Older Black Men...Leave Some Life Advice For Young Black Men Thread

[Cake]

Lil nikka forget the artist, athlete, tyc00n dreams and just get a normal job at 18. I wasted three years of my life running in circles and i don't have much to show for it except some life experience. Most of us aren't gonna just blow sporadically, gotta work until you find youtr career.

Lil nikka everytime you fukk her fukk her like its gone be the last time. Leave an impression.

When you see a girl who looks interested go for it immediately.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Develop a trade or skill so that you're never completely dependent on whitey for a gig.

Hustle first, but a good social life is only going to improve your hustle if you priorities are straight.

Never be afraid to stand up for yourself and what you believe in.

 

[Heafcliffe]

- Don't make decisions or lead with your dikk
- Realize the smallest encounters can lead to big opportunities (professionally, not sexually)
- Don't wear your wealth (be inconspicuous)
- Invest in yourself
- Give back to others

 

[Free White & 21]

You were born in a race war and there's no way out of it. You HAVE to fight.

 

[Jahmal]

Get Married Brehs

 

[Calmye]

• Learn to play the markets
• Never get married because you got a girl pregnant
• Don't get a girl pregnant

 

[Calmye]

You were born in a race war and there's no way out of it. You HAVE to fight.

and don't listen to nikkas like this. They'll ruin your life.

 

[Da King]

Get that money

 

[Black Sinatra]

1. Build a set of values for yourself. A code to follow that you generate with your goals in mind. Don't break them.

2. Do a self assessment and be honest with yourself always. Move according to who you are; not according to how you are expected to by others.

3. Never stop learning.

4. Have a standard for relationships...sexual, professional, and social. Reject thots "sexual", cut-throats/asskissers "professional", liars/gossipers/degenerates "social"

5. Realize that among mixed company, you are the representative of your race...always. Never slip....c00n, kneel, beg, jig, or cower.

6. Give back to the community. Mentor. Teach. Organize.

 

[filial_piety]

Save your money until you're 30--then evaluate what you want in life before spending it.

 

[Ol’Otis]

nikkas gone hate you for whatever you do
never waste time
you gotta be a man before anything else
always look a person in the eye
never lie

 

[DrX]

all good gems

 

[KOohbt]

Learn a valuable skill. Invest. Learn your history. Take care of your community.

 

[1 other person]

Ignore a lot of the older bitter, self righteous, ornery black people. Some of them are the biggest c00ns and hypocrites going. They, a lot of the times, will give you unrealistic or bum advice. Be civil with them but don't put every word they tell you on a pedestal. They will have you running in circles.

 

[JLova]

Never stop learning. Education is important. Love yourself, know yourself. Most importantly, do NOT have kids out of wedlock.