NOT having children is such a blessing

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Naw havin a mini you runnin around is a blessing, helpin another life grow and develop into their own person is very rewarding. Sure it can be tough but it's expected, I hope y'all change yo minds and add to the black expansion
It costs $250,000 to raise a kid. No thanks you can have that debt.

Plus I dont want some lil crumb cruncher/curtian climber screaming in my ear as i'm trying to sleep after a long day at work.
 
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26 years old and my life is great.

I can wake up at my time. Stay up late nights on my time. I go on random bike rides whenever I want. I find cheap flights and telleys and travel to random cities all the time. I go to many concerts. My crib is the weed smokers lounge because and it's all good. And for not "ballin" my money is pretty long :leon:

I always wanted kids and feel like you owe the universe to make a little part of you, but if you don't want until after 30 to have a kid you are a fool
 

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Its a double edge sword.

Freedom is lost but a sense of purpose and responsibility is gained.


Kids aint for everyone and being single aint for everyone.


I'm in bachelor purgatory right now
You dont even lose your freedom like that

Its not prison lmfao
 

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Sounds like some shyt people with kids tell themselves late at night.
I wouldn't know anything about that, about to wake up tomorrow not worrying about a kid and go out to brunch.
you literally just described the most routine shyt that people with kids do all the time

This isnt even a fair debate because none of you are going to go your entire lives without having kids. And if uou do then i feel sorry for you
 

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Until you old as shyt, watchin other people get birthday parties and kisses from their kids, goin to other people kids graduations lookin like :mjcry:

Now you gotta front like your soul ain't burnin "I don't regret not havin kids one bit :ehh:"



:rudy:"aight nikka":mjlol:
Imagine that: being an older person with multiple healthy retirement accounts, a beautiful house, frequent flyer miles to gorgeous destinations around the world, in better shape and health than those around you because you didn't have to grey yourself out running after children and had the time and space to stay in shape, close friendships with other people who chose well, beautiful relationships with other unchained people, endless hobbies you can indulge in, being sad because your flabby and sick friends have baby vomit on their polyester polos and have to take off of work to go to graduations of kids who couldn't even make the National Honors Society. Lol.
Have kids, brehs.
 

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26 years old and my life is great.

I can wake up at my time. Stay up late nights on my time. I go on random bike rides whenever I want. I find cheap flights and telleys and travel to random cities all the time. I go to many concerts. My crib is the weed smokers lounge because and it's all good. And for not "ballin" my money is pretty long :leon:
Like I said, folks will come in and say anything to rationalize. However, the fact is with kids, if you're going to be actively involved in their lives, as any responsible adult should, you automatically lose a large chunk of your freedom. Of course that changes as they grow older, but for many years, virtually all of your decisions will have to factor in the child. You can't just get up and do things or decide not to do certain things anymore. I'm not talking to folks who have kids, but aren't actively in their lives; you folks already lost. :francis:
I feel you, but eventually I want to continue my legacy
:mjlol:Y'all always kill me with this too. Two hundred years from now, no one will remember you even existed, b. If you want to continue your legacy, go out and do something meaningful. Einstein, Shakespeare, and so forth, those names have and will exist for centuries.
 
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