PANIC Time: If you're around 30 (flabby and sick) and still single.

[DaChampIsHere]

Lol.....your whole post just proved my point.....make a statement can't back it up with any type of reason just smilies, your point is just as stupid as the marriage doesn't work people.... You have a lot of growing up to do

Says the guy who thinks wanting children is a "insurance policy". You want me to keep arguing the same thing when 2 people have came in here, on your side of feelings, and proved my point. No need for us to keep discussing how we personally feel when we have people actually stating what it is.

If you seriously think you were sayin anything eam remotely close to what buddy is sayin and/or executed in a way dat would back dem claims up throughout dis thread then you really are out of your fukkin mind breh.

That is the 2nd time someone has said exactly what I'm talking about (being socially deficient in that area), concerning themselves.

Like I said before, if you all stop focusing on the way words make you feel, you will see what I'm talking about. Because any time someone posts it about themselves, no one has anything to say, when I do such, everyone has hissy fits.

winb could post in here all day about how he has attachment issues with people, no one bats an eye. But if I point it out or state it myself, big deal. LOL.

 

[Anothergirl]

@ hissy fits

 

[Anothergirl]

Honestly upon further research some of these guys may not be full blown "sociopaths". a lot of them could just be lowkey Avoidant Personality Disorder types trying to guise feelings of inadequacies with the idea that "settling down is for lames!"

in which Avodiants are nowhere NEAR as bad as Socios imo...i actually just feel bad for them. again it's something they can't help.
Avoidant personality disorder - PubMed Health

btw i'm knocking anyone with any kind of mental disorder as i well know...it's not something the person can help or ask to be born with.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Like I said before, if you all stop focusing on the way words make you feel, you will see what I'm talking about. Because any time someone posts it about themselves, no one has anything to say, when I do such, everyone has hissy fits.

winb could post in here all day about how he has attachment issues with people, no one bats an eye. But if I point it out or state it myself, big deal. LOL.

lol Breh da reason nikkas are comin atchu is because you speak as if YOUR WAY or da way of whoever it is you role wit is somehow flawless and superior. And anybody who expresses their choice/reason for a different path is somehow now drenched in all dese demeaning adjectives and negative character traits because of it. Or somehow lowered to another tier because their choice bests benefits THEM. You can't just role up some nikka who decided what's best for him dat dat shyt is stupid or wrong because YOU wouldn't do it. Dat shyt reeks of immaturity and ignorance mah dood.

And in all honesty it really comes across as if you lived in a sheltered fukkin box your entire life breh. Like you're some wierd Amish/black hybrid or somethin. You're painfully dense when it comes to understanding dat people have different life choices and experiences breh. I dunno wtf else to tell you except keep trollin or doin whatever it is you think you're doin right now.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

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We don't have to keep arguing about something that people on your side of things have already agreed with me on. You keep focusing on being "demeaned" even when I've told you to remove your emotions. Keep them on your sleeve though.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Right.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

We don't have to keep arguing about something that people on your side of things have already agreed with me on. You keep focusing on being "demeaned" even when I've told you to remove your emotions. Keep them on your sleeve though.

I'm doin da same thing as every person wit an account here is doin...I'm responding to a cluster of words wit another cluster of words. You can keep tryin to project shyt onto others but it's not gonna stick no matter how many times you try n throw it breh.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I'm doin da same thing as every person wit an account here is doin...I'm responding to a cluster of words wit another cluster of words. You can keep tryin to project shyt onto others but it's not gonna stick no matter how many times you try n throw it breh.

I'm not trying to project. You keep getting "demeaned"/"belittled" out of things, when I've (a) told you to remove your feelings (b) stated there's nothing wrong, worse, or better, just different, (c) said I have people who are close to me who feel the exact same social deficiencies I'm talking about when it comes to commitment (and it shows in other aspects of their life).

Like at some point, you just have to realize that you're choosing to feel the way you feel, not me "making" you feel such or even attempting to.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

I'm not trying to project. You keep getting "demeaned"/"belittled" out of things, when I've (a) told you to remove your feelings (b) stated there's nothing wrong, worse, or better, just different, (c) said I have people who are close to me who feel the exact same social deficiencies I'm talking about when it comes to commitment (and it shows in other aspects of their life).

Like at some point, you just have to realize that you're choosing to feel the way you feel, not me "making" you feel such or even attempting to.

For someone who has posted about their intellectual achievements you seem to have forgot da most basic definition of adverbs and adjectives. Dere's a difference between saying "The color is blue to a person" and "The color is blue to an idiot". Your arrogance and stubbornness is what's keepin you blind from seein da simplest of explanations given to you by others who dont share your same outlook on life.

