Obligation fatigue Is a real thing I never knew it was a name for this 🤔🤔🤔🤔

[RadaMillz]

helping family is stressful for one simple fact, other family members are not contributing, a lot of weight is placed on shoulders.

 

[frush11]

It's called being tired of shyt and strained. Wtf is the need for a fancy title.

Only person who would stress me out to support is my mom. Everyone else is getting a prayer and best wishes

If you listened to what he said, and then your comment really doesnt apply to his specific situation

 

[Taharqa]

I was doing the same for family stressing my self out over their fukk ups etc. On top of dealing with accidently being important at my past and current job.

I got to a point and said fukk it they'll either sink or swim. It hurts my soul, but I'm doing a lot better mentally not providing and worrying about them 24/7.

 

[TRUEST]

it’s sh1t like this that keeps blacks in a helpless position. The one person who makes is not treated like a human. They’re just resources others feel entitled to tap into whenever. And then get mad when you check ‘em.

 

[ROBEEZYKILLA]

helping family is stressful for one simple fact, other family members are not contributing, a lot of weight is placed on shoulders.

Yea I mean whose gonna rely on your 20 yr old 300 pound unemployed loser cousin in the family or can’t depend on your lazy wife if you’re the grinder in the fam in great shape in his 30s of course everyone is going to gravitate towards you to help and shyt is stressful man you do become the shoulders but this shyt should never be the case all the men should be contributing…I blame it on this new generation it’s all laziness…when I’m sick or take a day off or don’t answer my phone its chaos everybody crying it’s like the world is ending its insane no man should have to go through this shyt peace of mind is my real happiness shyt hop in 2k and get my mind off shyt until wifey or daughter interrupt me with some shyt like “daddy im hungry” worst buzz kill ever
bytch you got a car(that I bought)
Go get it yourself!

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

tfw i don't have any kids but i gotta play everybody mama around here