PANIC Time: If you're around 30 (flabby and sick) and still single.

[Rocket Scientist]

Im close to 30 and my married friends tell me.Get married when you want,not when you have to.I think marriage is a great thing when done right,but these days its becoming a fad.most women are doing it for financial reasons,because they have a kid together,or because they friends doing it. Say what you want about reincar,but those statistics are very real.Between now and 20 years there will be clubs filled of single parents.SOME in this day and age arent built for marriage.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

MY THING IS I WANT TO BE AROUND TO SEE GRANDCHILDREN. IF I WAIT TOO LONG AND MY CHILD DOES THE SAME I DON'T WANT TO BE PRESSURING MY KIDS FOR KIDS LIKE HOW MY MOMS IS DOING ME RIGHT NOW.

IF I HURRY I CAN POSSIBLY SEE GREAT GRANDCHILDREN.

 

[Jamal514]

or need a chick to "feel complete" like a corny hollywood movie, nikkas are so indoctrinated and weak that they dont realize they hold the power[/B]

I'm 28 and I'd like to get married someday but I feel you on the bolded. When I get married, I'll do it for me, not because I wanna fit in with my married friends or because my mother pressured me.

 

[winb83]

<doesnt want to get married
<doesnt want kids

plus as a man when you get older the power shifts toward you, women have losing their eggs, grey hair, wrinkles, saggy boobs and ass, menapause, looks decay the one thing of value they bring to the table.

marriage is a archaic decaying institution, half of marriages end in divorce, 70% of women file for divorces. Most men are not happiy married and the one thing they will tell you is don't do it. Kids are annoying and nagging and are just things to blow your money on.

I'd rather blow my money on traveling, gambling, videogames, or saving than to blow it on a white picket fence house, and bratty children and their expensive education.

I'm 27 with no responsibilities, no nagging gf or wife and life is great, I ain't on dating sites, or i don't do social networking i don't simp for the box like you losers, or need a chick to "feel complete" like a corny hollywood movie, nikkas are so indoctrinated and weak that they dont realize they hold the power

outside of vagina what can a woman really offer you as a man in that companion type role? honestly most men tolerate the so called companionship just to get the p*ssy but mentally men and woman are so far apart its hard for the majority of men to relate to the majority of women.

i know its a lot of guys on here that are living a marriage straight out of a Disney movie at the moment but how long will that really last? romantic relationships come with too many attachments, expectations, and obligations that create too much stress for them to last very long in many cases. the shelf life for most of those style relationships is 5 years or less before the pressure and stress of them cause them to collapse on themselves.

you can be friends with somebody 20 or more years and its typically not difficult, trying, or hard to do. try being married for 20 years. i haven't had anybody that's been married that long tell me it was easy or that it wasn't challenging at times.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

And 50% of marriages end in divorce blah, blah, blah....

Yes I've heard it all before..

Maybe it will who knows....

But for now, I'm much more happier than I EVER was single.

I still play video games, smoke weed, watch sports all weekend, play poker, go to happy hours and the parties with my potnas and my wife doesn't try to stop me from doing those things. I just don't see what I'm missing in being single anymore. Its like I get to do what the single guys do but yet when they go home by themselves I go home Home Cooked Meals, Clean ass house, In House p*ssy.

I honestly didn't expect to enjoy being married as much as I have...

Cosign. If you get a good woman and have a good relationship nothing can compare. Too many dudes live life for p*ssy. They think as long as they are getting p*ssy they will be happy, but these are the same dudes that find themselves 55 and lonely trickin off all their money on young hoes that want nothing to do with their old asses.

I can understand taking your time and not rushing into marriage, but eventually almost everybody wants a little more than superficial day to day encounters.

 

[winb83]

And 50% of marriages end in divorce blah, blah, blah....

Yes I've heard it all before..

Maybe it will who knows....

But for now, I'm much more happier than I EVER was single.

I still play video games, smoke weed, watch sports all weekend, play poker, go to happy hours and the parties with my potnas and my wife doesn't try to stop me from doing those things. I just don't see what I'm missing in being single anymore. Its like I get to do what the single guys do but yet when they go home by themselves I go home Home Cooked Meals, Clean ass house, In House p*ssy.

I honestly didn't expect to enjoy being married as much as I have...

sure you are happy right now. get back with us in 15 years if you're still even with the same woman. the secret to this shyt is to pull all the benefits of committing without any of the drawbacks and marriage works against that.

marriage is not the relationship with the woman you're with. you had a relationship before you married her. marriage is you signing a binding legal contract that says that you'll each take responsibility for the decisions both of you make and if the relationship fails you'll allow some third party a$$hole to step in and divide up all your shyt as they see fit.

have fun when some a$$hole judge tells you that the wife gets the house, car, and the big screen tv and its not jack shyt you can do about it. have fun when your wife has the house in both yall names and you can't get it in her name only cause she'd have to refinance and the bank won't approve her alone so your name is on a house you don't even live in anymore and when they foreclose on it cause she skips out on paying the mortgage you gotta eat that on your credit report. have fun when some other nikka is brought around your kids and gets to spend more time with them than you do cause she got custody. have fun when your wife soon to be ex-wife runs up crazy credit card bills before the divorce knowing she'll leave you then after it gets finalized leaves you on the hook for her charges.

this is the shyt you risked to sign that paper.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

sure you are happy right now. get back with us in 15 years if you're still even with the same woman. the secret to this shyt is to pull all the benefits of committing without any of the drawbacks and marriage works against that.

marriage is not the relationship with the woman you're with. you had a relationship before you married her. marriage is you signing a binding legal contract that says that you'll each take responsibility for the decisions both of you make and if the relationship fails you'll allow some third party a$$hole to step in and divide up all your shyt as they see fit.

have fun when some a$$hole judge tells you that the wife gets the house, car, and the big screen tv and its not jack shyt you can do about it. have fun when your wife has the house in both yall names and you can't get it in her name only cause she'd have to refinance and the bank won't approve her alone so your name is on a house you don't even live in anymore and when they foreclose on it cause she skips out on paying the mortgage you gotta eat that on your credit report. have fun when some other nikka is brought around your kids and gets to spend more time with them than you do cause she got custody.

