Pay $380 A WEEK in child support only for your daughter to wear shoes with gaping holes, brehs

[Eternally Jaded]

My parents had absolutely no qualms about making me feel like utter shyt if I didn’t do what I was supposed to do. And it was an equal opportunity kill zone. Boy, girl, pet, plant, Moses. Anybody could get that work.

“Da fukk u majoring in that for? U don’t even draw good enough for that shyt. Don’t think u gon come back over here and live off us when you got dem damn student loans trying to be a free spirit. Yo room is ya mom’s nursery now.”


“How slow u gotta be to get pregnant when u can pop a pill, take a shot, use a rubber, get his wack dikk outta u?!”


“Whatchu mean she a dumb hoe?! U fukking her and made a baby with her so u a dumb hoe too!!! Only u a dumb hoe with less rights over YO seed!”

“Da fukk u crying for! More u cry the less u piss!”

“Can ya sorry ass put Call of Duty on yo resume?”

I come from an etherous bloodline. Now imagine that multiplied by everybody on both sides of the family. Because if u fukk up it’s a free for all in my family. By the time we were in middle school, nobody had to physically hit us. Just the sheer irritation from getting ethered and roasted again and again and again by multiple people every time u saw them was enough to say fukk it to doing most stupid shyt.

The bolded made me choke with laughter.
Prime hilarity.

 

[smokeurobinson]

Before children even are a thought, these conversations should be had.

Homeschooling isn't something done on a whim.
That ish takes time and commitment, so either y'all not speaking or someone ain't listening.
Same thing with expectations of faith.
You go to the mosque, she going to the church, y'all not seeing problems down the line?
Same thing even if she's not going anywhere but her family is.
She's at home on sundays, but her extended family is big church people, what you think is gonna happen when she pops out a baby.

U say this like people arent having unplanned kids.

 

[smokeurobinson]

He changed. So have I. But he’s didn’t do some extreme change into a deadbeat lmao. I think that’s what people are getting at. I’ve never seen a non-shytty person turn into a shytty person like that. I have seen shytty people turn into even shyttier people though.

Of course he changed. And so did you. Thats the point. When I called your babby daddy just that...notice u never corrected me and said "Well he put a ring on it boo, he's my husband"....Nope...u let a nikka nut up in you with no plans to marry. I mean u are talking about these things that should be planned before having a baby...did u plan to have a child out of wedlock? Because most women dont. Which goes right back to my point. U had a baby by a nikka who had no plans of getting married...If we talking red flags then how come u didnt see ya Babydddy was a nikka who didnt wanna be tied down with marriage and still let him shoot a baby in u?

 

[Eternally Jaded]

U say this like people arent having unplanned kids.

Truth.

So make sure you dealing with people who got ish to lose then breh.

A nut is almost never just a nut.

 

[Bubba T]

My parents had absolutely no qualms about making me feel like utter shyt if I didn’t do what I was supposed to do. And it was an equal opportunity kill zone. Boy, girl, pet, plant, Moses. Anybody could get that work.

“Da fukk u majoring in that for? U don’t even draw good enough for that shyt. Don’t think u gon come back over here and live off us when you got dem damn student loans trying to be a free spirit. Yo room is ya mom’s nursery now.”


“How slow u gotta be to get pregnant when u can pop a pill, take a shot, use a rubber, get his wack dikk outta u?!”


“Whatchu mean she a dumb hoe?! U fukking her and made a baby with her so u a dumb hoe too!!! Only u a dumb hoe with less rights over YO seed!”

“Da fukk u crying for! More u cry the less u piss!”

“Can ya sorry ass put Call of Duty on yo resume?”

I come from an etherous bloodline. Now imagine that multiplied by everybody on both sides of the family. Because if u fukk up it’s a free for all in my family. By the time we were in middle school, nobody had to physically hit us. Just the sheer irritation from getting ethered and roasted again and again and again by multiple people every time u saw them was enough to say fukk it to doing most stupid shyt.

I get your parents point, but good lord is this type of behavior that can make a kid pack up their shyt and never talk to their parents again.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Of course he changed. And so did you. Thats the point. When I called your babby daddy just that...notice u never corrected me and said "Well he put a ring on it boo, he's my husband"....Nope...u let a nikka nut up in you with no plans to marry. I mean u are talking about these things that should be planned before having a baby...did u plan to have a child out of wedlock? Because most women dont. Which goes right back to my point. U had a baby by a nikka who had no plans of getting married...If we talking red flags then how come u didnt see ya Babydddy was a nikka who didnt wanna be tied down with marriage and still let him shoot a baby in u?

We were actually engaged. I’m the one that ended things. So I don’t know if you said all that trying to pull some kind of “gotcha” but......nah

And again, he’s not a deadbeat so what you’re saying is still null and void. You not sitting here and telling me you don’t know you’re wifing the kind of woman that would let your kids soles wear down to the ground, and you don’t suspect a thing. Your either ignoring red flags, or your communication skills suck.

 

[Rell84shots]

lol that child support money ain't going to ur kid.



make better decisions who u nut in brehs

This is why so many women are against the idea of a child support type of debit card.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Quick question because I'm ignorant of how these things work: If you buy stuff and pay for stuff specifically for your kid and have receipts, does that count?

