MysticMonroe
All Star
fair enough. the programs succeeded because the wrong choice was made--and yes, i believe there was a choice.
we gotta be honest. many men allowed welfare to become daddy. a lot of men had 3-4 BMs, receiving welfare they could pinch off of. a lot of BM felt too comfortable being wreck less, knowing there was a safety net. we see the same behavioral patterns today. BW choosing welfare over the men, because dudes aren't providing comparable to, or better amount of resources.
so yeah, i'm faulting BW for accepting the shyt, and i'm faulting BM for allowing it to go down.
THIS! An ex-coworker of mine who works at a grocery store, told me how most of the time single mothers shop alone with the kids and the only time you see a man with them is when they get their food stamps. He said the guys are picking out stuff putting it in the cart, with the baby mama and kids like they are gonna be a family.







....shyt is embarrassing, wheres ur fukking pride?...they'll smile and dance for the white man, then when a young brother come up we get the fukking
face....these nikkas lucky we don't kick they're ass...they deserve it. Ive actually had convos with old nikkas, and these nikkas talk about p*ssy like some HS kid...ur suppose to be dropping game, so we can avoid the traps in this society

I love my life and my family but wish I could have stuck to my guns in building my business first




society
It's up to us now. We just have to be willing to be black and help one another. If you know something and have skills, instead of being a nikka trying to stunt, offer some guidance and advice (real advice)