Older brehs weren't lying, the easiest way to get women is to genuinely not give a fucc.

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Yep.

My homeboy tried to pull that stunt on his girl. She had an offer for a job on the East Coast. When she told him, he was like "I think you should go:yeshrug:" She even flew out there and my homie was shocked. When she came back, he proposed to her
 

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Met a beautiful creole/native/Brazillian gal at my cousins pre july 4rst bbq last thursday.


We hit it off that night and went to the casino.


Spent the entire weeknd w her and she even came to my homeboys beeday on sat.



I aint really give in too much… just played it hella cool. We had sex all weeknd.



Cant take her seriousy because shes going in her 4th divorce, still doing paper work but has her own place (only 1 kid tho, 9) and used to strip back in her 20’s.


But damn shes beautiful as hell (5’10 with an amazon frame… used to pole dance so she strong still). And she can sing her ass off… was a backup singer for a jackson family member (wont tell yall which one, but not mike or janet, lol).



This is just a summer fling but damn… this is a fun one.







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i just try to dress nice and be myself. when you approach women dont be on any obvious or sneak shyt, just talk to them like you would any other person. and for gods sake dont do any of that 'negging' shyt. just be yourself and be real. women do care about appearance but not nearly as much as men. as long as youre not sloppy and looking like the elephant man you'll be all right.

its pretty easy to read someone and see if they aint shyt or not. i think a lot of dudes problems is they go after aint shyt beautiful women instead of trying to find someone they could actually build a life with. and it aint gotta be super serious either. ive had girlfriends that were basically glorified long term hookups, and ive had some girls i wanted to marry. it all depends on how you vibe with each other, i think.

im just saying, most dudes on here are prolly more attractive than me, but since 17 or so i've pretty much always had a girlfriend. i think a lot of young men dont know how to be themselves because of bad influences. its a shame. and dont be doing any overcompensating 'save a hoe' shyt either. desperation stinks and they can smell it. just be yourself. and dont smell bad. brush your teeth!
 

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Yep.

My homeboy tried to pull that stunt on his girl. She had an offer for a job on the East Coast. When she told him, he was like "I think you should go:yeshrug:" She even flew out there and my homie was shocked. When she came back, he proposed to her
It be like that. I can be that stoic, idgaf dude, even to the some of the 8's and 9's I've pulled. But I sometimes fukk up with women because when I fall, I fall hard. And I get goofy. I can't pull the idgaf with all the chicks I've talked to if I talk to them after a few months. I'm just not wired to NOT give a fukk...
 

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Yep.

My homeboy tried to pull that stunt on his girl. She had an offer for a job on the East Coast. When she told him, he was like "I think you should go:yeshrug:" She even flew out there and my homie was shocked. When she came back, he proposed to her
God damn :mjlol:

Put the fear of God in that man :pachaha: :mjlol:

nikka was at the crib sick imagining the worst :mjlol:

Scared that man straight :wow:
 

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Build yourself they will come

Think of yourself as a stadium

Build it and put the right shyt in it - they will come

Depends on the individual. Most women are not going to suddenly flock to you unless you are a literal anomaly. The reality is, you still have to approach, and you will still have to put in the effort.

Learned that as a Sophomore in high school. Nothing turns a woman off more than a "nice" overly attentive man.

High school does not really count.

Man I been overly focused on life, graduating college (Spring 2027 btw), and building my foundation that women don't even occupy my mind frfr anymore :wow:


You don't even have to be a dikkhead about it, just genuinely not giving a fukk for some reason has so much pull its crazy.... and the craziest part is I'm gonna keep not caring :yeshrug::mjlol::pachaha:


Most guys fukk up because they act like or move with a scarcity mindset. And yes women are going to be attracted to a man that has options and discipline.
 

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Dating is a numbers game.

Approach women you are interested in or choosing you.

Copy & paste a nice message to many women when using dating apps or social media, then respond to those who respond back

Focus ONLY on women who are interested in you.

I wasted many years & money trying to convince women who weren't interested in me, to like me .
 
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I never understood this


Don't pay attention to a girl she gets interested and will make u pay attention to her. Easy to fukk and easy to leave cause I never cared about the girl, no lies were told

Pay attention to the girl u might get played and made fun of in her friend circle cause u like her


Then we supposed to feel sorry for the girl getting cheated or put in the hospital by someone who didn't give a fukk about them in the first place.

Then they cry "men". No bytch, u the one that handpicked your abusers, accept responsibility and stop crying
 

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When you don’t give af about the outcome yeah.

Or if you go after insecure women that seek validation/approval from men.

Context matters. They also gotta be somewhat be interested in the first place
QFT!!! Context definitely matters, this disclaimer always needs to added to post like these.. :salute:


Dating is a numbers game.

Approach women you are interested in or choosing you.

Copy & paste a nice message to many women, then respond to those who respond back

Focus ONLY on women who are interested in you.

I wasted many years & money trying to convince women who weren't interested in me, to like me .
Facts breh.
 
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