You go so hard against marriage your starting to seem like a married guy molested you or something.

This negative picture you paint is not the norm. The 50% number is inaccurate in the first place. And even then most times a couple gets divorced because they never should have gotten married in the first place. Not to many couples go through life happy and just one day up and decided they don't like their wife/husband anymore.

 

[homiedontplaydat]

35 and bringing in 250k as a household = winning. I do hope my kids get scholarships(my daughters already in advanced classes) but if they don't we will be ok financially, he'll they both already have a college fund going on right now.

You will be 35-40 having your first kid and you and your wife will spend your best years chasing around babies.

You think your winning now, but being 40 and watching after todllers is fukked up.

Im glad somebody gets it. These dudes wanna run around living the life til theyre 40+ and then decide to have kids. Motherfukkers will be damn near 50 with toddlers in the house. When im 50 all my kids will be in college

Also i wanted to be married. My folks been married for 26 years now and that means something to me, and i have a good woman that can give me that. You can be married, raise a family, get money, and look good while ur doing it. But to each his own, what good is success and happieness if u have no one around to share it with or pass it on to

 

[Steve Piffler]

what do you nikkaz have against being 30+?

trust me brehs, your 30's is the BEST years. Grown man checks, a clear understanding of women, better sense of style, solid sexual experience, and a nice car/crib. i'm telling you, nikkas can have the pick of the litter when he is in 30's...don't sleep....

 

[606onit]

31, single, no kids, got rid of the HIV, good car,good condo, best shape of my life and smashin the type of women early 20s yr old that wouldnt have given me play back in the day. life is great!

 

[Street Knowledge]

Most of what being said here is true. But I hope a nikka who was a lame his teen and early 20's don't think just because they turn 30 they're gonna magically get p*ssy if you wasn't getting any before

 

[winb83]

You go so hard against marriage your starting to seem like a married guy molested you or something.

This negative picture you paint is not the norm. The 50% number is inaccurate in the first place. And even then most times a couple gets divorced because they never should have gotten married in the first place. Not to many couples go through life happy and just one day up and decided they don't like their wife/husband anymore.

i guess you don't know that many people that have gone through a divorce. the point is you face all of that if you get married and end up with a divorce and there's really not a damn thing you can do about it.

i know people who when the marriage began to fail the wife ran up credit cards and they got a divorce and they came out and they got fukked on those bills.

i know people who were married and ordered to give the wife the house and they couldn't get their name removed from the mortgage cause the lender wouldn't approve the wife on her credit alone so the husband had to leave his name on a house he didn't even live in that ended up in foreclosure.

damn near everybody gets their assets divided up in a divorce. the statistics don't matter in the face of every marriage being both unique and a crap shoot. welcome to the world of no fault divorce where if a woman gets bored or upset she can legally fukk you over in a divorce and there's not a damn thing you can do about it.

in a marriage you as the man have to do what the wife says and if you don't she can divorce you and take half of all the shyt you have and fukk up your credit cause when you're married that shyt is community property.

you can't guarantee a marriage will work because you can't control the other person and as a man if it fails you'll likely lose while she gains. so is the juice worth that squeeze?

 

[Ashley Banks]

Not for everyone. I don't really want to get married/be in a relationship so it's not a panic for me. Men are too unreliable when it comes to stuff like that. I just want kids and I can adopt.

 

[winb83]

Im glad somebody gets it. These dudes wanna run around living the life til theyre 40+ and then decide to have kids. Motherfukkers will be damn near 50 with toddlers in the house. When im 50 all my kids will be in college

Also i wanted to be married. My folks been married for 26 years now and that means something to me, and i have a good woman that can give me that. You can be married, raise a family, get money, and look good while ur doing it. But to each his own, what good is success and happieness if u have no one around to share it with or pass it on to

your folks are from a different era the women in this era aren't like the women of your mother's. a 26 year marriage could work back then but these days you're lucky not to be a starter husband if you get married young.

your moms didn't grow up with facebook, twitter, instagram, text messages, cell phones, and instant access to thousands of people socially at the tip of her fingers. you hit a rough patch and its 1000s of dudes in your woman's ear trying to take her.

don't compare those marriages from the days where you worked through problems instead of instantly connecting with somebody else and cheating behind your spouses back with them none-the-wiser.

you think women back then had the luxury of dating the kinda fukked up nikkas they date these days? these days whoever you wife was probably somebody else's jump off doing all types of wild shyt and only ready to get married after they're used up by nikkas.

 

[Red Maverick II]

31, single, no kids, got rid of the HIV, good car,good condo, best shape of my life and smashin the type of women early 20s yr old that wouldnt have given me play back in the day. life is great!

Explain breh