Pawg is tired of this era of men NOT cold approaching

[Hoodoo Child]

Breh approaching like:

 

[Magic Mulatto]

That’s a PALG…

 

[Killer Instinct]

She cute

 

[number21]

Cold approaching is donzo for the most part. Only nikkas stuck in the 90s or early 00s say otherwise.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

I used to cold approach but then I got hit with a police warning for Harassment so I just stick to apps

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Exactly, I've seen a tik tok video where a shy dude tries to talk to a store worker and she films the interaction and frames it as her being harassed and the guy being creepy, admittedly the comment section called her out but what was the point of her doing that? it's strange to me that men are constantly told to ignore all pitfalls even ones that have heavy social consequences in the pursuit of women.

I've had to check the younger women in my family for loose usage of words when describing men they come across.

Link?

 

[Rell84shots]

Of course there are creeps and weirdos that need to be called out, but the pendulum has swung too far, the rise of 'exposal videos' weather in the gym or otherwise for innocuous interactions has given men every reason to be weary, simply put for women to simply boil down men not approaching to being 'pvssy' and then attempt to shame is very disingenuous and purposefully dismisses other factors.

We just had a man get blasted as a creep by a woman who went to the gym and purposely stood in front of the weights so men would approach her, not to holla at her but to get to the weights. The only positive is that the majority of the people saw right through her performative art bullshyt, and called her out for falsely accusing the man.

 

[UnQuantized]

MeToo was the beginning of the end for cold approaching"Believe all women"That is dangerous especially for Black Men. The vibes have to be VERY strong for me to consider reciprocating positive body language towards you. They created this environment whether they like it or not. The ball is in their court.

 

[Lonj]

Sad that all it took was some Nestle Crunch faced broad, some articles written by bytches no one wants to fukk and a couple of tiktok videos, for brehs to throw in the towel.

 

[re'up]

A good example is calling people, was an accepted form of communication, but how many people now, look at a phone like, like what the fukk is he/she calling me for? I think that can apply here too, conceptually.

People's social skills in general are way way down, or just shifting towards new norms.

 

[Guile]

Nah.

 

[Guile]

A good example is calling people, was an accepted form of communication, but how many people now, look at a phone like, like what the fukk is he/she calling me for? I think that can apply here too, conceptually.

People's social skills in general are way way down, or just shifting towards new norms.

Phone calls are only for official business. You better just msg if you want to talk about sports or what you just ate.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Yet in that other thread brehs is crying about dope boys and white dudes taking all the hoes. Competition has never been lower. Lanes are wide open cause everybody is too scary or negative nancy to actually step.


Glass half empty babble

Lol he telling on himself with that comment
He sees himself as low value guy

 

[africngiant]

A good example is calling people, was an accepted form of communication, but how many people now, look at a phone like, like what the fukk is he/she calling me for? I think that can apply here too, conceptually.

People's social skills in general are way way down, or just shifting towards new norms.

the internet is breeding narcissism. women are spoiled as hell for expecting men to approach them after all the issues they’ve laid out against us doing it

on top of the years of trauma and insecurities they’ve caused judging from their lard asses all day till a nikka glow up.

now they expect the most from a wounded child.

inconsiderate and selfish as hell

they don’t have to put in any social work. bytch just be grateful you can sit and get your ass kissed by doing nothing, you’re probably not any more calibrated than the nikkas you’re dissing otherwise you would’ve approached him yourself

 

[Weaver31]

It's cuz of both women and men.

Men (especially nowadays) don't know how to approach, understand social ques properly, look for good choosing signals, etc. A lot of men would take a shot and it's a horrible shot and they are double/triple teamed but would still shoot up some garbage. Some folks may have development disorders like autism, which could inhibit ones social skills but not all folks have this.

Women also only want men THEY FIND ATTRACTIVE to approach them. It doesn't always work that way. Sometimes women just need to politely reject men instead of doing stupid shyt like putting up social media shyt saying why this ugly niqqa hit me up. Just be polite and gracious about it and say thanks but no thanks. (I do understand some men can't take rejection well and are batshyt crazy but I seen cases where women would be rude).