PANIC Time: If you're around 30 (flabby and sick) and still single.

[DaChampIsHere]

Dude was well into his 30's living a non-committal lifestyle, which according to your logic of being a successful man.

He tried I don't think 33/34 is "well" into your 30s. We also have to realize that we don't know how Jeter socially feels about women. You can be a plus +30 millionaire and be unable to establish/maintain long-term connections.

a. personality disorder b. lack of a certain prominent character trait YOU think dey should have or

LOL. That's what it is though. But it's not what I think you should have though. It's just what you don't have.

I don't think everyone should be extroverts, but if you're an introvert that's what you are. If you can't see yourself committing to a female long-term, you lack a certain social connection to them. Like I said earlier, the shyt y'all are trying to say doesn't logically make any sense. You're good with women and you are able to make meaningful connections with them... but for the rest of your life you only want to smash them or be Mr. Friend Zone. Those two instances don't make sense together.

I never backed down on anything I said. Am I a little "bleh" repeating the same thing over and over again? Kinda.

If I was demeaning you or really thought you were inferior, trust, I would say so. The world is already over populated. Me thinking you to as inferior would support any theory about the weaker part of the species dying off while everyone else progressed. If I wanted to demean you, there'd even be science to back me up. Trust.

 

[Jahmal]

Whats wrong with a man wanting to have relationships with multiple women? N1ggaz in Africa been having multiple wives for thousands of years. You n1ggaz have been brainwash by western society.

 

[winb83]

Honestly upon further research some of these guys may not be full blown "sociopaths". a lot of them could just be lowkey Avoidant Personality Disorder types trying to guise feelings of inadequacies with the idea that "settling down is for lames!"

in which Avodiants are nowhere NEAR as bad as Socios imo...i actually just feel bad for them. again it's something they can't help.
Avoidant personality disorder - PubMed Health

btw i'm knocking anyone with any kind of mental disorder as i well know...it's not something the person can help or ask to be born with.

Sometimes settling down doesn't offer enough reward to counteract the risk. The mess the relationship failing will leave is not worth the benefits the relationship offers. The only people that can see this however are people who can set their emotions aside and make the decision based purely on logic.

 

[winb83]

He tried I don't think 33/34 is "well" into your 30s. We also have to realize that we don't know how Jeter socially feels about women. You can be a plus +30 millionaire and be unable to establish/maintain long-term connections.

LOL. That's what it is though. But it's not what I think you should have though. It's just what you don't have.

I don't think everyone should be extroverts, but if you're an introvert that's what you are. If you can't see yourself committing to a female long-term, you lack a certain social connection to them. Like I said earlier, the shyt y'all are trying to say doesn't logically make any sense. You're good with women and you are able to make meaningful connections with them... but for the rest of your life you only want to smash them or be Mr. Friend Zone. Those two instances don't make sense together.

I never backed down on anything I said. Am I a little "bleh" repeating the same thing over and over again? Kinda.

If I was demeaning you or really thought you were inferior, trust, I would say so. The world is already over populated. Me thinking you to as inferior would support any theory about the weaker part of the species dying off while everyone else progressed. If I wanted to demean you, there'd even be science to back me up. Trust.

Are marriage and long term commitment biological desires or social desires? In other words are these things that you naturally desire or are they concepts you learned from others that if you were never introduced to you wouldn't give a fukk about?

if nobody tells a boy about sex and he sees a naked woman it will still arouse him. Would a man that was never shown what a long term committed monogamous relationship was at some point desire that on his own naturally?

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Are marriage and long term commitment biological desires or social desires? In other words are these things that you naturally desire or are they concepts you learned from others that if you were never introduced to you wouldn't give a fukk about?
if nobody tells a boy about sex and he sees a naked woman it will still arouse him. Would a man that was never shown what a long term committed monogamous relationship was at some point desire that on his own naturally?

Companionship is a natural instinct, but social hang ups/experiences prevent people from pursuing such. Woman is perfect for man in that he can not only gain companionship, but also receive sexual stimulation. 2 birds with 1 stone.

Also, to your above post: There's a really high risk of catching Herpes (80% of people have some form of it). So you don't have sex or kiss females correct?

 

[Jahmal]

Companionship is a natural instinct, but social hang ups/experiences prevent people from pursuing such. Woman is perfect for man in that he can not only gain companionship, but also receive sexual stimulation. 2 birds with 1 stone.

In your opinion, Whats wrong with a man wanting companionship and sex with multiple women?

