“Older Single Men Die Alone” says OG on YT

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Being in a relationship is important as you get older.

A lot of men are not social at all and actually tend to be more solitary creatures. There is no doubt having someone to love, love you, spend time with and show you affection helps you to live longer.

A lot of men don’t stay up on their wellness checkups and stuff either, and there is no doubt a responsible woman will make sure a man that she loves stays up on that kinda stuff while also giving him affection and companionship.

Once you get into your latter middle aged years like your 60s and beyond those relationships are more about companionship than coming over and fukking in the late night. Yeah I’m sure they still have sex to occasionally, but those older cats be happy to have somebody to go out to eat with, go catch a movie with, and take a trip with them etc.
 
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Being in a relationship is important as you get older.

A lot of men are not social at all and actually tend to be more solitary creatures. There is no doubt having someone to love, love you, spend time with and show you affection helps you to live longer.

A lot of men don’t stay up on their wellness checkups and stuff either, and there is no doubt a responsible woman will make sure a man that she loves stays up on that kinda stuff while also giving him affection and companionship.

Once you get into your latter middle aged years like your 60s and beyond those relationships are more about companionship than coming over and fukking in the late night. Yeah I’m sure they still have sex to occasionally, but those older cats be happy to have somebody to go out to eat with, go catch a movie with, and take a trip with them etc.
It shouldn't take someone to middle aged and 60 to understand or evolve into this
you can have both
hypersexuality and love
 

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It shouldn't take someone to middle aged and 60 to understand or evolve into this
you can have both
hypersexuality and love
I agree with you; however, you can look at the attitude of most fellas here. Most of them think they going to be in their 20s and 30a forever and HOH and GMB for life.

Those same guys are going to look up one day and be the old kneegrow in the room of a bunch of young kneegrows and realize their priorities are beginning to change. That’s the same reason you don’t see to many gangstas over 40 years old.

People get older and their priorities do a 180; however, you go tell some 25 year old that and they’ll probably laugh at you. I tell my little students here all the time, I was you 25 years ago and they laugh at me. I then simply tell them to keep living and you’ll see.
 
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I agree with you; however, you can look at the attitude of most fellas here. Most of them think they going to be in their 20s and 30a forever and HOH and GMB for life.

Those same guys are going to look up one day and be the old kneegrow in the room of a bunch of young kneegrows and realize their priorities are beginning to change. That’s the same reason you don’t see to many gangstas over 40 years old.

People get older and their priorities do a 180; however, you go tell some 25 year old that and they’ll probably laugh at you. I tell my little students here all the time, I was you 25 years ago and they laugh at me. I then simply tell them to keep living and you’ll see.
Because they're young and want to fukk as many women as possible before they're :flabbynsick:
It's called biology
They are trying to avoid regret
Many men will regret not getting it out their system and settling down over settling down and not getting it out their system
The big picture is people need to do whatever is right for that point in their lives
For some people, it might be being a trick daddy or still fukking random hoes into their 40s and 50s
For others, it could be settling down as soon as possible
People lack discretion
Life is good when you do what you want and can do it
 
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An aging man with no wife or girlfriend and no kids or no kids that care about him is a depressing and pitiful sight.
A man can still have that with a wife and kids
In fact many men are alone with a wife and kids right now
I am only having wife and kids if it is right, not because that's what I am supposed to do
This is why you have so many shytty parents and kids out there
People have kids thinking that is what they are supposed to do and hate it, while some people have kids unexpectedly and love it
People doing what other people tell them to do is why the world is filled with miserable crabs in the barrel
 

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The majority of people make decisions based on not being alone
You can still end up alone
Well yeah. But I’m so used to Brehs parroting the “she hit the wall”, “she’s dying alone with her cats”… I’m honestly surprised to see the acknowledgment that many Brehs are dying alone too. I mean I always knew this anyway from friends that worked in nursing homes—sadly they said that while the older women patients always had visitors (mainly their kids and friends) the older male patients didn’t. It’s sad.
But it doesn’t get talked about too much. There’s a lot of focus on older women but I do think older men need to be an area of focus too. Hopefully as more attention is drawn to the issue it’s something that can be worked on.
 
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Well yeah. But I’m so used to Brehs parroting the “she hit the wall”, “she’s dying alone with her cats”… I’m honestly surprised to see the acknowledgment that obviously many Brehs are dying alone too. I mean I always knew it from friends that worked in nursing homes—sadly they said that while the older women patients always had visitors (mainly their kids and friends) the older male patients didn’t. It’s sad. Hopefully as more attention is drawn to the issue it’s something that can be worked on.
This can happen to you or me
It's called getting older and the uncertainty of the future
Life can happen to ANYONE
Even still, who gives a fukk about what people are saying and doing all day?
People look at people and say it won't be me until it's them
The point is this way of thinking, I don't want to be alone, results in people making a lot of decisions based on that fear, instead of doing
what feels right, their intuition
 
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