Not Tryna Holla No More...

[Kano]

If you're short,OP RIP. It's hard out here for us .

If you're tall. .

But seriously, try new things. I was having sex with multiple women at the same time. Wasn't living right. Gave it all up. For three years I've been working on myself and taking care of myself. A decent amount of women have approached me. I don't go to the club I only go to sports bars for free UFC events or sports events and I don't have social media only linkedIn.

I do travel a lot, yoga, meditation, pottery class, art exhibitions, rock climbing, festivals, planetariums, botanical gardens, gym, swimming. Film festivals, comedy shows man there are so many different women out there you might want to try placing yourself in other atmospheres/ surroundings. I've met a handful of women at Starbucks while I was studying Arabic.

This is coming from a. Guy that's 5'7" but I've hit the gym hard and started eating healthy about 3 years ago. I've never been in Better shape. Got veins popping out my arms and biceps and shoulders and calves lol but my point is what you lack in something you make up for it in other areas.

I'm an architect and its really hard to meet african women. But having a decent car a decent house and a decent job really helps you get women. Trust me if I can attract some women you most definitely can as well. Maybe just switch it up for a bit.

 

[The D-List Vet]

Has that been verified??

i dont think he is lying and he actually seems happy, i dont think kent will be dumb enough to post her online at least i hope .

 

[Ronnie Macho]

A 6 year drought though? How sway?

Nah...not really...I say 6 since I've been "in love"...lmao...

 

[Ronnie Macho]

If you're short,OP RIP. It's hard out here for us .

If you're tall. .

But seriously, try new things. I was having sex with multiple women at the same time. Wasn't living right. Gave it all up. For three years I've been working on myself and taking care of myself. A decent amount of women have approached me. I don't go to the club I only go to sports bars for free UFC events or sports events and I don't have social media only linkedIn.

I do travel a lot, yoga, meditation, pottery class, art exhibitions, rock climbing, festivals, planetariums, botanical gardens, gym, swimming. Film festivals, comedy shows man there are so many different women out there you might want to try placing yourself in other atmospheres/ surroundings. I've met a handful of women at Starbucks while I was studying Arabic.

This is coming from a. Guy that's 5'7" but I've hit the gym hard and started eating healthy about 3 years ago. I've never been in Better shape. Got veins popping out my arms and biceps and shoulders and calves lol but my point is what you lack in something you make up for it in other areas.

I'm an architect and its really hard to meet african women. But having a decent car a decent house and a decent job really helps you get women. Trust me if I can attract some women you most definitely can as well. Maybe just switch it up for a bit.

Thanks man...you made me laugh and I'm the same height as you

 

[Kano]

Thanks man...you made me laugh and I'm the same height as you

We're going to make it Bruh. Don't give up

 

[GreenGrass]

i would not dwell on it too much when it comes to females. It's all in the mind. Just be yourself but always try to change your ways in order to make yourself better. End of the day, it is about creating a better version of your self.

 

[Ronnie Macho]

i would not dwell on it too much when it comes to females. It's all in the mind. Just be yourself but always try to change your ways in order to make yourself better. End of the day, it is about creating a better version of your self.

Thanks...I totally believe that!!!...

 

[kuts]

Great points...but in the real I don't know what I do wrong and I thought maybe I'm coming too weak lol...so that's interesting the funny thing is sometimes a chic will say "I gotta man but I appreciate the way you approached me, customer most guys will say...etc."... a few times I've been complimented for my approach...so what worked yesterday won't work today and time is money so can't be wasting time just would be nice to have a real woman that don't got a 100 pounds on me and pretty in the face...

The first thing is to be with a friend or in a group. A solo man will typically be looked at sideways. When you're with a friend you're naturally more comfortable and are less worried about other stuff bc at the end of the day you're still having fun. Also, if a place doesn't have a good guy to girl ratio then dead it as far as finding someone bc your value instantly drops no matter what. And focus on getting the number so you can build a relationship and hopefully turn it into something later. If you're thinking about making it happen that night then it will affect your judgement and you might mess up. Sure it's a numbers game, but once you find a good lead you have to know how to attack, and if you forget about sex now for a future return you will see a better ROI...unless she's being obvious that she wants it.

Idk your situation or anything so I'm making general points, but in my experience focusing on being fun and promoting yourself as a guy who is about something will get you further than looking to get laid, as most women don't think like men at all and need to feel comfortable/excited for things to go further. Building a relationship is the way to do that as you are able to leverage yourself. Getting with a girl comes down to putting yourself in a position of leverage where what you want from her has less value than what she wants from you. Women naturally have more leverage bc guys want sex, so if you delay that aspect and focus on what you bring then you start to build your own leverage and eventually you can start to compete.

