By at least (pretending) to listen to the other side you give them a feeling that you are trying to maintain civility.
Just automatically shelling up and calling them names give them an excuse to do the shyt that they've been doing.
which clearly ISN'T helping anyone.
Disagreeing with someone, and maintaining civility throughout are not mutually exclusive.
Just automatically shelling up and calling them names give them an excuse to do the shyt that they've been doing.
which clearly ISN'T helping anyone.
Disagreeing with someone, and maintaining civility throughout are not mutually exclusive.