Okay lets keep it 100. How do you approach strangers you're attracted to?

[Scustin Bieburr]

I've been hearing a lot of stories of men who make their agenda known from a mile away and whose thirst is written all over them even before they say something. I've heard that a simple "hey, I thought you looked beautiful and I just had to say hello" is actually pretty rare these days. Share your experiences and approaches here

 

[no.]

I don't.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Say anything...shyt is not rocket science
No cotdamn method..

How many times are yakk gonna make this thread

 

[At30wecashout]

Observational humor or intellectual opulence.

Depending on the venue and time of day, you can simply strike up a convo in passing based on those two principles. I got this idea after I got out of highschool.

Suppose you are at a live-music venue or even in the grocery store. Take a look at what she is wearing. Does she have a cart? if so, what is in it?
What clothing is she wearing? Does she look upbeat and cheery, or tired and just trying to get through the day?

It is easy to strike up a conversation with humor about clothing or some such, but you have to be able to approximate within seconds her headspace.
For Observational humor, for example, if she is upbeat and cheery, and she is say...staring at whole wheat in the bread aisle. You should have noticed this the moment
you came into the aisle, and if she is fairly casually dressed and taking her time, you sorta peruse the breads and get closer.
Most women will look up if you are looking in their direction and say "hi" whether it is brief, or a lingering salutation.

You could say "Hi" back, but let her say it first. Women typically feel more sensitive to space (aka you walking into hers) and will greet first. From there, your retort should be, if she smiled,
something like:

"Hi/good morning/good evening. Whatever you are getting, I want that, cause you look very happy to be here."
However, the thing to keep in consideration, since she is someone you haven't met yet, is how you are looking at her. Don't stand flush like

You = I->>> <<<-I = her

That sort of puts her in a situation of "Look directly at me, I demand your attention." You want to ease in and let her comfort level rise, hence you should stand like

Bread wall here
You \->>> <<<-/ her

Look at the product. Spark a natural connection to her through that choice, but set it up in such a way that she doesn't rush the conversation and abandon her
shopping cart to get away from you.

With observational humor, your goal is to
1. Get her to laugh
2. Get her to tell you a bit about herself
3. Let her know as little as possible about yourself.

It should be a minute of getting familiar, then a minute of closing the deal, assuming you are both on a time crunch (don't linger on a woman, ever.)
Just get her to laugh, take in information, and see where she is at. Sometimes you get lucky and they will be down to go with you SAME DAY to get a drink or something, otherwise, you get
a name, contact information, then end with something funny and thoughtful. Make the rest of her day about "that guy she met while doing regular shyt."

Part 2 coming in another post.

 

[no.]

Observational humor or intellectual opulence.

Depending on the venue and time of day, you can simply strike up a convo in passing based on those two principles. I got this idea after I got out of highschool.

Suppose you are at a live-music venue or even in the grocery store. Take a look at what she is wearing. Does she have a cart? if so, what is in it?
What clothing is she wearing? Does she look upbeat and cheery, or tired and just trying to get through the day?

It is easy to strike up a conversation with humor about clothing or some such, but you have to be able to approximate within seconds her headspace.
For Observational humor, for example, if she is upbeat and cheery, and she is say...staring at whole wheat in the bread aisle. You should have noticed this the moment
you came into the aisle, and if she is fairly casually dressed and taking her time, you sorta peruse the breads and get closer.
Most women will look up if you are looking in their direction and say "hi" whether it is brief, or a lingering salutation.

You could say "Hi" back, but let her say it first. Women typically feel more sensitive to space (aka you walking into hers) and will greet first. From there, your retort should be, if she smiled,
something like:

"Hi/good morning/good evening. Whatever you are getting, I want that, cause you look very happy to be here."
However, the thing to keep in consideration, since she is someone you haven't met yet, is how you are looking at her. Don't stand flush like

You = I->>> <<<-I = her

That sort of puts her in a situation of "Look directly at me, I demand your attention." You want to ease in and let her comfort level rise, hence you should stand like

Bread wall here
You \->>> <<<-/ her

Look at the product. Spark a natural connection to her through that choice, but set it up in such a way that she doesn't rush the conversation and abandon her
shopping cart to get away from you.