That is exactly what you are saying

No, I'm saying that if you build a relationship with a woman first then you can look to see if things can be taken further. And if they cant then its whatever bc you still made a female friend which is an asset. Essentially I'm saying don't think about sex in order to get sex.

 

[Larry Lambo]

I feel OP. I do not do well with women right now.

Once I realized what type of girl I wanted to be with (physically, mentally, personality), it's been dry. The girls that I like aren't really giving me play.

It's cool, tho. I just focus on improving myself. I don't need a woman to make me happy. I'm going to keep doing me and maybe one day it will pop off.

 

[Ronnie Macho]

The first thing is to be with a friend or in a group. A solo man will typically be looked at sideways. When you're with a friend you're naturally more comfortable and are less worried about other stuff bc at the end of the day you're still having fun. Also, if a place doesn't have a good guy to girl ratio then dead it as far as finding someone bc your value instantly drops no matter what. And focus on getting the number so you can build a relationship and hopefully turn it into something later. If you're thinking about making it happen that night then it will affect your judgement and you might mess up. Sure it's a numbers game, but once you find a good lead you have to know how to attack, and if you forget about sex now for a future return you will see a better ROI...unless she's being obvious that she wants it.

Idk your situation or anything so I'm making general points, but in my experience focusing on being fun and promoting yourself as a guy who is about something will get you further than looking to get laid, as most women don't think like men at all and need to feel comfortable/excited for things to go further. Building a relationship is the way to do that as you are able to leverage yourself. Getting with a girl comes down to putting yourself in a position of leverage where what you want from her has less value than what she wants from you. Women naturally have more leverage bc guys want sex, so if you delay that aspect and focus on what you bring then you start to build your own leverage and eventually you can start to compete.




No, I'm saying that if you build a relationship with a woman first then you can look to see if things can be taken further. And if they cant then its whatever bc you still made a female friend which is an asset. Essentially I'm saying don't think about sex in order to get sex.

I feel you homie...but while you're building a relationship with her...she's fukkin' moe on the side and god knows who else...see the thing i come to realize is that
chris brown was right..."these hoes ain't loyal"...and um...yeah...it be the good girls you think are winners and aren't hoes that turn out to be chicken dinners...i'ma straight to the point guy...not that i'm askin' for ass...i can't even get a number right now and if I do she don't call back or act snotty...so i get it i'm boring or somethin'...so i can get a fat bytch every now and then on the humble but i'm thru with lovin' fat bytches!!!...

 

[Ronnie Macho]

I feel OP. I do not do well with women right now.

Once I realized what type of girl I wanted to be with (physically, mentally, personality), it's been dry. The girls that I like aren't really giving me play.

It's cool, tho. I just focus on improving myself. I don't need a woman to make me happy. I'm going to keep doing me and maybe one day it will pop off.

I feel you homie...but the girl you want doesn't exist...the girl we want (most men) was created by television and that bytch really is make believe...you wouldn't believe the coldness
that dwells in the hearts of these fine bytches...I'm tellin' u somethin' man

 

[Sk3ptical]

only you simps have these problems

 

[Ronnie Macho]

bruh stack your money invest build and the right woman will come to you

or you can go the a$$hole route and just find fukk and forget em either way its your choice

Thanks...now that is great advice...more in line with where I'm at but by the time she comes along I will be a very very bitter a$$hole and just fukk her and keep it movin'...

 

[Ronnie Macho]

only you simps have these problems

That's true...that's why we blast at fools like you...i know on some days i don't feel like hearin' that shyt...and would just smoke a nikka...like you...

 

[kuts]

I feel you homie...but while you're building a relationship with her...she's fukkin' moe on the side and god knows who else...see the thing i come to realize is that
chris brown was right..."these hoes ain't loyal"...and um...yeah...it be the good girls you think are winners and aren't hoes that turn out to be chicken dinners...i'ma straight to the point guy...not that i'm askin' for ass...i can't even get a number right now and if I do she don't call back or act snotty...so i get it i'm boring or somethin'...so i can get a fat bytch every now and then on the humble but i'm thru with lovin' fat bytches!!!...

I understand where you're coming from, in this country it's hard to trust anyone. Indeed, I can't really talk about American girls because my wife is an African woman born in London, and she's perfect. I always felt distrustful of the women here, black or otherwise, so I never really bothered outside of having a good time. But that's not good either bc there are plenty of good women here with love in their hearts. Also, Chris Brown ain't shyt...bruh had two different chicks in Rihanna and Karreuche who were perfect for him and went out like a bytch and knocked up some hoe...that's what insecurity gets you in the end.

In the end, we all have to risk our hearts on these females, but there are good ones out there if you don't give up.