Some broads trying to pass the "good" genetics from the scumbag dudes because they are future "go getters" and take no shyt from anyone.
One-in-four black men (24%) say they have a step child, compared with
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Some broads trying to pass the "good" genetics from the scumbag dudes because they are future "go getters" and take no shyt from anyone.
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I’m as young as 26 now, and still might have to play the game if you’re looking for love out here.Just go young. 23-28 and you good.If you stay in the 30+ range you better be ready to play step daddy
Honestly, I’ve given up.
Exactly. Stepson aint getting nothing in the will if the stepdad died. That doesn’t help solve the lack of black asset inheritance that starts us off at a disadvantage.The biological father need to step up before anything IMO
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Some drive the men away, initiate divorces, etc.
And I don’t necessarily believe in the “High Value Man” religion being pushed, but look at someone like Drake that recently had the whole condom in trashcan scandal.
Kids are often looked at as leverage and a paycheck and so is marriage at this point. If you were in the military, you saw it often.
Not saying that a lot of men aren’t arrogant dirtbags either but a lot of them tend to be raised by women who only considered them as leverage as well.
I have seen men attempt to be trapped as well. One of my ex friends was lied upon about a child that wasn’t even his as well. Literally had to force a DNA test. Literally walked up to the chick and swabbed for the kids DNA and mailed it in himself.
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We gone have hit them college grounds.
Get em fresh outta college, that's the only way
shyt as long as you take care of yourself and good finances you more than good
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That's embarrassing and sad
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I think if women waited till marriage for kids, they'd be far better off. A married man can still leave, but it's much, much less likely than those who ain't married.
A lot of these kids are out of wedlock. Women fall in love and trap to get dude to stay or get child support. Ive also read about career women looking to strictly get pregnant and the father don't even gotta stay in the picture.
Is that true?
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I’ve actually heard women say that in person.I think if women waited till marriage for kids, they'd be far better off. A married man can still leave, but it's much, much less likely than those who ain't married.
A lot of these kids are out of wedlock. Women fall in love and trap to get dude to stay or get child support. Ive also read about career women looking to strictly get pregnant and the father don't even gotta stay in the picture.
I feel this is a loveless world now
I hope black adults start making better decisions on who they mate with.
they out there but you gotta be stringent about not event considering dealing with these single moms and being around women who actually have shyt going on other than popping out kids
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Damn
They probably wanna still hoe around but know the repercussions of waiting too long to have kids. Have kids then be a hoe before settling in their mid 40s
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It is what it isDamn
They probably wanna still hoe around but know the repercussions of waiting too long to have kids. Have kids then be a hoe before settling in their mid 40s
I told a woman I was on a date with last week that I don’t date women with kids (she g doesn’t even have any) and she said I was selfish.
There’s def a narrative being pushed that black men should pick up where other men left off. fukk that.
There’s def a narrative being pushed that black men should pick up where other men left off. fukk that.
there’s two sides to that.