Oh great, they're airing out another Black professor

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like one poster said what other group is doing that?
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Yaaaay, celebrating black dysfunction, the media’s favorite pastime.
How is it black dysfunction. Because she couldn't find a babysitter?

That happens, you can be happily married with willing grandparents on boths side, plenty of money for babysitters and still have scheduling conflicts with childcare.
 

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How is it black dysfunction. Because she couldn't find a babysitter?

That happens, you can be happily married with willing grandparents on boths side, plenty of money for babysitters and still have scheduling conflicts with childcare.

Because she shouldn’t have even had a child in the first place. Single motherhood is dysfunctional.
 

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Because she shouldn’t have even had a child in the first place. Single motherhood is dysfunctional.

Is your mom a single mom? I ask because I notice you always make comments about single moms. I’ve been curious if it’s because of what you went through as a child of a single mom or if it’s because you genuinely believe that single moms are the sole cause of dysfunction (as opposed to the invisible fathers, because studies show that absentee fathers more so than single mothers is the root cause of many issues children face, especially in our community). We also don’t know her situation, her boyfriend or husband could have been at work lol.
 
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Because she shouldn’t have even had a child in the first place. Single motherhood is dysfunctional.
First why are you assuming she is a single mother? and regardless why shouldn't she have a baby? college students are grown adults. baby was infant age too so she wasn't underage when she had her. even if she was single doesn't mean there is dysfunction, relationships sometimes don't work out. Daddy might just be busy working
 

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A lot the angriest dudes at Black women come out of single mother homes.
oh I know. I’ve always assumed that the posters who always have smoke for single mothers tend to for a reason. I grew up in a two parent home and most of those that I knew did too, so it’s always been foreign to me to harbor that level of anger, resentment etc because it seems so personal. It’s interesting because I am a single mother although my son’s father co-parents with me so I suppose it’s different… but if my son felt that much anger and had that much smoke for me and women like me, blaming me and women like me for every issue in the community, I would feel like I truly failed him.

a lot of black kids need counseling, especially black boys who didn’t have fathers.
 

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Is your mom a single mom? I ask because I notice you always make comments about single moms. I’ve been curious if it’s because of what you went through as a child of a single mom or if it’s because you genuinely believe that single moms are the sole cause of dysfunction (as opposed to the invisible fathers who studies show that absenteeism more so than single mothers is the root cause of many issues children face, especially in our community).

No, my parents have been married for almost 30 years.
Are there good single mothers out there? Of course. That still doesn’t mean it isn’t dysfunctional.

I’m not angry at single mothers. I think they’re responsible for their outcomes based on their behavior and poor choices.
 

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oh I know. I’ve always assumed that the posters who always have smoke for single mothers tend to for a reason. I grew up in a two parent home and most of those that I knew did too, so it’s always been foreign to me to harbor that level of anger, resentment etc because it seems so personal. It’s interesting because I am a single mother although my son’s father co-parents with me so I suppose it’s different… but if my son felt that much anger and had that much smoke for me and women like me, blaming me and women like me for every issue in the community, I would feel like I truly failed him.

a lot of black kids need counseling, especially black boys who didn’t have fathers.
Sometimes, it can be frustrated incels/single who grew up in happy homes too, they mad because they're alone and think single mothers are to blame for not staying with them.
 

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when you have children you have to make sacrifices even if that means either paying for a baby sitter or waiting a little later to go back to school. even tho the professor was a good dude for doing that. that mom should be ashamed to have her teacher hold HER baby while her teacher is teaching. like one poster said what other group is doing that? Why didn't she use birth control? where is the father? If she knew that there was nobody to watch her kid she needs to get a job an stack her money.


that's why some females do shyt like this because we allow it.

we are permeant children at large smh
Y'all nikkas need help :gucci:
People bring their kids to school all the time, students and professors alike :dwillhuh:
Everyone but y'all weird ass nikkas know its a regular part of life :unimpressed:
 

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Lincoln University professor goes viral for holding student's baby during class

September 13, 2021

When Imani Lamarr told her professor she had to miss class because she couldn't find a babysitter, his answer was 'No.'


LINCOLN UNIVERSITY, Pennsylvania (WPVI) -- The story of how a Lincoln University college professor ended up holding a baby during class was life-changing for a 21-year-old student who was finally able to take notes.

"I've always wanted to go to an HBCU. So, I decided what's better than the first, so I chose Lincoln," said Imani Lamarr, who is now a senior at the university.

Two years ago, she was taking a class with Dr. Aqeel Dix in the health sciences department.

She had just come back to school from taking a semester off after giving birth to her son prematurely. Lamarr's son had to spend months in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU).

"It was really hard. Every day going to the hospital, seeing him and not being able to help him, it was hard," Lamarr recalled.

Christopher Murphy, who Lamarr had named for her father, had become her world and her schedule revolved around his.

When she told Dix she had to miss class because she couldn't find a babysitter, his answer was no.

"'No.' He told me no. And I was just looking at him like, no I can't miss class? I don't have nobody to watch my baby," she said.

"I'm not going to have one of my students miss my class because they have no one to watch their child. That's just not an option for me," said Dix.

Instead, he told her to bring her son to school.

"That's my character. I don't mind helping my students wherever they need me," he said.

Lamarr had reservations about bringing her baby to class. How would he react? Would he be a distraction to other students? Would she be able to focus? But when Dix started lecturing, something changed for Lamarr, she realized she could do this.

"I never thought that it would come to that, and to have somebody who's there for me...who really cares and genuinely wants to me finish and finish strong, it meant a lot," she said.

Lamarr is now a few months from graduating and she has two of her favorite guys, her mentor, and her now healthy 2-year-old son to thank.

"You really don't understand how much this meant to me," she said

I like how you got some of these nikkas that only feed on negativity into this positive post :salute:

hit them b*stards with the
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where's the Baby's dad?

She should have used birth control

Why couldn't she hold her own baby?

Stop being obtuse. The media loves promoting the “black struggle” under the guise of “feel good stories.” You can’t be this naive. You really think they showed this to show us in a good light or to passively mock us?

I don’t get why some black people are so quick to tell their “struggle” to these CACs. Just attention starved. Other cultures have their fukk ups but they know better than to voluntarily broadcast it. Then again, shame is something that’s absent with most black folk.
Y'all nikkas above need help. Go log off. Get some mental health care.
Didn't this go viral with a different black professor? Feeling some deja vu here.
Last couple of times it was a white professor. before that, there was a Black professor at an HBCU.

It happens all the time, happened during one of my law school classes.
 
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