PANIC Time: If you're around 30 (flabby and sick) and still single.

[MeachTheMonster]

Thats if i EVER Have Kids

While I lived my Twenties and a large part of my 30's single and Free, you were raising Babies

While I had to option to go travel wherever the fuk I wanted, Go to any Club I wanted, chase as many Women as I wanted, you HAD NO CHOICE But to Stay Home and Raise the Kids

While I have the option to Do what Young People do, which is to PArty and Live it up, you had to take care of the family

I'd Rather be Free Young So I can get all the fukkery out of my life as Opposed to Raising a Family Young and having all the fukkery come later in life


Theres nothing Cute with people in their 40-50's living their second childhood

Not mad at all. Life is good for me. I went to college, I spent my time being irresponsible and getting the fukkary out, I still do sometimes. Having kids doesn't mean you don't get to do the things you want to. In the last year I have gone to Vegas and on a cruise, and next year we are taking the kids to Disney world. I have also enjoyed my time raising the kids. It has nothing to do with "living a second childhood" it's about being able to spend the best years of mine and my wife's life being happy and comfortable with each other, with minimal responsibility. Women are in their sexual prime between 30-40 I will spend that time having fun with my wife. You(if you have kids) will spend that time watching your wife go through emotional and physical crisis as she tries to have a couple babies. Plus the older you get the less likely you are at finding a good untainted woman, cause all the good ones have been wifed up before they hit 30.

 

[#1 pick]

I don't want to be 50 still raising children but at the same time, ain't no need to rush things but it would be cool to have someone I can hold down and vice versa.

 

[L@CaT]

Not mad at all. Life is good for me. I went to college, I spent my time being irresponsible and getting the fukkary out, I still do sometimes. Having kids doesn't mean you don't get to do the things you want to. In the last year I have gone to Vegas and on a cruise, and next year we are taking the kids to Disney world. I have also enjoyed my time raising the kids. It has nothing to do with "living a second childhood" it's about being able to spend the best years of mine and my wife's life being happy and comfortable with each other, with minimal responsibility. Women are in their sexual prime between 30-40 I will spend that time having fun with my wife. You(if you have kids) will spend that time watching your wife go through emotional and physical crisis as she tries to have a couple babies. Plus the older you get the less likely you are at finding a good untainted woman, cause all the good ones have been wifed up before they hit 30.

As long as you have your money right, you will always have the option of dating younger women

I already Do

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I don't want to be 50 still raising children but at the same time, ain't no need to rush things but it would be cool to have someone I can hold down and vice versa.

50s the new 30 my niggy

 

[DaRealness]

Negro please. No ducktales, but I'm 33 years old and have the women like because I'm single, good job, flat (apartment), my own car, keep myself healthy and in shape and look younger than what I am.

It's always funny to hear these little candybar bred kids clown like they're gonna be teenagers/early 20s forever.

 

[SuburbanPimp]

would you say the age gap and or her age made it work out better for u?

Both, Now of course her being younger is a win. She has that enegry, she is physically fit and motivated and she still feels like she can do whatever she wants to do (career wise)and I love that.

The age gap is dope because its not too close so that we both like all of the same type shyt, but its not too far that we can't relate to each other.

But marriage isn't for everybody though, I was honestly ready.

I was tired of lying to chicks, trying to juggle females, giving chicks fake attention just to get the box and disappear. I was just burnt out on that. Thats all I was basically doing from 15-26.

Now that I have my ONE female, it so relaxing bruh. I don't have to worry about my phone and if I erased all my texts or emails. I don't have to worry about trying to spend time with all those females. I don't worry about other females at all. I was worry i would cheat because I always have, but this has been so refreshing I don't I want to do anything to mess it up.

For Most Dudes I would say 30-35 is actually the prime age to get married though.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

I'M 31 THIS YEAR. I WON'T LIE. I NEED A LIL SNIFLES JR SOON BREH. I'M TRYING MY HARDEST TO HOLD OUT FOR A WIFE BUT shyt IS GETTING OUT OF HAND. MY UNCLE TOLD ME TO COME DOWN SOUTH AND SCOOP A COUNTRY GIRL TO MARRY. MIGHT HAVE TO DO THAT. HAVING A HARD TIME FINDING ONE TO SETTLE DOWN WITH.

