Paul Pierce says marriage is for poor people and old people, and explains why it offers no advantage for a man.

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Why does US society listen to men who publicly whore themselves out to prostitutes?

Like Paul Pierce…like Trump
I think there are two things going on.

One is with African Americans we come from west African cultures where polygamy was not outlawed and there is a streak in African American culture where having multiple women is part of that. African American men of means always seem the acquisition of women as a sign of status and it comes from our ties to West Africa. Men of means can have multiple wives.

This rise in promoting Tricking is different. The promotion of whoring in the US is no different than anywhere else except because of Trump. Trump grandfather was a pimp, he’s
Salacious/Scandalous and as the Christian right who have always been the Puritanism on America ignores his personal flaws, Trumps sleazy ways have become more mainstream.

Andrew Tate, Paul Pierce, Kevin Samuels, all this public displays of antifeminism, sexism, racism, xenophobia…. Hell even the antisemitism comes from Trump’s attack at American decency. These things have existed and unfortunately probably always will, but it was considered bad behavior to display them openly.
 

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I think there are two things going on.

One is with African Americans we come from west African cultures where polygamy was not outlawed and there is a streak in African American culture where having multiple women is part of that. African American men of means always seem the acquisition of women as a sign of status and it comes from our ties to West Africa. Men of means can have multiple wives.

This rise in promoting Tricking is different. The promotion of whoring in the US is no different than anywhere else except because of Trump. Trump grandfather was a pimp, he’s
Salacious/Scandalous and as the Christian right who have always been the Puritanism on America ignores his personal flaws, Trumps sleazy ways have become more mainstream.

Andrew Tate, Paul Pierce, Kevin Samuels, all this public displays of antifeminism, sexism, racism, xenophobia…. Hell even the antisemitism comes from Trump’s attack at American decency. These things have existed and unfortunately probably always will, but it was considered bad behavior to display them openly.

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Marriage is a commitment to build a family and be there for that family and allow the children to see how a man and woman navigate life’s ups and downs together. It’s a business decision to insure that your kids have emotional and financial stability.

Women have been taught that marriage is a fairytale event or a way to insure they’re taking care of when they’re ready to move on and men have been taught that marriage only benefits women by the crooked court system and example after example of men losing it all.

Has anyone ever stopped to consider why the courts don’t want families? More unstable families lead to more court cases (more money for the legal system) more rebellious kids (more criminals for the legal system) etc. Trust, if the government wanted more families becoming powerful through years of healthy marriages and empires being built, the messaging would be a lot different.

Men can’t run anything if we can’t demonstrate self control and if fukking new p*ssy is what’s keeping men from getting married, we aren’t fit to lead a family. Broken families haven’t benefited black people at all. But it’s probably all unrelated and coincidence.

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This is marriage in a nutshell. Cosplaying to the outside world as a perfectly happy couple while being miserable and sick of each other in private.
we made up, because sometimes adults dont see eye to eye on everything and mommy and daddy have to talk it out. it takes time.

i hope one day you find love.
 

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I rarely, if ever, see the married brehs on here complaining about marriage. :manny:



Ahhh what do I know? I’ll just zip my lip and mind my business
Because the type of dude that does it is...nvm.

Let me put it this way. Im in my first longer term relationship ever, 3 plus years so far. And as an analytical guy whos played the field before this...yeah this something you do when you are older, unnattractive, abd have limited options. You are stupid or inexperienced if you opt for this young. Or...you're the emotional type that will convince yourself of...love or something and you're the type that will love say..trump if thats a decision you made, and you want to stick to it. Most humans are this way.
 

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Marriage has also become like a social status for women and I think that is corny as fukk. I already didn't want to be married but in recent years with how women treat marriage it made me not want to get married even more.
Yeah...it's for...them. You get a sense of that from just viewing females you know and their social media.
 

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Disappointing how some rich brehs (Cam Newton too) think being rich means they don't have to have standards anymore. PP is involved in a whole lot of messiness that's guaranteed killed opportunities for him. The only difference is he's rich enough to not *need* them.
 

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This.....

The entertainer/athlete class tends to hate marriage (not all of them) because they usually only want IG thots and "Real Housewives of Baldwin Hills" type women.

On top of that, most of them are brazen serial philanderers....so any woman they marry will catch them cheating within a year or two of marriage.

Like you said, the men signing their checks....the billionaire class, tends to be married. Even if they divorced, they get right back in the saddle and marry again. Those guys fukk around too, but they also marry smart women that see more value in building together than taking a janky little settlement and fukking cabana boys until they're 80.

Athletes & entertainers take pride in having multiple baby mommas. Barely involved outside of being an ATM. Wait until the kid shows promise (especially if they're athlete/entertainers) and then swoop in and try to claim the child like THEY were the ones comforting Little Junior when he had a cold or changing his poopy diapers.

Basically these dudes have money but can't access the right women. They settle for models and waitresses instead of CPA's, neurosurgeons and lawyers. Travis Kelce got the right idea with Tay-Tay. Get with someone that can enhance your situation.
Those billionaires signing his checks hardly ever built anything with their wives...they're along for the ride. Even if their wives come from money it's their father's money. They marry because they're "supposed to".

CPA/neurosurgeons/lawyer women aren't in existence when athletes hit the lottery for 8 figures on draft day, they're too young. Later on, even if the 35 y/o ballplayer retires, those type of women just started making money, and are at the Rush To Make Babies age. Her $300K/year means nothing when he's worth $300M after 15 years in the league.
For his income range it probably makes sense but the average dude in America makes 60K. The idea that a woman is going to take half of something most men don't have is laughable.
90% of men NEED marriage. That's the only way to build wealth.
2 incomes will always be better than 1
Chris Rock already covered this with his joke...and that lawyer cat brehs have posted on here has discussed why marriage can fuçk over working class men also.

Marriage as an institution needs an overhaul for it to make sense for most men...rich or not.
 

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The irony is the dudes who sign off for his checks are likely married :sas1::sas2:

True but to be fair most of their wives came from privileged backgrounds themselves. The women a lot of NBA players entertain are seeking a come up.
 
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