I'm talking clothes, after-school activities, medical bills, etc.​

 

[smokeurobinson]

We were actually engaged. I’m the one that ended things. So I don’t know if you said all that trying to pull some kind of “gotcha” but......nah
.

Exactly. U had a baby with a nikka u couldn't move forward with in marriage. Somewhere along the line he was good enough to let shoot your club up but not good enough to marry. That nikka showed u something to make u say "Nah...Fuk that, I'm not marrying this fukk nikka, but I'll have his baby."

U had a baby by a nikka who wasnt good enough to marry. But u didnt realize that till time showed u, because people change after time...which was my overall point.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Exactly. U had a baby with a nikka u couldn't move forward with in marriage. Somewhere along the line he was good enough to let shoot your club up but not good enough to marry. That nikka showed u something to make u say "Nah...Fuk that, I'm not marrying this fukk nikka, but I'll have his baby."

U had a baby by a nikka who wasnt good enough to marry. But u didnt realize that till time showed u, because people change after time...which was my overall point.

You must have a deadbeat Bm, because you doing the most in this thread A relationship not working out is not going to magically change someone into a deadbeat parent. We not together but I STILL don’t have to worry about my kid wearing shytty shoes or dirty clothes while with him. People who would do that to a child, especially their own, ALWAYS shows signs. Always.

nikka in the op should’ve chose better

 

[smokeurobinson]

A relationship not working out is not going to magically change someone into a deadbeat parent.
We not together but I STILL don’t have to worry about my kid wearing shytty shoes or dirty clothes while with him. People who would do that to a child, especially their own, ALWAYS shows signs. Always.

So why did u call the engagement off? Obviously u ignored some red flags too if he wasnt marriage material yet you still let him shoot a hot one up in you.

You dont have to worry about holes in ya kids shoes but there's obviously something he did to make u call that marriage off....Spill it. What did he do?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I get your parents point, but good lord is this type of behavior that can make a kid pack up their shyt and never talk to their parents again.

Oh lol! I concur. I remember losing my mind one time and telling my momma that I would prefer she just whup my ass and get it over with instead of death by irritation and constant ether. It’s like walking thru a roasting session 24/7.

It’s effective tho. Nobody has ever had any OOW babies, no abortions, no divorces. No child support. Everybody is relatively successful, but damn I’ve often wondered if it takes my families level of crazy to get there.

Then again when I hear about some of the fukkery I’ve seen....I get really grateful for my families’ antics b/c they kept us from ruining our own lives. Crazy part is we aren’t even uber religious either. We are Christian but it was never a restrictive, rigid upbringing. They just expected us to know better be not be stupid.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

And even before he gets locked up

Here in Georgia THEY SUSPEND YOUR LICENSE

and it gets worst..

I remember being in orientation at a job to get my contractor.license to go overseas and do work..for a gang of money

My partner next to me was all excited cause the jobs were from 80k to 120k
over in the middle East


He was so happy cause he was gonna have an opportunity to eliminate alot of debt and put his family in a better position as well as finally get his own home cause we were roommates together

Mane that instructor told us ..

"Gentlemen if any of you owe more than 5k in CHILD SUPPORT you might as well leave this class because policies enacted by TSA as well as this firm will NOT GRANT YOU A VISA or WORK PERMIT to travel abroad and do work on these peojects'

Dawg..I looked at him it was like his Soul left him

He didn't get a loan? Shiiid I would've sold everything

 

[Rockstar Mom]

So why did u call the engagement off? Obviously u ignored some red flags too if he wasnt marriage material yet you still let him shoot a hot one up in you.

You dont have to worry about holes in ya kids shoes but there's obviously something he did to make u call that marriage off....Spill it. What did he do?

He didn’t “do” anything. That’s what makes your irrational accusations so funny. He had dreams and goals that I fully supported. One of those goals gave him a great opportunity that was in another state. That’s all. While I loved him, I had my own things going on. My own goals that are currently flourishing, that meant I couldn’t leave. And the state that he moved too Yea, not for me. I’ll even go a step further in that, if we were married, I STILL wouldn’t have been willing to move. I just wouldn’t. And I’m totally glad we didn’t have to go through a divorce process.

The great news is, he’s a 3hr drive away so he still faithfully comes to get the kids.

Contrary to popular Coli belief, not all relationships have to end in drama and negativity.

 

[Deus]

And even before he gets locked up

Here in Georgia THEY SUSPEND YOUR LICENSE

and it gets worst..

I remember being in orientation at a job to get my contractor.license to go overseas and do work..for a gang of money

My partner next to me was all excited cause the jobs were from 80k to 120k
over in the middle East


He was so happy cause he was gonna have an opportunity to eliminate alot of debt and put his family in a better position as well as finally get his own home cause we were roommates together

Mane that instructor told us ..

"Gentlemen if any of you owe more than 5k in CHILD SUPPORT you might as well leave this class because policies enacted by TSA as well as this firm will NOT GRANT YOU A VISA or WORK PERMIT to travel abroad and do work on these peojects'

Dawg..I looked at him it was like his Soul left him

Bruh, you got some really good stories. Take this rep.

Employers hate dealing with people on child support. Too much paperwork