On some real ****, how often do yall approach random women?

[James Carter]

Eye contact and humor are universal,



^Man this shyt is too true,
When you're talking to another female about a situation like this or they WITNESS it and point it out like "she was totally hitting on you"





But when u do catch it,

I got a homegirl that spots every girl throwing signs at me and the homies. Thats why its key to always roll with girls out. The pick up the things you dont notice.


We was at a weeknd concert and before the show started this chick was being all loud with her conversation. Homegirl tap me on the shoulder like,
" you know she being loud to get your attention"
Me- " i know "
Homegirl- " "
Me- " "

 

[Grams]

Sometimes I could be giving a dude my best face and he just don't pay attention. He'll look everywhere but up, smh.

I'm one of those guys. I'll see a girl stop what she's doing and give me the puppy dog eyes or start playing with her hair while staring into my eyes and I'll just be like " just talk to me" and I'd walk away

 

[Token]

I'm one of those guys. I'll see a girl stop what she's doing and give me the puppy dog eyes or start playing with her hair while staring into my eyes and I'll just be like " just talk to me" and I'd walk away

Don't be like that.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

I'm one of those guys. I'll see a girl stop what she's doing and give me the puppy dog eyes or start playing with her hair while staring into my eyes and I'll just be like " just talk to me" and I'd walk away

I don't do the randomly talking to a chick thing. A lot of the times, especially up here in NYC, chicks have their headphones on and walk like they don't want to be bothered. Even without the headphones these chicks act stuck up. My homeboy will compliment a girl on what she's wearing "hey beautiful, i like that dress" the chick will continue to walk by with the

 

[twan83]

its pretty simple u just gotta not give a fukk to be honest.

You just approach her with confidence, look into her eyes so she knows your serious and keep it simple.

Just ask her whats her name? How is she doing? and go from there

You also have to look at rejection as this if she ain't feeling me oh well her lost on to the next one. Once you don't fear rejection, have confidence and know how to properly talk to a female the sky is the limit and you can approach them anywhere with nothing to lose

 

[Grams]

Don't be like that.

We're all adults capable of oral communication

 

[MewTwo]

I don't do the randomly talking to a chick thing. A lot of the times, especially up here in NYC, chicks have their headphones on and walk like they don't want to be bothered. Even without the headphones these chicks act stuck up. My homeboy will compliment a girl on what she's wearing "hey beautiful, i like that dress" the chick will continue to walk by with the

I went to college in Brooklyn and oh boy. Every good looking girl had an ipod headphone over their ears. It was virtually impossible to talk to a girl. Sometimes you'd have girls who wear headphones but they aren't even listening to anything, or girls who would pretend to talk on the phone.

I find it hilarious that some women would go out of their way to make themselves unapproachable. Talking with a good looking girl is generally difficult anyway since you'd have to wait in a long line just to get into her inner circle (since every Tom, dikk, and Harry wants to fukk her too). This is probably why we're seeing more guys going after fat girls with low self-esteem. It's an unsaturated market with little competition and the girls aren't usually stuck up.

 

[Still Benefited]

Sometimes I could be giving a dude my best face and he just don't pay attention. He'll look everywhere but up, smh.

But I was seriously @ your stories. A sense of humor is one of the most attractive traits.

so everytime u looked up he would look down....how often do u get approached? I always ask females bcuz it seems like its not about the cuteness...sum real pretty women will tell me how dudes never approach them and sum will say how they get approached all day everyday....I haven't figured out if its a matter of how approachable a female makes herself or if its more about location....I'm pretty sure a female in the hood is gon get hit on probaly waaaay more then a chick who's not in the hood...just from what I seen first hand....I just wonder how much we overexagerate how often women get hollered at throughout the day....u can tell by the responses here a lot of us assume y'all get hit on 100 times a day...but I think sum women out there don't bcuz so many nikkas have that assumption and don't wanna be a bother....butin fact alotta women would LOVE to be hit on.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

its pretty simple u just gotta not give a fukk to be honest.

You just approach her with confidence, look into her eyes so she knows your serious and keep it simple.

