I know it's cool to pretend to be alright with being still single well into your 30s. Lying saying "I like being single." You're a damn lie. Don't lie to yourself. That's cool if you in-shape, money right and still look young. But most of you all best day's are looonng gone. You fatter, you broker and uglier than you ever been. You got that nasty gut pouch! How you figure you're going to find the person of your dreams?
If you're not dating the best women or men of your life right now, that means you're past your prime. You need to be locking the next best thing you can find. The dating pool gets smaller as you get older, unless you're looking to date 30s/40s blk women. There a lot of them in the most major city.
Especially women, how long you going wait for Mr. Right? You think about what Mr. Right is looking for? Probably not you. He hasn't picked you after all this time.
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Personally, I want chidren one day
But I am not willing to compromise on my freedom.. Only way I will have kids in this society is if Im wealthy enough to not only take care of my children but wealthy enough to have the freedom to do whatever the fuk I want and when I want
I wont compromise on that
If im never financially Stable enough to do both, I simply will not have children, and use my monies to travel the world![]()
I'm 30 and NONE of what you said applies to me.
I'm in my best shape, eat my best, I look my best, and most importantly to me, my mind is matured.
People think I'm 24-25 year old.
My parents are 60 and ppl still think they're in their 40s. Live life, try to do ur best, stay away from drugs & alochol(excessive) and if you have good genes you'll be fine.
Plus in this day & age, getting married is different. The dating game is so messed up.
All my cousins and I are college grads, all of us still single, only one was ever married.
Live your life on your own timing.
in your model of the world everyone wants what you want so you can't conceive a man that doesn't want a wife, doesn't want kids and has no plans on ever having either.I know it's cool to pretend to be alright with being still single well into your 30s. Lying saying "I like being single." You're a damn lie. Don't lie to yourself. That's cool if you in-shape, money right and still look young. But most of you all best day's are looonng gone. You fatter, you broker and uglier than you ever been. You got that nasty gut pouch! How you figure you're going to find the person of your dreams?
If you're not dating the best women or men of your life right now, that means you're past your prime. You need to be locking the next best thing you can find. The dating pool gets smaller as you get older, unless you're looking to date 30s/40s blk women. There a lot of them in the most major city.
Especially women, how long you going wait for Mr. Right? You think about what Mr. Right is looking for? Probably not you. He hasn't picked you after all this time.
Ladies and gents stop chasing dreams and lying to yourself. You know you'd love to be sitting the beach with someone you're in love with. A lot of you are in danger of being the taco meat showing, gold nugget geneva jewerly wearing old man in the club. And a lot of you women and next in the old, police calling, nose azz creepy cat lady line. Find you someone nice to love and do nice things with and settle down. I did.Old men look real creepy/gay when they're 40 with no kids and wife.
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if i want kids one day i'll adopt or do the michael jackson and pony up and get a surrogate and a live in filipino nanny, never have to worry about child support or my kid being taken away in divorce custody.
freedom is the one thing you hvae in this life that you live once, don't give it up![]()
I want to have biological black kids one day from a nerdy black chick that is slim, cute, and humble.
31, single, no kids, got rid of the HIV, good car,good condo, best shape of my life and smashin the type of women early 20s yr old that wouldnt have given me play back in the day. life is great!![]()
People who are happy aren't spiteful...so you married your wife when she was 22
60 percent of marriages for couples between the ages of 20 and 25 end in divorce. " National Center for Health Statistics
good luck![]()
People who are happy aren't spiteful...
But keep selling yourself that dream![]()
Exactly. Let me tell you, being in your 30's, as a man, means almost nothing. Especially if you got your shyt together. And I'm in my late 30's. House, car, no kids. 6'4" 230lbs. Of course you cant eat and drink crazy like you may have in your 20's, but I aint no vegan either. Just got home from the gym. And the age range of women I date...mid/late 20's to early 40's.
And I'm in Atlanta.
The only thing that concerns me is being young enough when I do have kids is to be able to play wit 'em. So my aim is to stay healthy and fit.
so you married your wife when she was 22
60 percent of marriages for couples between the ages of 20 and 25 end in divorce. " National Center for Health Statistics
good luck![]()