Pandering nikkas like this are more insidious than passport bros and red pill nikkas

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The Coli uplifts the wrong shyt man

They got that weird ass praise thread with that tall Darkskin dude with the neck braids who just posts those dumb ass videos of him getting numbers and worship that.

Meanwhile they'll shyt on a guy like Kev who's been married for years and has two well raised black sons who aren't on any type of street shyt.
:mjtf:

And then want to complain about the state of the black community :mjlol:
We can't hate dudes cause they got a family now?
 

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I hate when that is said because we tend to focus on the small percentage of black women that are doing well and ignore the majority.

It blows my mind how nobody is paying attention to the fact that black women have the highest eviction rates in the US, especially with children.
We also ignore that the average black women makes $30K/yr.

But we focus on the corporate "baddies" and say "Black Women Are Winning!"
The cultural messaging black women are currently receiving matches that of the person you quoted

Even with the above scenario, a woman would be told to lock in and maybe get a degree or go thug it out with family, not find a man to take care of her and her kids like she would back in the day.

If she's homeless with kids she probably already sees men as unreliable ,assuming the fathers aren't present.
 

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I hate when that is said because we tend to focus on the small percentage of black women that are doing well and ignore the majority.

It blows my mind how nobody is paying attention to the fact that black women have the highest eviction rates in the US, especially with children.
We also ignore that the average black women makes $30K/yr.

But we focus on the corporate "baddies" and say "Black Women Are Winning!"

Even the ones at the "bottom" take their cues from the "top"

They all think they're winning.

When Meghan Markle married into royalty, that was a victory for them personally.

The Facts don't matter. They never mattered.
 

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These women are all 10k+ up in credit card debt. They dont need nobody though.
 

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Right

Most PPL are broke


And these women dont have options for marriage. They have options to get tricked on by dudes for short term experiences.

There's women in their mid 30s who've never been proposed too but claim they have options. Mentally, a lot of these women aren't thinking about marriage or evaluating men in that way.
 

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I said least married. Not least protected.

If they say least protected, I don't really know how this fits into the marriage discussion.



I think they're gonna get exactly what they worked so hard for.

I feel the same way about people that voted for Trump, not to bring politics into it.

But she wanted an education, she did the work and she got it.
She wanted the big job, she did the work, and she got it.
She wanted the house, she saved her money, got the loan, and bought the house.

She's gonna end up 75 years old, with a house in her name, money in her retirement savings, and a community of women in the same position as her.

And that's what she worked for. That's what her entire life has been about.

Who are we to tell them that they are wrong for wanting what they want?



Even if you're right about them lying to all of us about how happy they are with all of their GFs at Brunch, she's not going to change her behavior.

Monday rolls around, she's gonna get ready for work, and get back in the car...



Maybe, maybe not.

But we see what a lot of women are doing.

They could put their energy into finding a man, and holding that man down - and they choose not to.

Maybe if perfect man were to fall from the heavens and do everything perfect, she might choose differently - but even then she reserves the right to change her mind.

That's freedom.

I should have been more clear... The whole "least protected point wasn't necessarily directed at what you said.

I just keep hearing, "we are the least protected" and "we don't need a man" from women. That sort of inconsistency points to they either don't believe what they are saying or don't even know what they believe.

I was just mashing up a bunch of points in between work. But, yeah, I agree. Take them at their word and not put anymore thought into it.
 

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You're a legit peon and have no real idea of making things better besides ranting and raving about cacs or nergoes who don't fall in line to achieve the mystical fairy tale idea of "black solidarity" and "equality".

Goofy ass clown.

So, a dictatorship is what you desire. :unimpressed: .
 
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He’s not pandering, and he’s married.

Sometimes, I wonder what some of y’all are looking for in a relationship. Do you even LIKE the women you date, or expect to love them? You have to put effort into relationships. You have to make her feel special. Otherwise, what’s the point? You don’t want women being gold diggers, but now it’s “they need to settle because life is expensive”. They can get a roommate, and not have to sleep with someone they don’t want, and have companionship. They have brothers, and cousins who can come over and fix stuff. They can sleep with random attractive men.

Dating is competitive. Even when you are on the same level looks wise, you still need to be someone she wants to talk to, and be around on a regular basis.
I disagree my brother in Jah.

They know EXACTLY what it takes to marry someone that they're physically attracted to.

And they're saying, NAW, I don't want to do all that.

Instead they're choosing to go to school, get jobs, move up in their careers, stack dollars, etc.

I've known some that have adopted children.
I've known a few that went the IVF route.
Some did it the old school way - but it was with guys that, according to them - "Were not on her level".



Again, I must break from you my brother.

Black women are the least married of all women, according to "they" stats.

Black women are obviously choosing to not marry, and instead choosing financial freedom!



This is not about men, this is about women and their choices.

And they're choosing freedom!

My first sentence says “some”.
 

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Passport bros are just lames looking for easy p*ssy from fine women they can’t afford at home. Redpill nikkas are angry they can’t get the women they want but atleast most of them focus on self improvement to get there.

nikkas like this encourage the worst instincts and behaviors of women and allow them to avoid any accountability because women support people financially who tell them what they want to hear. Women who take stupid shyt like this to heart will never be married and die alone. A man is an energy and presence beyond a pocket book that can give women direction and protection, to say women don’t need men is against the natural order which is satanic shyt and this nikka claim to be a Christian.


The most unfunny p*ssy whipped comedian ever.

Tony Baker is way too funny to be hanging out with him / having a podcast with him.
 
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