OGs is there a way to keep your girl w/o coming off as a simp?

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Feel sorry for the woman that ends up with you dudes. They’ll never know true love or happiness. Y’all are some shytty human beings all around. smh can’t even be genuinely sorry for hurting someone that loves you.
So you expect a man to wallow in sorrow?
 

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So you expect a man to wallow in sorrow?

So you either wallow in sorrow or act like you hurting someone that loves you doesn’t affect you? No in-between? But I guess that would be too much ask from a cheater because they obviously give no fukks about you in the first place. So I guess it would be too much to ask them to care about you. And any woman that stays with a cheater clearly likes being treated poorly and has no self esteem so ignore me.
 

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How old were the txts op?

If you can't be man enough to tell her what's good then she going to take any act as a groveling simp.

Be honest if you lacked good judgment, and if she don't come back, be a man and take that L as a lesson.

That's really all you can do :yeshrug:
 

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Feel sorry for the woman that ends up with you dudes. They’ll never know true love or happiness. Y’all are some shytty human beings all around. smh can’t even be genuinely sorry for hurting someone that loves you.

Women say one thing then do another. You're mad because my answer isn't PC. You and every woman always want to hear "the right thing" ... But the right thing never keeps a woman.

I bet you think if a man cheats, he should just be honest and tell his woman, even if there's no chance of him getting caught?

I bet you think if a man really likes a girl, he should just tell her and be honest?

I bet you think a man should just be upfront and "be himself" if he's trying to have sex?

The reality is being a nice guy or good man or "honest God fearing" man never works out for y'all and y'all always stick to the a$$holes and players. This thread is for a man looking for real effective advice. Not some shyt that makes you feel morally good inside.
 
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Women say one thing then do another. You're mad because my answer isn't PC. You and every woman always want to hear "the right thing" ... But the right thing never keeps a woman.

I bet you think if a man cheats, he should just be honest and tell his woman, even if there's no chance of him getting caught?

I bet you think if a man really likes a girl, he should just tell her and be honest?

I bet you think a man should just be upfront and "be himself" if he's trying to have sex?

The reality is being a nice guy or good man or "honest God fearing" man never works out for y'all and y'all always stick to the a$$holes and players. This thread is for a man looking for real effective advice. Not some shyt that makes you feel morally good inside.

how does any of this change what I said? You still lack the ability to be a good person because you’re afraid of how you will look. You treat someone that loves and cares about you badly and then you act like you don’t care and can’t even give her a proper apology because you believe that will give you the best results. That’s why I said any woman that chooses to be with a man like you will never know happiness or how it feels to to be loved because her man is more concerned with how he looks or what is more “effective” than how he treats people.
 

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As cold as his advice was that’s actually how we have to treat you all. Because, get this, it works...

Besides, women are more colder and devious than men will ever be.

So if a woman is a genuinely good women to you, this is how you plan to treat her because it worked on other women?

As I’ve always said, I always wondered why women hated men so much when I was younger, I clearly see why. Be submissive, let your man lead you, cook, clean, work hard, dedicate your life to making your man happy and this is how your man is taught to treat you. :wow:
 

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So if a woman is a genuinely good women to you, this is how you plan to treat her because it worked on other women?

As I’ve always said, I always wondered why women hated men so much when I was younger, I clearly see why. Dedicate your life to making a man happy to end up with this :wow:
So if a woman is a genuinely good women to you, this is how you plan to treat her because it worked on other women?

As I’ve always said, I always wondered why women hated men so much when I was younger, I clearly see why. Dedicate your life to making a man happy to end up with this :wow:
Sorry. Had to interject but vast majority of women do not dedicate their lives to make a man happy :russ: And the same vice versa.
 

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how does any of this change what I said? You still lack the ability to be a good person because you’re afraid of how you will look. You treat someone that loves and cares about you badly and then you act like you don’t care and can’t even give her a proper apology because you believe that will give you the best results. That’s why I said any woman that chooses to be with a man like you will never know happiness or how it feels to to be loved because her man is more concerned with how he looks or what is more “effective” than how he treats people.

Boo hoo. I spent my teen years being the good guy that constantly got friend zoned. All because I was listening to women like you. Women who have this huge moral compass yet end up with the worst men. The a$$holes, players, narcissist. Men who don't give a shyt about women and their feelings were the ones with the highest success rate with them. So sorry if that's the path I choose to go. Listening to women is how you stay woman-less.

If women wanted "good people" then why are all the good men struggling with women and all the a$$holes are winning? The fukk I care about being a good person to women for? shyt just leaves you with a dry dikk and big bill. Y'all did this shyt to y'all selves. If y'all words matched up with your actions men wouldn't have to resort to being evil and narcissists to win out here. There's way too many good young boys and men out here frustrated with women all because they're actually listening to them instead of muting them.

P.S. my girlfriend is MADLY in love with me :sas1::umad:
 

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Sorry. Had to interject but vast majority of women do not dedicate their lives to make a man happy :russ: And the same vice versa.

This is what men shame women for NOT doing. If a woman isn’t solely focused on getting married and only making her man happy she gets shamed in oblivion but it’s like.....for what?
 
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Boo hoo. I spent my teen years being the good guy that constantly got friend zoned. All because I was listening to women like you. Women who have this huge moral compass yet end up with the worst men. The a$$holes, players, narcissist. Men who don't give a shyt about women and their feelings were the ones with the highest success rate with them. So sorry if that's the path I choose to go. Listening to women is how you stay woman-less.

If women wanted "good people" then why are all the good men struggling with women and all the a$$holes are winning? The fukk I care about being a good person to women for? shyt just leaves you with a dry dikk and big bill. Y'all did this shyt to y'all selves. If y'all words matched up with your actions men wouldn't have to resort to being evil and narcissists to win out here. There's way too many good young boys and men out here frustrated with women all because they're actually listening to them instead of muting them.

P.S. my girlfriend is MADLY in love with me

Poor girl. Maybe one day she’ll find a man that will be good to her. Or hopefully she’s just like you.
 
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