There are a number of Iran hawks who have wanted to bomb Iran for decades independent of Israel's influence. It goes back to the many embarrassments they feel that Iran has caused us, such as the hostage crisis, Iran Contra, etc. Someone like John Bolton strikes me as someone who would want to bomb Iran regardless, and if I remember correctly, Trump was upset at Netanyahu for not participating fully in the Solemani assassination.
I don't think you're an antisemite, but blaming this more on Israel than the US will inevitably breed more antisemitism. This is part of the pattern of the dumb wars that the US has fought over the decades (Vietnam, Iraq, etc.).
The problem here is not Israel, the problem is empire. The US's attempts to maintain hegemony have been detrimental to the world in much the same way the British Empire's attempts were, look at all the bullshyt the British did (Israel/Palestine, India/Pakistan) that still cause global instability to this day.
We are already aware of Israel's prerogatives, we are already aware that Netanyahu and his cabinet want regional hegemony and to destroy the chance of a Palestinian State. But as the more powerful country providing them resources, the onus is on us, not on them.