OGs is there a way to keep your girl w/o coming off as a simp?

Boogie

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She saw some texts in my phone I thought I had deleted. I don’t want it to be over, but I don’t wanna kiss ass either :yeshrug:
 

Carlton Banks

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Be apologetic but don't act apologetic. Meaning, you told her sorry once and that was that. No begging, no crying in the rain, no Tyrese what more do you want from me type videos... None of that shyt. Just keep it pushing and act like none of it effects you. It'll take some time but as long as you start on your purpose or big things happening for you she ain't really going anywhere.
 

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Listening to some of the advice in here will have you single as a dollar bill... @oakclifftxmade gave you good advice. You should apologize if you messed up. How about you treat your woman the way you would like to be treated? Stop playing games and worrying about "simping." If she's a quality woman worth your time she won't see it in that way.
 

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Be honest. If you were messing around on her, take ownership. If you were not messing around then don't apologise and let the relationship end if it has to.
 

Jhoon

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Be honest. If you were messing around on her, take ownership. If you were not messing around then don't apologise and let the relationship end if it has to.
Being a considerate human being is offensive to nice a nice human?

What logic.
 
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