PANIC Time: If you're around 30 (flabby and sick) and still single.

[DaChampIsHere]

lol Aite breh.

I can't bring out what ain't in you already.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

If you a man, just keep yaself in shape, eat right, have lots of disposable income, stack money, and be a comedian to these hoes. You can be 30 and look 22 years old and still have a ball.

I AM 22

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

I can't bring out what ain't in you already.

Dat's precisely da prollem comrade. You think when you state your opinion about somethin it's coming from a completely flawless perspective and anybody who responds from a counter angle it somehow equates to you "flushing out" dis imaginary inferiority complex or somethin. Breh dat's nothin more than pure ignorance dipped in a colorful arrogant shell coating.

Yousa funny dood. Do ya thang pimpn.

I'm not gonna turn dis shyt into another pointless debate match doe. You can have da last word breh breh.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Dat's precisely da prollem comrade. You think when you state your opinion about somethin it's coming from a completely flawless perspective and anybody who responds from a counter angle it somehow equates to you "flushing out" dis imaginary inferiority complex or somethin. Breh dat's nothin more than pure ignorance dipped in a colorful arrogant shell coating.
Yousa funny dood. Do ya thang pimpn.
I'm not gonna turn dis shyt into another pointless debate match doe. You can have da last word breh breh.

Again, I never said anyone was worse or better than me. You garnered these feelings yourself. Never asked you to quote me, so "last word".. I don't really care. I don't get the back and forths over things none of y'all claim to fall in to. ie. Talk shyt about white people all you want. I'd never care. Doesn't effect or pertain to me.

 

[Malta]

I know this is a troll thread, but damn, I feel bad for some of you dudes.

Y'all are definitely some very late bloomers, on that 2nd childhood/Peter Pan syndrome status. Most of y'all haven't been right your whole damn life, and are now talking about you've reached your peak at 30-32. A lot of your reasons for such is "p*ssy", but damn brehs, I'm sorry with the chicks and numbers posted here, I'd have to say you might as well get a chick cause you're not pulling anything impressive "ratings" or numbers wise, so what's the point.

Y'all sound so childish and foolish, it's hilarious. Y'all are happy about being +30 and still renting apartments and then saying such like it's something good. Guessing you moved out of your parents house at 18, you've been throwing money away for +12 years. Like, you're clearly deficient/immature in other parts of life too and it shows.

Anyway, I don't know any guy who is THAT dude that isn't married or hasn't been married by 30 unless he's a straight up gay. Most dudes who have been that popular/wanted guy, or who are successful are trying their best to find a woman who is down for the cause, not someone to come in to simply reap the benefits of what they've make after the fact.

I know brehs who have done extremely great things, who have accomplished all of their dreams, who have millions of dollars and access to women they would want. Guess what? They didn't make it there on their own. I don't get what people are so afraid of.

Everyone's path is different, my boy (31 years old) has been living outside the US for the last 7 years, has really no desire to live here anymore and only comes back to renew his passport, or when someone dies. He was THAT dude in HS and College, after he graduated & got a job he decided he hated the rat race and didn't want the American dream. Since then, he's been to 20 different countries and is now living on the beach, working 15 hours a week. It's not a matter of him being afraid to grow up, his philosophy is that he's not going to trade substantial amounts of time for money, time is the only thing of true value we actually own.

He's one of the most confident and self assured people I know, dude went to a completely new country not knowing the language and now calls it home It's just a different path, he may end up getting married, he may not, but at the end of the day he's experienced more in the last 7 years than most of us will in our lives.

 

[Anothergirl]

I know this is a troll thread, but damn, I feel bad for some of you dudes.

Y'all are definitely some very late bloomers, on that 2nd childhood/Peter Pan syndrome status. Most of y'all haven't been right your whole damn life, and are now talking about you've reached your peak at 30-32. A lot of your reasons for such is "p*ssy", but damn brehs, I'm sorry with the chicks and numbers posted here, I'd have to say you might as well get a chick cause you're not pulling anything impressive "ratings" or numbers wise, so what's the point.

Y'all sound so childish and foolish, it's hilarious. Y'all are happy about being +30 and still renting apartments and then saying such like it's something good. Guessing you moved out of your parents house at 18, you've been throwing money away for +12 years. Like, you're clearly deficient/immature in other parts of life too and it shows.