With observational humor, your goal is to
1. Get her to laugh
2. Get her to tell you a bit about herself
3. Let her know as little as possible about yourself.

It should be a minute of getting familiar, then a minute of closing the deal, assuming you are both on a time crunch (don't linger on a woman, ever.)
Just get her to laugh, take in information, and see where she is at. Sometimes you get lucky and they will be down to go with you SAME DAY to get a drink or something, otherwise, you get
a name, contact information, then end with something funny and thoughtful. Make the rest of her day about "that guy she met while doing regular shyt."

Part 2 coming in another post.

it's levels to this shyt

 

[killacal]

Say anything...shyt is not rocket science
No cotdamn method..

How many times are yakk gonna make this thread

You can give a man a fish breh

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You can give a man a fish breh

Dudes turning this into algebra

Lol at needing approach methods


Same chick u worried about what to say to her but 7 hrs prior she was sucking d1ck and taking nut

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Observational humor or intellectual opulence.

Depending on the venue and time of day, you can simply strike up a convo in passing based on those two principles. I got this idea after I got out of highschool.

Suppose you are at a live-music venue or even in the grocery store. Take a look at what she is wearing. Does she have a cart? if so, what is in it?
What clothing is she wearing? Does she look upbeat and cheery, or tired and just trying to get through the day?

It is easy to strike up a conversation with humor about clothing or some such, but you have to be able to approximate within seconds her headspace.
For Observational humor, for example, if she is upbeat and cheery, and she is say...staring at whole wheat in the bread aisle. You should have noticed this the moment
you came into the aisle, and if she is fairly casually dressed and taking her time, you sorta peruse the breads and get closer.
Most women will look up if you are looking in their direction and say "hi" whether it is brief, or a lingering salutation.

You could say "Hi" back, but let her say it first. Women typically feel more sensitive to space (aka you walking into hers) and will greet first. From there, your retort should be, if she smiled,
something like:

"Hi/good morning/good evening. Whatever you are getting, I want that, cause you look very happy to be here."
However, the thing to keep in consideration, since she is someone you haven't met yet, is how you are looking at her. Don't stand flush like

You = I->>> <<<-I = her

That sort of puts her in a situation of "Look directly at me, I demand your attention." You want to ease in and let her comfort level rise, hence you should stand like

Bread wall here
You \->>> <<<-/ her

Look at the product. Spark a natural connection to her through that choice, but set it up in such a way that she doesn't rush the conversation and abandon her
shopping cart to get away from you.

With observational humor, your goal is to
1. Get her to laugh
2. Get her to tell you a bit about herself
3. Let her know as little as possible about yourself.

It should be a minute of getting familiar, then a minute of closing the deal, assuming you are both on a time crunch (don't linger on a woman, ever.)
Just get her to laugh, take in information, and see where she is at. Sometimes you get lucky and they will be down to go with you SAME DAY to get a drink or something, otherwise, you get
a name, contact information, then end with something funny and thoughtful. Make the rest of her day about "that guy she met while doing regular shyt."

Part 2 coming in another post.

Damn breh you've got a whole system in place and shyt

 

[killacal]

Dudes turning this into algebra

Lol at needing approach methods


Same chick u worried about what to say to her but 7 hrs prior she was sucking d1ck and taking nut

B b b but unicorns and gummy bears and wine by the fireplace

 

[Mowgli]

I've been hearing a lot of stories of men who make their agenda known from a mile away and whose thirst is written all over them even before they say something. I've heard that a simple "hey, I thought you looked beautiful and I just had to say hello" is actually pretty rare these days. Share your experiences and approaches here

Hi my name is

And you are

You from out this way?

You stay around here

What are you up to

Yea I'm doing xyz

Light compliment. You have nice skin.