 

[funkee]

you young nikkas don't get it...i'm 31, got my own a place, a nice whip, money that i get bored having, and look 25-27...we're taking all your young girls plus the mid-late 30's chicks that are looking for a guy like us...late 20s-mid 30s is a great time to be a man if you have your shyt together

 

[MikelArteta]

<doesnt want to get married
<doesnt want kids

plus as a man when you get older the power shifts toward you, women have losing their eggs, grey hair, wrinkles, saggy boobs and ass, menapause, looks decay the one thing of value they bring to the table.

marriage is a archaic decaying institution, half of marriages end in divorce, 70% of women file for divorces. Most men are not happiy married and the one thing they will tell you is don't do it. Kids are annoying and nagging and are just things to blow your money on.

I'd rather blow my money on traveling, gambling, videogames, or saving than to blow it on a white picket fence house, and bratty children and their expensive education.

I'm 27 with no responsibilities, no nagging gf or wife and life is great, I ain't on dating sites, or i don't do social networking i don't simp for the box like you losers, or need a chick to "feel complete" like a corny hollywood movie, nikkas are so indoctrinated and weak that they dont realize they hold the power

 

[MikelArteta]

I got married at 28....

Planned it beautifully, I kicked it, had fun, threesomes, all types of races, body types, ages and females from 17-27. Met my wife, she was 20 and I was 26.

It was great for me cause I was ready to get out of the streets, clubs, and meet someone I could start building a future with.

Now we married,both of our cars are paid for, we have a house and 2 year old little girl.

All my firends are either divorced or single and when we go out I have more fun then all of them cause I just get drunk and talk to girls crazy cause I have nothing to lose and I know when I leave I'ma have a blunt and some warm nappy dugiout waiting at home for me

so you married your wife when she was 22

60 percent of marriages for couples between the ages of 20 and 25 end in divorce. " National Center for Health Statistics



good luck

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

What's in it for men to get married?

 

[L@CaT]

<doesnt want to get married
<doesnt want kids

plus as a man when you get older the power shifts toward you, women have losing their eggs, grey hair, wrinkles, saggy boobs and ass, menapause, looks decay the one thing of value they bring to the table.

marriage is a archaic decaying institution, half of marriages end in divorce, 70% of women file for divorces. Most men are not happiy married and the one thing they will tell you is don't do it. Kids are annoying and nagging and are just things to blow your money on.

I'd rather blow my money on traveling, gambling, videogames, or saving than to blow it on a white picket fence house, and bratty children and their expensive education.

I'm 27 with no responsibilities, no nagging gf or wife and life is great, I ain't on dating sites, or i don't do social networking i don't simp for the box like you losers, or need a chick to "feel complete" like a corny hollywood movie, nikkas are so indoctrinated and weak that they dont realize they hold the power

Personally, I want chidren one day

But I am not willing to compromise on my freedom.. Only way I will have kids in this society is if Im wealthy enough to not only take care of my children but wealthy enough to have the freedom to do whatever the fuk I want and when I want

I wont compromise on that

If im never financially Stable enough to do both, I simply will not have children, and use my monies to travel the world

 

[MikelArteta]

What's in it for men to get married?

 

[Bolzmark]

This thread can't possibly be intended for men.

Exactly. Let me tell you, being in your 30's, as a man, means almost nothing. Especially if you got your shyt together. And I'm in my late 30's. House, car, no kids. 6'4" 230lbs. Of course you cant eat and drink crazy like you may have in your 20's, but I aint no vegan either. Just got home from the gym. And the age range of women I date...mid/late 20's to early 40's.

And I'm in Atlanta.

The only thing that concerns me is being young enough when I do have kids is to be able to play wit 'em. So my aim is to stay healthy and fit.

 

[Swing]

31, single, no kids, got rid of the HIV, good car,good condo, best shape of my life and smashin the type of women early 20s yr old that wouldnt have given me play back in the day. life is great!