Anyway, I don't know any guy who is THAT dude that isn't married or hasn't been married by 30 unless he's a straight up gay. Most dudes who have been that popular/wanted guy, or who are successful are trying their best to find a woman who is down for the cause, not someone to come in to simply reap the benefits of what they've make after the fact.

I know brehs who have done extremely great things, who have accomplished all of their dreams, who have millions of dollars and access to women they would want. Guess what? They didn't make it there on their own. I don't get what people are so afraid of.

well damn.
another reason imo why you'll never seen as many black "millionaires" in this country as other races. most millionaires are *gasp* married. not saying marriage always = millions. but it damn sure makes the path easier...most other cultures know this.
even the richest black men on the planet your billionaire Nigerian tyc00ns....yep... most married with families.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

well damn.
another reason imo why you'll never seen as many black "millionaires" in this country as other races. most millionaires are *gasp* married. not saying marriage always = millions. but it damn sure makes the path easier...most other cultures know this.
even the richest black men on the planet your billionaire Nigerian tyc00ns....yep... most married with families.

Dem same millionaires are havin affairs left n right. You cannot be serious wit dat connection AG.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Everyone's path is different, my boy (31 years old) has been living outside the US for the last 7 years, has really no desire to live here anymore and only comes back to renew his passport, or when someone dies. He was THAT dude in HS and College, after he graduated & got a job he decided he hated the rat race and didn't want the American dream. Since then, he's been to 20 different countries and is now living on the beach, working 15 hours a week. It's not a matter of him being afraid to grow up, his philosophy is that he's not going to trade substantial amounts of time for money, time is the only thing of true value we actually own.
He's one of the most confident and self assured people I know, dude went to a completely new country not knowing the language and now calls it home It's just a different path, he may end up getting married, he may not, but at the end of the day he's experienced more in the last 7 years than most of us will in our lives.

I'm not only talking success in the terms of the "American dream" (something I never mentioned). I'm just talking about achieving what you want to do. And I'm also talking only talking about dudes who are on that whole "I don't wanna get married" kick. I'm not suggesting to give up time for money, but I do also see a little something wrong in being adamantly against commitment at that stage of maturity once you get to a certain age, especially if your reason is "I'm at my peak" or "I'm getting p*ssy". Not trading "time for money" has nothing to do being so afraid of committing to something. And the part about what's he's experienced is irrelevant, cause there are definitely a lot of things he hasn't experienced that someone else has that may be more or just just as valuable of an experience. I doubt someone who has experience the joy of childbirth with a great partner would really give that up to travel 20 countries when then could just as well do that at any moment in their life.

Like, if you were to ask your friend if he'd want a woman who would stick with him on some life time shyt, and he said straight up said "No. Never", that wouldn't be strange to you?

 

[Anothergirl]

Dem same millionaires are havin affairs left n right. You cannot be serious wit dat connection AG.

marriage is a wealth building institution. always has been. just look at the RICHEST people all across the globe .....Arabs....Jews....Whites and Asians....what is the underlying factor they all share? that's right the importance of having LEGITIMATE FAMILY to pass that wealth on from generation to generation so the "legacy" won't ever be "lost". they understand the importance of marriage so much they're willing to arrange unions for their kids to be married off (often unwillingly) into other rich families just to grow and MAINTAIN said wealth.. but they must have it all wrong right? i mean they're only the richest people in the WORLD.

 

[Doobie Doo]

Everyone's path is different, my boy (31 years old) has been living outside the US for the last 7 years, has really no desire to live here anymore and only comes back to renew his passport, or when someone dies. He was THAT dude in HS and College, after he graduated & got a job he decided he hated the rat race and didn't want the American dream. Since then, he's been to 20 different countries and is now living on the beach, working 15 hours a week. It's not a matter of him being afraid to grow up, his philosophy is that he's not going to trade substantial amounts of time for money, time is the only thing of true value we actually own.

He's one of the most confident and self assured people I know, dude went to a completely new country not knowing the language and now calls it home It's just a different path, he may end up getting married, he may not, but at the end of the day he's experienced more in the last 7 years than most of us will in our lives.

I agree, most people in America are a bytch to money. People sacrifice themselves, their family, their health, live meaningless lives and suck corporate dikk not cause they want to but because they become slaves to societies expectations and demands. Then when they come across somebody like your boy they are in shock cuz they see a guy who maybe doesn't have as much money as they do and doesn't cherish a dollar like they do and they see his high level of happiness and it fukks up their whole existence cuz now they question their own meaningless existence.

