Pay or Ask for a Favor

[Diyhai]

When it comes to simple things do you like to ask a friend or pay someone to do it? Was having a discussion about why I don’t ask a friend to take me to the airport. I was like so when you ask me I don’t feel obligated
I feel like most people expect you to return the favor. I rather just pay a stranger and it’s over.

 

[maxamusa]

You have to define the terms.

when people ask to "borrow" $$$ from me I always ask like 3 times....is this a LOAN....or do you NEED it?

Cause ima handle the situations different based off the answer.

I got fam right now who I was supposed to link with last weekend who ducked out cause I "loaned" some bread. I already planned and not seeing my $$$ ever again. but thats fam. now he's on the clock.


I even hit him with the text the day before "you good your phone aint broke right?"


rides to the airport and helping move I'll only do for people struggling. if you got bread fukk no. u better pay for those BS services.

 

[Diyhai]

You have to define the terms.

when people ask to "borrow" $$$ from me I always ask like 3 times....is this a LOAN....or do you NEED it?

Cause ima handle the situations different based off the answer.

I got fam right now who I was supposed to link with last weekend who ducked out cause I "loaned" some bread. I already planned and not seeing my $$$ ever again. but thats fam. now he's on the clock.


I even hit him with the text the day before "you good your phone aint broke right?"


rides to the airport and helping move I'll only do for people struggling. if you got bread fukk no. u better pay for those BS services.

So what if they need it

 

[maxamusa]

So what if they need it

Then I'll give it if I can no problem. and I'll never make them feel a type of way about it. its charity in my eyes.

but if you say its a loan and then start ducking now its a problem.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

When it comes to simple things do you like to ask a friend or pay someone to do it? Was having a discussion about why I don’t ask a friend to take me to the airport. I was like so when you ask me I don’t feel obligated
I feel like most people expect you to return the favor. I rather just pay a stranger and it’s over.

Why not pay your friend and kill two birds you cheap freeloading motherfukker