None of my lil cousins have kids. Age range from 18-25. All of my friends had kids before 25. Wtf is going on and should we be worried?

[MikelArteta]

Speaking of marriage. We are all engaged. But none of have really sealed the deal.

For many reasons but mostly the cost. The women dont want to go to city hall. They want that real shyt. And, like many have said, the finances of a wedding just aint in the books.

That sucks I got married at the court in Uganda and then my reception cost around 1000

 

[Tetris v2.0]

I was 33 and 36 when my two kids were born. Did I wish I did it sooner? Yeah, I have less energy now, but I also needed to be financially secure to do this, and that was not the case 10+ years ago lol

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Kids are expensive psychologically and financially. One should have their mind and money right before having any.

 

[Phitz]

Everybody talks like its a good thing but in the long run it'd not. GenZ is not even trying to date or be in relationships either.

What if its an agenda? Again no other living creatures refuse to pair and procreate because of pleasure seeking carrot

Look at Japan...

Look at Jaoan

Look at Japan

You'll cry later on when a billion Indians coming in to replace the population

They're already crying in certain parts of America like Texas and New Jersey. I notice they prefer suburban white areas, then they move there and dirty the place up. They tend to stay away from black, hispanic, arab areas even if its suburban and upper class. Now the Pakistani and Bangladesh will, but theyre a little less pushy in general.

 

[EA]

Idk if you are being intentional with the tone sounding like a singular person and not a married home

I‘m married and the primary breadwinner. My wife and I are an elite team but I’m always looking at things from the financial aspect whereas she looks at things from the nurturing/love perspective. I also do all the budgeting for house so I’m constantly looking at the best way to utilize our money for our kids.

So my tone probably sounds singular because I never consider my wife’s finances when we’re making decisions for our family. I know it’s how I was raised but I always have to think about family rearing as if I was a sole provider.

 

[King_Kamala61]

Having kids is a detriment to living your life. You gotta balance in them Muthafukkas and they prolly don't want the responsibility. Kids are only cool when you can give them back lol.

Raising them is a chore.

 

[ScoopNScore]

What?

You’re concerned that 18-25 year olds aren’t having kids?

Misery loves company also, how many times has this topic been covered here for OP to think there's something in the water affecting fertility somehow both terminally online and smartdumb at the same time

 

[MikelArteta]

Having kids is a detriment to living your life. You gotta balance in them Muthafukkas and they prolly don't want the responsibility. Kids are only cool when you can give them back lol.

Raising them is a chore.

Demonic

Being a father is the goat feeling on earth

 

[King_Kamala61]

Demonic

Being a father is the goat feeling on earth

If you say so. Enjoy. We childless men enjoying dedicating our time to personal enrichment and we don't have an organic biological bill.

 

[Sir Richard Spirit]

If you say so. Enjoy. We childless men enjoying dedicating our time to personal enrichment and we don't have an organic biological bill.

Do I have to remind you that you like men? I fukk with you breh, but come on

 

[Sir Richard Spirit]

I never consider my wife’s finances when we’re making decisions for our family. I know it’s how I was raised but I always have to think about family rearing as if I was a sole provider.

Same here. I only expect my wife to cover bullshyt. Even when we plan vacations. We land on my payday and I pretty much paid for everything up to that point. I expect my wife to cover a few meals and do some shopping.anything else she can do is a bonus.

 

[richbosszar]

hard fo

Young people are not having kids man and it's bothering me. I understand the economy has a lot to do with it but from what I hear, A LOT less people are having abortions. Does that mean that we are chemically affected and a lot of folks can't reproduce? Is it simply the economy?

hard for young ppl to jusitfy having kids when rent and housing is this extreme, avg house is 400k

 

[King_Kamala61]

Do I have to remind you that you like men? I fukk with you breh, but come on

 

[concise]

Them people too young to be having kids it’s not delayed adulthood like someone said. Men shouldn’t be looking to have kids u til they are married and making decent stable income.

It definitely is delayed adulthood but it's all by design.

 

[Pazzy]

Look on the bright side. Theyre smarter than what you'll ever be. There really is hope.