Only single chicks wouldn't take back a cheater

[SheWantTheD]

I don't get the Russell Wilson thing, he's literally the opposite of a beta (god i hate that term).

But actually it's a prime example of how the p*ssy confuses reality with perception & expectation. Russell Wilson is a top dawg alpha male, Super bowl winning franchise multimillion dollar QB, 5'10 215 of solid muscle, freak athlete, but because he chooses to be "good" and "wholesome" and doesn't act like Future or Young Thug type savage, women must think he's weak for some reason, but when you look at the objective facts, he's not like a Carlton in really any way. He's got everything women say they want in a dude, the confidence, the build, the success, the intelligence, literally the only thing he don't show is the arrogant swag of a dope boy or a rapper and the demeaning disposition toward females. But because of that he's now relegated sharing to the same space as Urkel and Carlton sexually. HUH????? How?

He bushed his first wife when he found out she was sleeping with Golden Tate with the quickness, RW ain't no pushover like that, nor is he a weak person. It takes a lot of courage to be the dude of virtue in an NFL locker room. Ya'll ain't givin my boy enough credit here. He's more of an example to follow but we sitting around here talkin down like he's taking L after L like some of ya'll in here.

We are talking about if Russell Wilson was a regular dude with the same personality, obviously not who he is. Most 22 year olds wouldn't hesitate if they had a chance with him in real life.

And he was smashing ig thots after he divorced his wife, so he ain't that virtuous. And he still LAWST by marrying a single mother whose father is a rapper with 4+ baby mamas. Ciara isn't attracted to Russell wilson types. She's attracted to Future type of dudes and it may show in due time.

 

[badtguy]

Women are dumb what's new?

 

[Giselle]

If 10 different men cheat once that would be grouped as cheating. Also you would use the present tense to explain any future men. I wouldn't say "This man one day will cheated on his wife." You tried to put words in my mouth to feed your argument and failed. We all know that was a joke with Bill as he only messed with Monica. Stop reaching.

You're saying all this shiit now because you're single and haven't met that good man yet, which is expected because only single women say this, but watch once you have a family and all you might reconsider forgiving him and making it work.

You can't tell me how I would react to something. As I have already said, good men don't cheat. If I get with someone and they cheat, I will leave. I do not tolerate disrespect. I am getting a prenupt with a cheating clause that sets me up right for my divorce if he cheats. I am serious about this. If it's only a bf, I can leave much easier since there is nothing legally binding me to him. I'd block him and never speak to him again, no explanation. He should already know what he did anyway. You cheating males are replaceable.

 

[badtguy]

Finally someone with some sense on that topic.

Russell Wilson commands a force of 52 other muscle bound men through his sheer strength and skill.

He isn't any more "beta" than Tom Brady or Cam Newton.

Imagining yourselves as Russell Wilson in any scenario is fukking retarded.

I agree, even of he wasn't in the NFL, I still wouldn't see him as beta and believe with his build and look he could fukk ALOT of bytches if he wanted to.

 

[FSP]

I agree, even of he wasn't in the NFL, I still wouldn't see him as beta and believe with his build and look he could fukk ALOT of bytches if he wanted to.

Only confused males and thots would think that his demeanor equates to beta. It takes a lot of mental fortification to be a dude like that in the face of what you know society is trying to condition you to be, its actually much easier to break and become the a$$hole.

 

[HearNoEvil]

We are talking about if Russell Wilson was a regular dude with the same personality, obviously not who he is. Most 22 year olds wouldn't hesitate if they had a chance with him in real life.

And he was smashing ig thots after he divorced his wife, so he ain't that virtuous. And he still LAWST by marrying a single mother whose father is a rapper with 4+ baby mamas. Ciara isn't attracted to Russell wilson types. She's attracted to Future type of dudes and it may show in due time.

Women don't have types. That's a myth.

Attractive qualities are attractive no matter what.

Guys who fit their ideal mold are "perfect" or "dreamy", guys who don't are "exotic" and "a breath of fresh air".

The bottom line is getting the p*ssy wet.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Women don't have types. That's a myth.

Attractive qualities are attractive no matter what.

Guys who fit their ideal mold are "perfect" or "dreamy", guys who don't are "exotic" and "a breath of fresh air".

The bottom line is getting the p*ssy wet.

That's not true. Ciara is a hood chick and she's mostly attracted to "hood" dudes like Future.

That's why you see hood chicks messing with hood dudes. That's their type.

 

[FSP]

That's not true. Ciara is a hood chick and she's mostly attracted to "hood" dudes like Future.

