Overloving is what’s destroying black men.

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Agreed. This is something that doesn't even need to be debated once you take the butthurt emotions away. There's an age old saying: "Mothers love their sons and raise their daughters." You're right in that this isn't a specifically "black" problem but society is much more kind to white men of this condition. Society doesn't give black men the luxury of "failing up."

Because it is the fathers job to raise the son. There is an old Asian proverb that says for son the mother is shade to the fathers sun. Just like how fathers dote on and spoil their daughters and their mothers are the ones to provide boundaries on them. It is just with the increase of single parenthood we have not seen the balance required to make healthy and balanced boys. All the data shows when kids are raised by both a father and a mother their success rates are significantly higher than those raised in a single parent household
 

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I agree with you and have said this before, most recently yesterday in the thread about black parenting. But to go back to my point, this discourse isn't new. Go listen to Hispanic women talk about Hispanic men (specifically Mexican men). It's the same bullshyt discourse on everyone's algorithm, only difference is we see the black shyt because we're black. But my girl is Mexican and trust me...I see that shyt in real life and online.
Bruh it's not even the same or equivalent. We've regressed to 1960s era discourse. There are academics on Twitter going VIRAL for saying that black boys have low IQ. They're on there posting entire studies and shyt ans talking about crafting laws foe segregation. Idk if you got a twitter account, but it's getting scary over there. These aren't internet random either. I seen some college professors on there (one from Indiana) spouting that shot. Scott Adam's shyt initially kicked off on twittee.
 

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This idea of black boys being coddled needs to stop, especially when they're treated pretty damn poorly by society and often family. Especially when all kinds of shyt is weaponized against them. I keep posting this shyt, not only because it deserves attention but also because how indicative of how our society operates in accordance with black boys.

shyt is mind-boggling.
Its coddled one minute then toxic masculinity the next not letting them cry
 

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I say all that to say, never take life advice from anyone who has 2 of the 3 mentioned above. And this broad supports unshaved p*ssy gang :camby: dead giveaway


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I say all that to say, never take life advice from anyone who has 2 of the 3 mentioned above. And this broad supports unshaved p*ssy gang :camby: dead giveaway

What's wrong, you're not taking parenting advice from hoochie gawd? :heh:

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This is the type of stuff you gleefully posted a few years back. You're a scumbag just like her

I've never posted anything like this but this is a reminder of how easy it is to make claims like this without having to back them up.
 

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The demonization of black boys and black men continues.

This is why that fukking bell hooks bullshyt needs to go in the garbage 🗑
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It just encourages blanket statements like these to gain popularity and make the world even WORSE for Black Men. NOT BETTER.

Twitter is where black women can make some of the most hateful comments towards black men and they'll get tens of thousands of likes and retweets. And if you think that's all black women liking and retweeting that you be dead wrong that's a lot of racist white people and non blacks liking that shyt because it confirms every negative thing they've ever thought about black boys and black men.
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And some of these Black Women ushering this rhetoric are getting speaking engagements, sponsorships, TV and Radio show appearances, their essentially becoming millionaires off of selling anti-black male propaganda to white ppl and non-blacks.

This is dangerous cause it leads to more Black Male erasure on society...cause if they convinced Black Boys and Men are beyond reproach from their own community, they will only be set up for genocide when the time comes.

They give credence to the idea that black men are beyond reasoning and black boys are beyond a chance to be given.

The one thing that makes the weight of anti black male misandry hit that much harder is that literally everyone else engages including black women. Black men are considered acceptable targets for society's abuse and unspoken sentiments. Are seen as less than human and not as men. Black Boys are inherently unprotected while being demonized as criminal, as loud, as ignorant, as unintelligent, as unstable, as everything negative in the goddamn book and it's disgusting to think so many who claim to be for us are actually against us.

Thats why all that anti-black man misandrist pro-matriarchal garbage needs to go.
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Cause it's destroying the black family alongside numerous other factors.
 

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Bruh it's not even the same or equivalent. We've regressed to 1960s era discourse. There are academics on Twitter going VIRAL for saying that black boys have low IQ. They're on there posting entire studies and shyt ans talking about crafting laws foe segregation. Idk if you got a twitter account, but it's getting scary over there. These aren't internet random either. I seen some college professors on there (one from Indiana) spouting that shot. Scott Adam's shyt initially kicked off on twittee.


Black boys are getting screwed over more because they're more of a marginalized group than other boys, but are you really gonna argue intersectional feminists are only fukking with them? Look at education stats for all boys and the drop out rates we're seeing. Something is happening across the board. I'd agree there is more of an incentive/interest in destroying black boys because that's always been the case in this country. There's clearly a deliberate attempt to either reprogram black boys or simply let them perish via the system (prison, low paying jobs, etc). I've seen black women academics making these arguments on twitter but who do you think they're in the vanguard for? Who made sure bell hooks received academic credibility despite dogshyt tier research and little (to no) citations? This is being driven by a very extreme group of white intersectional feminist women from the top.
 
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