LMAO breh raising your kids aint a roll of the dice situation,
if your kid ends up being trash then yeah you failed as parent no 2 ways about it
Do you have children? There's no handbook on how to raise children. You can do the absolute best, instill the correct morals, values, right and wrong, honesty, good life, well off, and your kids still turn out being POS. That's how you can have 2 children grow up in the same household, raised under the same guidance, and one becomes top of the class, and the other a delinquent.
Matter of fact, if you're older than a teenager, as a teenager how much ish did you do that your parents told you not to, instilled in you not to, to your why, but you rebelled against anyway? Now how much of those things, had you been caught had the high potential of being worst-case? All it really takes is one bad decision.
I've heard O talk to young street dudes. He always tell them they don't need to do it, cause they're gonna have to face the consequences one day. He told one dude before "you're an adult now, so none of that ish in your past even matters any more. Now it's up to you."