That's why you see hood chicks messing with hood dudes. That's their type.

I see cornbread white chicks messing with hood dudes

 

[HearNoEvil]

That's not true. Ciara is a hood chick and she's mostly attracted to "hood" dudes like Future.

That's why you see hood chicks messing with hood dudes. That's their type.

The "you're not my type" line was invented so women could soften the blow of rejection.

It's an excuse to explain that they aren't attracted to you.

Keep putting yourself in a box sexually if you want though.

 

[yyy]

Women love to talk about double standards until it's no longer advantageous to do so. By focusing the conversation solely on physical cheating you allow women to frame the conversation in a way that ignores how most woman cheat.
Emotional Affair: Is It Cheating?

Like many women, René (who asked that only her middle name be used), a writer from northern New Jersey, had two husbands: a regular spouse and a “work husband,” a man -- interesting, smart, funny -- with whom she spent 9 hours a day. The chemistry was obvious, but nothing ever “happened.” Or did it?

They made a beeline for each other every morning, and their chats became more and more personal. “I definitely talked to him about things I didn’t talk to my husband about, including my husband, because my marriage was so unhappy,” René says. He sat a little too close at meetings. She admits she fantasized about a relationship.

Was she cheating? Gail Saltz, MD, associate professor of psychiatry at New York-Presbyterian Hospital/Weill Cornell School of Medicine, says “probably.” “Many of these emotional affairs do move into a sexual affair,” Saltz says. “If they don’t, it’s easy enough to say to yourself that you’re not doing anything wrong.” The problem, she says, is the attachment to this other person impacts the marriage. “Ultimately it ends painfully one way or another: Your marriage ends, or you’ve got to give this person up.” René’s marriage eventually ended in divorce, but this doesn’t have to happen to you.

Often, people who become involved in emotional affairs feel something is lacking at home. “It makes them feel good to feel understood, to feel desired. It’s like candy. You go home and have your vegetables, and you go to work and you have candy.” For some spouses -- more often women, Saltz says -- learning of an emotional affair can be worse than discovering sexual infidelity. “Everybody understands a sexual act need not necessarily contain affection or intimacy. It could be literally about a sexual act. Whereas the emotional affair feels like it’s much more about being connected, about loving or liking.”

Signs You’ve Crossed the Line
According to Saltz, these seven red flags suggest you may have entered into an emotional affair:

1. You spend a lot of emotional energy on the person. “You end up sharing stuff that you don’t even share with your partner -- hopes and dreams, things that would actually connect you to your partner.”
2. You dress up for that person.
3. You make a point to find ways to spend time together, and that time becomes very important to you.
4. You’d feel guilty if your partner saw you together; you are doing things and saying things that you would never do or say in front of your spouse.
5. You share your feelings of marital dissatisfaction.
6. You’re keeping secret the amount of time you’re spending with the person (including emailing, calling, texting).
7. You start to feel dependent on the emotional high that comes with the relationship.

Plenty of women do the above, but because Women frame cheating only in terms of physical relations they get away with it...Half of taken women have a back-up man in case they end up single

 

[SheWantTheD]

The "you're not my type" line was invented so women could soften the blow of rejection.

It's an excuse to explain that they aren't attracted to you.

Keep putting yourself in a box sexually if you want though.

No, I know what you mean. Women do mess with dudes outside of "their" type, but they still have a type that they like the most.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I see cornbread white chicks messing with hood dudes

they are hood chicks too

 

[FSP]

they are hood chicks too

NAAAH I mean the most suburban white chicks ever. I'm from the suburbs I know a sheltered white girl when I see one.

 

[Matt504]

No, I know what you mean. Women do mess with dudes outside of "their" type, but they still have a type that they like the most.

in other words, when women talk to guys that aren't their type, it's an exception to the rule.

 

[MalikX]

We are talking about if Russell Wilson was a regular dude with the same personality, obviously not who he is. Most 22 year olds wouldn't hesitate if they had a chance with him in real life.

And he was smashing ig thots after he divorced his wife, so he ain't that virtuous. And he still LAWST by marrying a single mother whose father is a rapper with 4+ baby mamas. Ciara isn't attracted to Russell wilson types. She's attracted to Future type of dudes and it may show in due time.

Ehh.....without money, Future would get more bytches than Russell.

Without rap, Future is the drug dealing convict that splatters up Ciara's walls and without sports, Russell is the polo wearing professional that marries her afterward. Keep in mind, Russell was dating that horrifically looking white girl before Ciara. She was nothing close to a dime.