Say you're in a hurry but you'd like to continue talkin.

Ask what's your number <not can i have your number>while holding phone to input number.

Call her later and don't say anything stupid and take her to a free activory or the crib.

Try this on 20 to 25 dimes and one will probably give you a number if you aren't a fukking creepy looking fukkboy.

 

[At30wecashout]

Intellectual Opulence

This technique for talking to women requires more than smooth talk, you have to actually spend time learning and trying new things just so
that you always have something new to talk about, and if need be, you can carry on a conversation with a woman about something while dropping
gems.

I called this philosophy Intellectual Opulence because while humor and smooth talk can get many types of women, there is an electricity you can
tap into if you can talk about several topics with some level of understanding.

My current job for instance is at a cafe doing barista work, and I have free reign of the type of music I can play. 99% of the time I have on old
19teens-1920s big band and swing music. When a lady comes into the shop and remarks on the music, I can somewhat probe and find what
interests her about it, and it can lead to a ton of topics.
-The roaring 20s
-percussion instruments
-swing dancing
-20's fashion
-speakeasies and 1920's era Chicago

The idea, whether you meet a woman in a comic book shop or a toy shop, is to be able to deftly bring topics to the forefront that can inspire
her curiosity, her inner child, her outlets of creativity, etc. You want to evoke a feeling and connect that feeling with your knowledge.

"He was so smart and he reminded me of those days when my sister and I used to blah blah blah"
Give her a connection, a moment in time where what you said and did was a briefly trans-formative experience.

This works in younger women in that you can let them know that you have foresight, wisdom, and a willingness to investigate various
things and share them with her.

In older women, you can tap into subjects she rarely gets out of men, and create a situation where you seem distinguished and refined.

Obviously you can't fake this. When you have passions about things and you show it to a woman, she respects that a lot more than
spitting game at her like she is the chickenhead-of-the-day.

Remember, it is about showing her that you are interested in fine arts, or culture, and much more than only the here, the now, the media, consumerism, etc.
Give her the ability to form the opinion

"This guy is thoughtful and sounds like someone I can rely on to take in and enjoy what he sees and does."

 

[Dank Hill]

It ain't that deep. You just talk to them and make em laugh. That's it. Don't come off as thirsty or trying too hard and don't come off as a creep. Talk to them as you would talk to a friend.

 

[At30wecashout]

Damn breh you've got a whole system in place and shyt

When i decided I was over shallow, brain bereft chicks, I took a more scientific approach. As a man, we can typically create a reason
to like a woman, and it doesnt even have to be a good one. Women you have to evoke a positive feeling. If you can do that WITHOUT sharing too much
information about yourself, she will be in the cut like
"I wonder what he does in his free time? What kinda girls does he like? I wonder if he would like this shirt."

Etc. Mystery and confidence are your best tools for women you haven't met, but you have to give them the feeling of familiarity.

Women you meet at random aren't strangers, breh. They are old friends you need to reacquaint yourself with. Go with that train of thought and NO
woman will be difficult to speak to.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

1. be tall
2. look good
3. have money

4. it really won't matter what you have to say at that point.

 

[Sekhmet Anubis]

Well in the club, I'm like "Straight up honey really I'm askin
Most of these nikkaz think they be mackin but they be actin
Who they attractin with that line, "What's your name, what's your sign"?
Soon as he buy that wine I just creep up from behind
And ask what your interests are, "who you be with"?
Things to make you smile, what numbers to dial
You gon' be here for a while, I'm gon' go call my crew
You go call your crew
We can rendezvou at the bar around two
Plans to leave, throw the keys to Lil Cease
Pull the truck up, front, and roll up the next blunt
So we can steam on the way to the telly go fill my belly
A t-bone steak, cheese eggs and Welch's grape
Conversate for a few, cause in a few, we gon' do
What we came to do, ain't that right boo (truuuueee)
Forget the telly we just go to the crib
and watch a movie in the jacuzzi smoke l's while you do me"
Works like a charm