Like at some point, you just have to realize dat you're choosing to ignore da way you execute, not me "making" your feel such for even attempting to.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

For someone who has posted about their intellectual achievements you've seem to have forgot da most basic definition of adverbs and adjectives. Dere's a difference between saying "The color is blue to a person" and "The color is blue to an idiot". Your arrogance and stubbornness is keepin you blind from seein da simplest of explanations given to you by others who dont share your outlook on life.
Like at some point, you just have to realize dat you're choosing to ignore da way you execute, not me "making" your feel such for even attempting to.

Like I said earlier, you say it about yourself, it's fine. I say it about you, it's a problem.

I say you're a late bloomer/childish/etc. when you're talking about getting things at 32 that you couldn't get at 20, I'm wrong.

I say these people have social deficiencies, when they proudly state they are introverts/don't like being around people, hate women, have problems with attachment, etc. I'm wrong.

Again, I never asked you to share my outlook on life. I'm simply offering personality type explanations. winb says some of you aren't built for that social commitment, it's fine. I say you aren't, you have a problem.

Besides the gay part, I didn't state anything in here someone didn't already say about their self. I'm not here to sugar coat or coddle your emotions so I don't have to watch my execution. I'm not your mom, don't expect me to act like it. And if the only thing you're mad about is execution, then stop arguing content with me as if it's wrong.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Like I said earlier, you say it about yourself, it's fine. I say it about you, it's a problem.

I say you're a late bloomer/childish/etc. when you're talking about getting things at 32 that you couldn't get at 20, I'm wrong.

I say these people have social deficiencies, when they proudly state they are introverts/don't like being around people, hate women, have problems with attachment, etc. I'm wrong.

Besides the gay part, I didn't state anything in here someone didn't already say about their self. I'm not here to sugar coat or coddle your emotions so I don't have to watch my execution. I'm not your mom, don't expect me to act like it.

Can't speak for those 2 or 3 who've put demselves on blast. I'm talkin from da perspective of those who have chosen to embrace da idea of not living their lives for da approval of others. Cats who don't feel da need to conform to whatever it is you or others like you think is da "protocol." I'm reppin nikkas who see/ accept all aspects, paths, and ways of life meant for da betterment of others. No matter which lane dey choose to do it in.

And I don't expect you to act like anything other than da troll whose throne you've claimed. I also don't expect you to understand logic or reason but if/whenever i feel like it, i'll remind you of their existence.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Cats who don't feel da need to conform to whatever it is you or others like you think is da "protocol."

Show me where I asked you to conform to any thing or "protocol". Go. I've made character assessments, but I've never said "You should do blah blah blah...".

Every time I prove you wrong on one thing, you jump back to the other. For the second time in 3 posts, I've said people are free to do what they want and that there's nothing wrong with such. Many people I'm close with do no fit into this imaginary protocol you think I have.

Do whatever you want, just know that you feel the way you do because of the way you think/function.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Show me where I asked you to conform to any thing or "protocol". Go. I've made character assessments, but I've never said "You should do blah blah blah...".

Every time I prove you wrong on one thing, you jump back to the other. For the second time in 3 posts, I've said people are free to do what they want and that there's nothing wrong with such. Many people I'm close with do no fit into this imaginary protocol you think I have.

lol how many times you gon edit yo post breh?


But naw naw you not gonna pull dat fade to black bytch tactic on me cuzzo.

You have CLEARLY talked major shyt about da nikkas who came in here givin their reasons for not wanting to and/or postponing gettin married. Dey've given you multiple reasons why, eam personal stories dat were used as a conduit to their new outlook on life. And you know what you did? You shat on em and tried to pass their reasons off as some kind of a. personality disorder b. lack of a certain prominent character trait YOU think dey should have or c. all of the above. Dat shyt is well documented all throughout dis piece. And it's also clear how as da more n more cats started comin in here gun checkin dat wack shyt you've now changed da decibel levels of your earlier beat to a now more docile finger tap. We see you doggie.

Do whatever you want, just know that you feel the way you do because of the way you think/function.

 

[ClassyME]

Im not even 18 yet

lookin ass nikkas, yall mad?

I feel so damn old.

Spoiler

Few more yrs till 30

 

[BillBanneker]

You apparently know him enough to know that he'd never want a relationship/commitment/marriage/kids/etc. IDK about getting on me for something you did as well.

There's also nothing "theoretical" about him having a 3-year relationship. How do you have a theoretical relationship.

Dude was well into his 30's living a non-committal lifestyle, which according to your logic of being a successful man.