DEDE BROWN
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Or just that profile pic lol
Online dating: does the first message matter?
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Profile picture >>>>>>> message
Profile Pic and an interesting profile are more interesting 
I've said this before but when I was eating on POF I had a catchy profile and a decent image and I sent the same message all the time
Don't
and write some witty ass message only for it to be on the "read" list...shyt will leave you like
I've said this before but when I was eating on POF I had a catchy profile and a decent image and I sent the same message all the time
Don't
and write some witty ass message only for it to be on the "read" list...shyt will leave you like
Profile Pic and an interesting profile are more interesting
I've said this before but when I was eating on POF I had a catchy profile and a decent image and I sent the same message all the time
Don't
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I always felt the quick "no" reply was worse. Have you like 
I don't care how dope/witty your message is, if she doesn't find you attractive, your message dont mean a damn thing.
This aint her friend introducing you at a party or you guys sitting beside each other in a lecture where she can read your personality, it's online dating.
To get a reply, it comes down to how you look
This aint her friend introducing you at a party or you guys sitting beside each other in a lecture where she can read your personality, it's online dating.
To get a reply, it comes down to how you look
Doobie Doo
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You say HI so she will look at your pic. If she likes your look she will message back. Which is why LOL extra hard on POF when it says this user won't accept such short messages. I ain't writing an essay for you to look at my pics.
Doobie Doo
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Thought I was the only one who copy and paste. To add a little flavor on a real cute chick I take something from her profile and mention it in the copy/paste message
Bless't
Living the dream
Then, basically... you know what you're doing. Good shyt.
Some girls will spot that you're copy and pasting and be like...
Online dating sucks breh. Do you have friends or go to a library? If you do those things or stop at coffee/cafe shops, then you can meet great women.
Forgot to mention, all of these girls' inboxes are full. ALL OF THEM. You know that fat chick who's a 3/10 and you just messaging her because you're good looking so it's a guarantee you're getting in her pants within an hour? Even her inbox is full.
I knew this one woman who has facial paralysis on one side of her face. Her inbox was BOOMING. All walks of life. She NEVER gets that type of attention in real life.
I knew this one woman who has facial paralysis on one side of her face. Her inbox was BOOMING. All walks of life. She NEVER gets that type of attention in real life.
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