Just ask her whats her name? How is she doing? and go from there

You also have to look at rejection as this if she ain't feeling me oh well her lost on to the next one. Once you don't fear rejection, have confidence and know how to properly talk to a female the sky is the limit and you can approach them anywhere with nothing to lose

This man knows what he's talking about.

I've been living by this philosophy ever since the last couple of chicks picked lames over me. I have a very good job, college educated, never been arrested & no kids, plus I think I'm a good looking guy.

Simply put, a chick would be LUCKY to fukk with a dude of my pedigree.

 

[Turbulent]

Am I the only one who thinks it's silly that interacting with women has become sort of a science? Reading your post made me feel like I was back in Calculus learning trigonometric derivatives. If socializing with someone has come to memorizing equations and formulas then clearly she's not someone I'd want to mess with (because then the friendship/relationship will only be just as complicated to deal with and maintain).

Ideally I want to be able to walk up to someone and just chat about random things for hours without being super nervous or worrying about saying the wrong thing. Unfortunately it's not like that and it's probably why so many men turn to seek the companionship of a prostitute (even the 'highly moral', self-righteous idiots who pretend to be against prostitution secretly engages it).

that's just a detailed description of what has worked for me a couple of times in the past. it's not like i think about all that while approaching. there's nothing complicated about what i said either.

1. eye contact
2. approach if she gives you positive vibes
3. make a comment about the surroundings
4. talk to her like you've known her forever

you'll always have the butterflies before, it's hardwired. just learn to tame the feeling (that's actually the hardest part).



the other thing that usually scares the shyt out of me is approaching chicks infront of witnesses. especially in front of people you know. approaching a chick on the bus and she rejects you infront of everyone, it's gonna be a looooong bus ride...that's why i like to approach chicks that are alone and in public places where people aren't paying attention.

i've seen an average looking dude (extreme no-homo) on the train with dirty pants (paint stains) and wearing a wifebeater. dude just looked at a chick (pretty, in feminine business attire), approached without saying anything fancy, just started a convo and we were close to the last stop. they got out together and continued talking. i was all evedropping on them like the train scene in Coming to America. anyway i told myself i need to stop being the guy that looks at shyt happening and be the guy that actually does shyt.

 

[Kuro]

im scared to approach women..even the ones i catch lookn at me...

 

[Panther]

Simply put, a chick would be LUCKY to fukk with a dude of my pedigree.

Sig worthy

 

[Texas2step]

I'm terrible at catching signals from females. A couple of them have asked why did I take so long to come talk to them. One girl just said fukk it and approached me and said "How many signals do I need".. I rather approach women first. Just give them eye contact and just go talk to them. The worst they can say is No. You really just have to not give a fukk

 

[AAKing23]

Sometimes I could be giving a dude my best face and he just don't pay attention. He'll look everywhere but up, smh.

But I was seriously @ your stories. A sense of humor is one of the most attractive traits.

It's hard af for some dudes to read those signals because you never know whether they like you or they're just being friendly


I know that when I'm out I tend to block everybody out and zone out so I know girls be probably trying to get my attention but I'm oblivious

That's why I think more women should initiate conversations from time to time, it makes things easier

 

[↓R↑LYB]

It's been about 3 weeks and I haven't cheated on her yet. One of the chicks hit me today talking bout what am I doing this weekend. I didn't even text her back.

This is when my swag levels are turned up to a hunnin trillion and im @ my best


for real tho. I'd say always, as in daily. I'm alright at sparking up convo with random people and having them talk to me like they known me forever, shyt is

My issue has and will always be sealing the deal, I never wanna come off as that nikka that goes from talking to a broad and being like and then like 5 seconds later be like so whats good with that number? But at this point, ive realized these broads will most likely never see me again and don't play any significant part in the grand scheme of my life. If I bomb, i bomb

If you a funny nikka, which a bunch of you are, that's usually your way in. use that shyt to your advantage and Just be prepared, there's always those weirdo dweeb bytches that have that weird dry sense of humor and none of your shyt will go over and it will be ETHEROUS. you'll cry in the car

I'm the same way. When I'm in the mood, it's pretty easy to get people to talk to me. I'm contemplating going out tonight solo though. I might get in trouble though, after a couple glasses of henny everything goes out the window