NOBODY wants to HANG OUT Anymore... Here's Why( 12 minute doc)

[DaHNIC82]

Damn how did we get to this point?

The lack of 3rd places is a major factor(as pointed in the video) and I believe that's a huge reason of the decline of human interaction

 

[Child_Of_God]

Social media and Covid ruined social interactions. I’ve noticed that people are a lot more grimy/less trustworthy, on edge/aggressive towards strangers compared to 10 years ago.

 

[Ski Mask]

Technology is separating those who like being around people from those who was forced to in the past.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Social media and Covid ruined social interactions. I’ve noticed that people are a lot more grimy/less trustworthy, on edge/aggressive towards strangers compared to 10 years ago.

Another thing is People are so eager and quick to cut you off just off a disagreement alone. This chick I was talking too literally blocked me on all socials over a back and forth over the Diddy trial

Like people really live vicariously through these weirdos

 

[Fade Runner 2049]

Another thing is People are so eager and quick to cut you off just off a disagreement alone. This chick I was talking too literally blocked me on all socials over a back and forth over the Diddy trial

Like people really live vicariously through these weirdos

You dodged a bullet breh.

 

[desjardins]

There seems to be two segments of people
People who have limited friend groups and don't go anywhere
And people who are in the mix and packing all the restaurants, clubs, and lounges every weekend
Sometimes I feel like all the doom and gloom reports of Americans turning into Hikikomori is overblown and the result of an echo chamber of people online
GO OUTSIDE. There are tons of people hanging out together. I did it last night, it's not a myth

 

[ba'al]

I wish this was true but its hella people outside, flooding traffic, hanging out and making noise. At least from my experience didn't watch though.

Another thing is People are so eager and quick to cut you off just off a disagreement alone. This chick I was talking too literally blocked me on all socials over a back and forth over the Diddy trial

Like people really live vicariously through these weirdos

You dodged a bullet breh.

Yeah people going no contact is very common. You was probably doing shyt that annoyed her and the "one thing" about diddy was the straw that broke the camels back. I cut off some of my friends from the hood who sat around getting high all day gossiping and sleeping with bust down rachets. Outgrow mfers

 

[010101]

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[Child_Of_God]

Another thing is People are so eager and quick to cut you off just off a disagreement alone. This chick I was talking too literally blocked me on all socials over a back and forth over the Diddy trial

Like people really live vicariously through these weirdos

Man, my own brother threaten to beat my ass and he stop talking to me for 8 months because I told this nikka to clean up after his dog (cuz there was dog turd all over the hallway) when I was over his crib.

I wanted to make a thread about it but it was too personal for me.

 

[Jasonmask]

It’s technology. I saw a video about a remote part of the world in a forest got access to WiFi and smartphones. The next year they went back and saw people we’re anti social and more lazy than they were and the locals wanted to sue the company for doing this because now their society has changed too much

 

[cyndaquil]

Social media.

 

[The Fade]

Probably cause some of y’all too ignorant and they had that Charleston White gif moment around y’all

People probably tired of hanging around edgelords who haven’t grown to too

 

[Wildin]

Another thing is People are so eager and quick to cut you off

Yeah people going no contact is very common.

It's part of the system. Because of how connected we are, relationships feel disposable.

fukk it, cut them off, I'll find someone new. It's easier to meet new people through apps and events and media, but forming new relationships might be harder because pretty much every one is like "fukk it, block" "fukk it, delete".

Then there's the mindset of toxic relationships and friendships which often negate the fact that relationships and friendships should have some bumps or obstacles that need to be worked out at some point. Because no relationship or friendship it's 100% always perfect. And that's what people want. They want to meet someone new, someone different and be best friends or have a great connection quickly and expect it to last with no bumps or obstacles.

So what do you do? Cut someone off because they're "toxic? Or work through it and come out stronger in the end? Most people cut too soon.

 

[Plankton]

And yet I see people outside at gatherings and events all the time on social media so someone is lying.

 

[ba'al]

It's part of the system. Because of how connected we are, relationships feel disposable.

fukk it, cut them off, I'll find someone new. It's easier to meet new people through apps and events and media, but forming new relationships might be harder because pretty much every one is like "fukk it, block" "fukk it, delete".

Then there's the mindset of toxic relationships and friendships which often negate the fact that relationships and friendships should have some bumps or obstacles that need to be worked out at some point. Because no relationship or friendship it's 100% always perfect. And that's what people want. They want to meet someone new, someone different and be best friends or have a great connection quickly and expect it to last with no bumps or obstacles.

So what do you do? Cut someone off because they're "toxic? Or work through it and come out stronger in the end? Most people cut too soon.

I feel where you coming from that could be a thread topic on it's own.

I'm all for cutting people off and going "no contact". I think some relationships are worth fighting for others are worth ending. Its scenario based. Not looking for a perfect relationship but I'm not looking for a trash one either where I'm burning myself out and putting in more effort than the other person.