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

Not a god damn thing breh

 

[DaChampIsHere]

In your opinion, Whats wrong with a man wanting companionship and sex with multiple women?

I think most men want that at a certain age. But something tells me it's not "fun" to be +50 and still juggling women. Because at that point, you're either tricking off your well earned resources to young women who don't want you for anything but your money (and more than likely getting played while she's also with a young dude) or your hitting women your age that are the left overs of what other dudes didn't want earlier in life (uglier, bad bodies, jaded from not ever being chose so they are probably naggers, plus older people are a rest haven for HIV/AIDS and other STDs because studies show they are not likely at all to use condoms).

If that's the life you want, cool.

 

[Strapped]

Originally Posted by Anothergirl View Post
Honestly upon further research some of these guys may not be full blown "sociopaths". a lot of them could just be lowkey Avoidant Personality Disorder types trying to guise feelings of inadequacies with the idea that "settling down is for lames!"

in which Avodiants are nowhere NEAR as bad as Socios imo...i actually just feel bad for them. again it's something they can't help.
Avoidant personality disorder - PubMed Health

btw i'm knocking anyone with any kind of mental disorder as i well know...it's not something the person can help or ask to be born with.
really ,so you trying to rationalize why smart men will not marry

 

[MeachTheMonster]

In your opinion, Whats wrong with a man wanting companionship and sex with multiple women?

You can't build and sustain true companionship with multiple women. It's hard enough to do it with one.

But if that's not what your looking for than there is nothing wrong with dating multiple women. Where the problem may come is that later in life when you do want that real companionship you may not be able to get it.

 

[Jahmal]

I think most men want that at a certain age. But something tells me it's not "fun" to be +50 and still juggling women. Because at that point, you're either tricking off your well earned resources to young women who don't want you for anything but your money (and more than likely getting played while she's also with a young dude)

I dont know about you but if I was 55, I would rather be smashing a 30 yr women over a woman my own age. Can you imagine the smell of 55 yr old puzzy. I'm about to throw up just thinking about it. A 55 yr old who is juggling females wouldnt care if the younger chick is messing aroudn woth another dude. He isnt trying to marry her!

your hitting women your age that are the left overs of what other dudes didn't want earlier in life (uglier, bad bodies, jaded from not ever being chose so they are probably naggers, plus older people are a rest haven for HIV/AIDS and other STDs because studies show they are not likely at all to use condoms).

Nope. A 50+ dude with money, nice car and crib is not going to be messing with ugly chicks his own age if he has an ounce of game in his body. Why would a man in his 50s care if he got HIV? People are living 20+ years with HIV. That man would probably die of natural causes before he died from HIV.

 

[Jahmal]

You can't build and sustain true companionship with multiple women.

Speak for yourself! It works fine for other cultures and Mormons.

Where the problem may come is that later in life when you do want that real companionship you may not be able to get it.

Sh1t Most Married people cant even find real companionship.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I dont know about you but if I was 55, I would rather be smashing a 30 yr women over a woman my own age. Can you imagine the smell of 55 yr old puzzy. I'm about to throw up just thinking about it. A 55 yr old who is juggling females wouldnt care if the younger chick is messing aroudn woth another dude.

You gonna be shellin' out dough to smash them too. So you're going to be +55 payin' for p*ssy out your 401K while simultaneously knowing your sharing that girl who gives it up to the dude she really wants for free. No diss, but it seems a little "defeated and desperate" if it's just for p*ssy.

Why would a man in his 50s care if he got HIV? People are living 20+ years with HIV. That man would probably die of natural causes before he died from HIV.

When your response is "Why would I care if I have HIV?" I don't think things are too bright on that side of life. Like, I don't think anyone is lining up to catch HIV.

 

[winb83]

Companionship is a natural instinct, but social hang ups/experiences prevent people from pursuing such. Woman is perfect for man in that he can not only gain companionship, but also receive sexual stimulation. 2 birds with 1 stone.

Also, to your above post: There's a really high risk of catching Herpes (80% of people have some form of it). So you don't have sex or kiss females correct?

Companionship doesn't equate to long term committed relationship or marriage. Humans are social creatures but we socially invented the romantic monogamous long term committed relationship that transitions to marriage. Companions can just be friends.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Speak for yourself! It works fine for other cultures and Mormons.

That isn't companionship, that's using women for baby factories and basically slaves. If you can find a couple women who are down with that then go right ahead.

Sh1t Most Married people cant even find real companionship.

not true at all. You dudes want to take the worst stories and project them on all or most.