Money isn't everything but you can't tell a broke nikka that cuz they ain't never had shyt and when you don't have it society makes it seem like it's everything. Only people who have money understand that.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

marriage is a wealth building institution. always has been. just look at the RICHEST people all across the globe .....Arabs....Jews....Whites and Asians....what is the underlying factor they all share? that's right the importance of having LEGITIMATE FAMILY to pass that wealth on from generation to generation so the "legacy" won't ever be "lost". they understand the importance of marriage so much they're willing to arrange unions for their kids to be married off (often unwillingly) into other rich families just to grow and MAINTAIN said wealth.. but they must have it all wrong right? i mean they're only the richest people in the WORLD.

lol so you just go ignore what i said baby girl?

Da way you're speakin on marriage and wealth is as if it's primarily a business arrangement. You think there's legit happiness in da majority of those marriages?

But hey, at least their rich right? Dat's all dat really matters in life.

 

[Anothergirl]

lol so you just go ignore what i said baby girl?

Da way you're speakin on marriage and wealth is as if it's primarily a business arrangment. You think there's legit happiness in da majority of those marriages?

But hey, at least their rich right? Dat's all dat really matters.

whether or not they're all happy unions was not my point hun. the point i was making was about the "culture" of marrige and it's importance...sure cheating happens in those types unions they happen in broke unwed unions too.

the difference between the two is children from one of those unions usually come from a culture where they're at the bottom of the socio-encomic ladder with no example of leadership...no financial sense....gender indentity issues due to lack of 2 parent household etc. we clearly see how well that's worked out for us.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I agree, most people in America are a bytch to money. People sacrifice themselves, their family, their health, live meaningless lives and suck corporate dikk not cause they want to but because they become slaves to societies expectations and demands. Then when they come across somebody like your boy they are in shock cuz they see a guy who maybe doesn't have as much money as they do and doesn't cherish a dollar like they do and they see his high level of happiness and it fukks up their whole existence cuz now they question their own meaningless existence.
Money isn't everything but you can't tell a broke nikka that cuz they ain't never had shyt and when you don't have it society makes it seem like it's everything. Only people who have money understand that.

Feel good rhetoric. You don't have to be a corporate slave to make money. I wish people would change their outlook on the ways of making money.

If you don't want to bring a child into the world, fine. If you want to stop your gene line, fine. If you don't feel it necessary to go further and farther than those before you, fine. I guess you can conveniently chop all that up under "rejecting the American Dream"

Like I understand what y'all are saying, but I also have a responsibility to my family currently and in the future. I'm not willing to just say "fukk it all" and sacrifice my family's future because of something I feel for the moment or even something I felt for a couple of years. It's bigger than me.

When I work to make money, I'm not thinking "paying bills, rent due". Im thinking, how can this benefit my family for generations to come. Short sightedness is not beneficial. Just because I think the capitalistic structure of society is stupid doesn't mean I'm not willing to afford my kids or grandkids or etc. any less than what they deserve or what I can earn for them. I'll grit my teeth through it all if it means things get better or easier for them even if they don't exist yet.

You and your feelings only last for a lifetime. Ya family name and legacy lasts forever if you can make it.

 

[Jahmal]

Almost every married guy I know is unhappy and trickin their money off on strippers and escorts. I refuse to end up a chump like that. Shout out to all my unmarried brehs that are stacking their paper and living the good life.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

whether or not they're all happy unions was not my point hun. the point i was making was about the "culture" of marrige and it's importance...sure cheating happens in those types unions they happen in broke unwed unions too.

the difference between the two is children from one of those unions usually come from a culture where they're at the bottom of the socio-encomic ladder with no example of leadership...no financial sense....gender indentity issues due to lack of 2 parent household etc. we clearly see how well that's worked out for us.

1.So what you're sayin is da cheatin n shyt is no biggie as long as da parents are financially well off? Like yeah it's a turd but it's a polished turd wit diamonds in it?

2. lmao like kids from a well off 2 parent household are immune to being born a homosexual and or suffer from chemical imbalances/botched chromosome levels. (if dat's what you were referring to).

You're smarter than dis AG. Wtf breh.