy. So many dudes never got the hot women or the ones with the instagram bodies so when they get it and the woman stops giving it to them, they dont know what to do.
In order for me to claim a woman as mine, she has to be superior to her p*ssy. The intangibles that she must bring to the table must far outweigh those that she brings to the bed therefore I choose this woman as mine to be committed to for the rest of my life.
Of course I am saying this with age though...
Talk to 20s TIBS and its a different story
Aint no shame broski. Any freeman I know including mysel learned after simp low lights that could get their man card confiscated. Im with you but i no longer even see the need to have one around. I grew up in a household full of women. I wouldnt live with 1 for nada. After you get done tapping its a living nightmare and no chick has bern laid back enough where i didnt tire of her personality and no longer want to hit. No constant entertaining, no anniverseries, no drama, no kids, no emotions, i was never happy lending my talents to be a female's crutch
Thanks for the concern, but we have both been 100% faithful to each other. We have a brutally honest and transparent relationship, so I know what's going on with her before anything even close to a kiss with someone else might have a chance to transpire. There's something cute and almost enviable about how much of a moron you are, keep playing, maybe someday you'll even make it to the front seat
No faithful person would allow or be ok with their spouse cheating.
If you read the entire thread you'd see that she feels like that would be her karma for having been unfaithful in her past relationships
Ghostface Trillah
God-level poster
Why would bytches still be on high school shyt?
Some of you nikkas sound like y'all kinda sad y'all didn't get the bytches in high school
Let me guess, once you get in your 30s, and get your money right, y'all be that nikka the hoes check for
your sodium levels real high right now lil buddy. How you gonna put your cape on while referring to woman as bytches and hoes?
And FYI, I am in my 30's, my money is right,and I am that guy who the ladies check for. It was the same way in high school too.
That makes a little sense.
I could never be with anyone who was a cheater unless they had a successful relationship after cheating that lasted at least a year and a half where they didn't cheat. I wouldn't be able to trust them.
Good luck.
I've been an observer of humans for 35 years. Had a keen interest in Sociology when I was in school. Married for 12 yrs so I'm authorized.
:hijowhoa:not encouraging anybody to fukk up a good thing. But there are blatant laws of nature that can't be ignored.
Pre-menopausal women must be in a state of competition in order to be happy. But at the same time they must also feel like they are in control. A man(ager) who is able to control those two elements will always have a woman who will kneel at his feet.
Me and the
You can still be a "good man", whatever that means, but at a minimum you need to at least flirt with other women(lord knows your woman is flirting her ass off). It really does help sustaine your testosterone levels and overall drive. Women are very intuitive-shyt is kind of creepy sometimes-and they pick up on shyt like this. If you can put a woman in a state of competition but at the same time make her feel secure, you'll never have to worry about sharing that girl.
You are welcome to try the Disney route. Give her the world, let her be your equal. I hope it works out for you. Maybe you're somehow different than the millions of souls that were ethered before you.
But remember these words, a man without options will always become undesirable to his spouse over time. You can dispute it, but you can't refute it.
But similar advice goes for brehettes. Don't let your man turn your sexy down. It's a fukking trap.
Next episode I'll school you youngstas on the importance of why you should only chase women who are "perceived" to be out of your league
GMB
Most women are insecure, though.
