A lot of people that are on forums are introverts. So when they find a community they feel somewhat at home. But then they realize that home is kind of damaged but they love it anyway eventhough their voice isn't really being heard. So naturally to be heard they fall in line to fit in.
A lot of people are hurting as well and eventhough its "just the internet" for some other people its a part of their real life. Like they look forward to being on the coli instead of being out. All imo but I get it...
I love this place but a lot of us have some glaring issues...