BlueHeffner
Veteran
Nobody wants to die alone
Need more post like this on here. 🫡 There's a lotta bitter bıtch nıggas here. As you thinketh is the environment you create.@ThrobbingHood
Quality poster. I hope he has the eye of discernment and got him a real one.
Married life is blissful with the right woman.
My Wife is a trip, but she holds me accountable, inspires me to be a better son of god, husband and father. She knows our goals, holds the kids and house down, doesn’t spend all the money, and still has that wet wet 6 years later.
If we were to crash and burn tomorrow, I wouldn’t regret it. I know I had a great run and my daughters have an amazing mother. We would be able to co parent well. We in blue ridge for the weekend about have some adult time. Grandma came with us and kids knocked out.
TheColi is full of pro-black militants who also openly celebrate lifestyle choices that eliminate the black population
"Don't get married and have children brehs."
"If you want a wife and kids that love you, then you're a fool"
"It's fear mongering!"
But let a random woman on Twitter say she doesn't want a husband or kids and y'all will be the first ones in here on a 7 page thread calling her miserable and saying she will die alone.
I've realized and accepted that majority of y'all on this site are just sexless dudes that are frustrated with women
There’s a solid group of posters here that enjoy their married lives, but know it takes work. Many share the good and bad on here.Need more post like this on here. 🫡 There's a lotta bitter bıtch nıggas here. As you thinketh is the environment you create.
Contrary to the negative post on here, I know folks that have been blessed in more ways than 1 being faithful and married.
Then I know nıggas and hoe ass wives stressed out and cheating on their spouses. They're broke, faking having financial freedom and discourage everyone from having kids and settling down.
If you don't water your plants and the sanctity of your marriage or choose the wrong partner, of course your life is gonna be in shambles.
Nıggas just be marrying beautiful headaches and adding liabilities to there life. A wise man marries an asset and cherishes that shıt.
It’s wasn’t any thing enough for that cat to flip like that. Thank god it’s the internet because if he said some shyt like that in real life I’d choke his ass to sleep. I disagree about the sexual aspect. I feel like men should if they want and can sleep with as many women as they safely can. Another point I disagree with is being content with solitude. I mean if it happens when you’re old make the best of your situation but as a young man your goal should eventually be to find a woman to grown old with. As someone who has worked in an industry based around the geriatric population there’s nothing sadder than an old man without children or family to be with him in old age.What did you disagree with?
Real. +Repbabble
A lot of older men don't realize the world has changed and it's no longer 1989. Wasted a lot of time with nothing to show for it, now they stuck reminiscing about how life could've been, or what it used to be.
Being in your 40s single with your own house paid off and a business
I wouldn't be in this position if I was married. Couldn't have took the chances I did or weathered the droughts.
Im currently facing charges cause I assaulted a neighbor over property violations. Man
It's being plead down to a misdemeanor. No impact on me whatsoever cause I won't be applying for jobs/apartments anytime soon, fukk a city permit I run pop ups. Prison time and criminal records are setbacks for poor people. It's nothing.
Nba league pass NFL Sunday ticket. Sports books. Every video game/TV show/movie ever made is available 24/7. Streaming from the basement game room. Face timing from the back patio. A culture that encourages woman to drink and have random casual sex whenever I go out
Some dudes need a wife. Don't be that guy. Handle your business and organize your finances. Own shyt before u hit 35, don't be a lifetime leaser/renter. Start with your car and go from there
U can be in your 40s living the life u wanna live with minimum repurcussions for your actions,
or
u can be divorced. Crying about how she won't let you see your kids this week. Child support. Wage garnishments. Jail time over child support. Jail time over driver license suspensions going back to unpaid child support. Working two jobs in your 50s due to child support. Child support money being spent on designer bags. New men raising your kids. New cars being bought with your child support money. Gotta drive to Atlanta every week cause that's where she moved to. Sounds like hell
It’s wasn’t any thing enough for that cat to flip like that.
Thank god it’s the internet because if he said some shyt like that in real life I’d choke his ass to sleep.
This isn’t valid. Because whilst it’s our natural biological imperative to do so, ‘safely’ has too many variables attached for this to be done frequently: condoms can’t stop all diseases, they break too, women can set you up, you can end up ‘trapped’.I disagree about the sexual aspect. I feel like men should if they want and can sleep with as many women as they safely can.
I never said you should stay solo, I said you should be content with solitude, meaning enjoying your own company. Your happiness should never be dependant on one person.Another point I disagree with is being content with solitude. I mean if it happens when you’re old make the best of your situation but as a young man your goal should eventually be to find a woman to grown old with.
I don’t doubt that for one second but there are plenty of men who end up in that same position despite having children and an ex-wife. Which is why men need to focus on themselves and making the right decisions, including choosing the right spouse and raising their children properly.As someone who has worked in an industry based around the geriatric population there’s nothing sadder than an old man without children or family to be with him in old age.
All those things you mentioned that men do...Coli spends so much time talking about older single women as if older single men aren't in a worse situation. Guys out here playing videogames all night, eating like shyt, not taking care of themselves, staying in the house all day, not having any real life friends, not being close to their families. Older women are out here traveling, having friends and being involved with their family. Mentally that's much more healthy than what a lot of older men are doing in the US.