No woman will respect a man without options

[The D-List Vet]

@Emperor_ReinScarf @PeridotPuss

 

[Ashley Banks]

@Juicy

what

 

[King Jae]

The concept of marriage & marriage vows are based on Christian religion. Per Christianity:


1 Corinthians 7:5
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

1 Corinthians 7:3
The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.


In answer to the question, "My wife won't have sex with me but once a month--if that! What is 'normal sexual relations'? She makes me out to be a sex maniac. What does the bible say, if anything, about this?" A response by Dean VanDruff.



1Cor 7:5 (NKJ) Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time...
1Cor 7:5 (Wey) Do not refuse one another, unless perhaps it is just for a time and by mutual consent...


"So, it is a sin to refuse sex to your spouse. More to the point are the verses just before":

1Cor 7:3-4 (NRS) The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.


"As to frequency, I suppose people differ. But it is not for an outsider to say in any case. If one partner wants sex, then God's command for marriage is clear enough: "no refusal" is permitted unless mutually agreed to for a time of prayer. That is the command of scripture. Your body belongs to her, and vice versa."


So outside of physical or mental issues involved to where the wife can't give her man sex on a regular basis in an marriage & as long as you have been a faithful, loving provider as a husband & haven't done something wrong to dishonor or lose a womans trust (infidelity, abuse, etc) the wife is negligent by not doing her Christian duty in pleasing the husband sexually.

Acts 17:11 Dialog: Denial of Sex Within Christian Marriage--a Sin

the point of this post is what exactly?....... try having sex with a woman not into it....dead p*ssy disease is real...

 

[MikelArteta]

It's true

Not that you have to chat to other chicks and hBe side chicks

But just knowing you have options

 

[philmonroe]

Here we go

Male trophies exist.

They definitely do but just like some dudes don't want the bad chick they know getting all the ballers and such coming at her maybe she on the same wave regarding dudes. I'm pretty sure me and her spoke about this before if this trilldealbaby with a new name which I think it is.

 

[O.G.B]

the point of this post is what exactly?....... try having sex with a woman not into it....dead p*ssy disease is real...

or they hounding her for sex....lotta dudes get the horny husband syndrome and constantly press they wives out for sex.... when you constantly press her out it makes her not want to give it to you....gotta do little shyt throughout the course of the day to build up momentum and a lil sexual tension....when she sees you she will want to rip you close off.

The point is that all this nonsense you wrote above shouldn't matter if you're a married man wanting to have sex with your wife. As I stated, "Outside physical or mental issues involved to where the wife can't give her man sex on a regular basis in an marriage & as long as you have been a faithful, loving provider as a husband & haven't done something wrong to dishonor or lose a womans trust (infidelity, abuse, etc)" it's a sin for a wife to withhold sexual relations from her husband.

Eph 5:3-17 (NIV) But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people... Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient... Find out what pleases the Lord. Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. But everything exposed by the light becomes visible, for it is light that makes everything visible... Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is.

 

[Steve Piffler]

i'm not doing mental gymnastics with a bytch. if you dig me, cool. if not, . i don't have time to employ all the bullshyt. it's a waste of time.

 

[drugxglory]

What the OP states is the truth.

If you are not desirable to other women, you won't de desirable to her. You hold no value.

It's why women generally don't go after virgins. It conveys he is undesirable to other women.

This is similar in concept to preselection (PUA) where you are desirable to a woman because other women want you. I've personally used this to my advantage.

Obviously coli women will come in here and deny this. That's why I always tell you all watch what a woman does, not what she says.

I notice that with celebrities

 

[philmonroe]

Males use perceived male opinions much heavier than women lean on other women's opinions. Which is why y'all assume we think similarly.

Women usually want a guy that lines up with who her mom and friends would think is good for her plus her own taste.

MOST bytches stopped liking nikkas just because other girls think dude is hot shyt , like back in high school.

Also PUA is bullshyt and comes across awkward IRL

I agree with the first bold and think its why people (male/female) don't do certain things they would do in other cases mainly dating wise because they are trying to conform to what they think is poppin in their specific circles.

Second part of bold I agree with mostly but its a lot of people (more than you may think) still on this flow.

 

[DallasTxRep]

This thread is already is danger of going to extreme ends as usual.

It's not being out here showing your woman receipts that all these women are checking for you, but staying sharp and desirable (with that same swag etc that got her in the first place) for her.

There it is right there

 

[Hijo de luna]

she don't care because its a messagboard... she seen me do it she don't care..nikkas be trying to get at her on facebook and twitter.....she shows me the shyt... we laff at this shyt.... when I put my phone down the coli doesn't exist.....complex theory... I know.... but some people have a life outside of the internet....

Perhaps there's a reason your woman doesn't mind you messaging other women

 

[King Jae]

The point is that all this nonsense you wrote above shouldn't matter if you're a married man wanting to have sex with your wife. As I stated, "Outside physical or mental issues involved to where the wife can't give her man sex on a regular basis in an marriage & as long as you have been a faithful, loving provider as a husband & haven't done something wrong to dishonor or lose a womans trust (infidelity, abuse, etc)" it's a sin for a wife to withhold sexual relations from her husband.

Eph 5:3-17 (NIV) But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people... Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient... Find out what pleases the Lord. Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. But everything exposed by the light becomes visible, for it is light that makes everything visible... Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is.

....the same bible that told you be an obedient slave too right?....hate to break it to you life happens.... know its hard not thinking with your Johnson...I got one too... but there have been times I denied her simply cause I'm tired or she getting on my nerves or she trying to do it because she knows im mad.... alot of dudes got complexes and seem to think that women are supposed to say how high when you tell them to jump... nikkas be hoppin in bed with musty balls askin for head...cmon bruh.... you have your own mind...why are you letting some book rewritten by the Council of Nicea that also has a psalm written by Shakespeare dictate your common sense?.... it's ok to have your own opinion in real life...on here I guess you to go with what the popular posters say..... ah well....carry on....

 

[King Jae]

Perhaps there's a reason your woman doesn't mind you messaging other women

if there is I wont find out....you don't know what anybody is doin 100% of the time.....perhaps hmmm I don't kno.....I could be trying to organize a threesome.... group think is funny on here...aint my fault you aint got the nuts to be 100 with your wife and to have powwows in your man cave and have to talk in your inside voice....

 

[Kalik]

That's what I don't get
Why is someone supposed to be attractive to other women if that someone is already in a relationship?

- blackierobinson

You are looking at it wrong... Think of it this way. You have to look better than the wolves out there circling your wife.

 

[TEH]

The premise of this post is extremely immature. But seeing as how society strives to prolong adolescence for as long as possible, I am not surprised. Grow up.

However, if you as an immature man have found yourself in a relationship with an immature woman then do what works for you. But don't try to contaminate others with your filth.

...

Queen came through with flawless logic

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