Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

[Cabbage Patch]

paying for anything is a sucka move

nikka if that ho dont scoop you up in her whip, pay for yo food and shyt and for the condom you use on her, you aint living right nikka

That's for young men who know how to play the cougar game. These cats around here aren't about that life. If they don't feel like they're on top, then the reality of their true situation would crush them completely.

 

[IVS]

Lemme tell you, I was on that dumb sh!t for a hot minute. Now I take these broads to starbucks for tea, or have them meet me at whole foods for wine or tea. The most a b!tch will get out of me these days is a happy hour. Sh!t is perfect. You dont have to impress these broads with fancy dates.

Keep it simple. Get her home, give her cock! KILLA

 

[Ego Noir]

Dates are a reward and a privilege, not the price of access. If a woman likes you, she's not going to require you to take her to dinner, point blank. You think the majority of these women demanding free dinner from the average man don't go to the club, see some dude she thinks is extra fly and get taken to a hotel afterwards without him having to wine and dine? If a woman sees a man she really likes from head to toe, there's no such thing as you better wine and dine me. She's thinking more along the lines of, "What can I do to get with him?" If a woman is charging you for her time, you aren't really all that tight to her. Move on and find a woman that digs you more. Dinners, movies, etc. that you pay for are a privilege that you bestow upon a woman who is all about you, and not as a payment to 'get an interview' with her.

Strong post

But id like to add in that today theres a new breed of thot. They will actually like you from head to toe, but they treat it like a hustle.

They will like you, then play that game of show me something, dine me, etc.


Bottom line, any woman, no matter how fine she is, or how much you think shes into you, or how much she even "loves you", if shes a materialist/only mess with get money nikkas/requires a high end dinner type. She should be bushes status.



Shes hustling you, and its a very large window for something fukked up to happen down the line.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Bottom line, any woman, no matter how fine she is, or how much you think shes into you, or how much she even "loves you", if shes a materialist/only mess with get money nikkas/requires a high end dinner type. She should be bushes status.



Shes hustling you, and its a very large window for something fukked up to happen down the line.

Exactly.

Entertaining women who aren't in sync with what you want is guaranteed misery, and strangely seems to be a common theme here.

If a chick isn't cooperating, .... as a man you should be in a position where dating is a buyers market. If its not, step your shyt up. Thats the piece a lot of brehs miss. It's not enough just to be a man. You have to be a man in demand and you have to generate that demand yourself.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

This is a year old thread.



Then it's up to you to say 'No. I want to get to know you first.'

If she's not down for it, you weren't going to get any p*ssy anyway, so you've saved your wallet and can now make plans with someone else who might be more willing to chill.

Some people treat dating like the cases of going into an expensive store and buying something you can't really afford out of spite. You can tell yourself you won but you the truth is you didn't. Your wallet is lighter, and the serviceperson/free meal gainer saw right through you from the very beginning, so what was the point.

Oh naw homie I don't brag but I don't have issues dating.I'm a take it or leave it person.If these cats out here wanna spend $100+ on dates and receive a peck on cheek that's them I don't know where these dudes finding these goldiggers at

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[Arc]

Lesson #1. " wanna grab some coffee/ice cream?" If you pay you get the gesture point (if any) and are out of a few bucks but sometimes they pay and it doesn't matter cause its a small and casual hangout. Do that first few dates and you can gauge if she's putting out for you.

 

[Surreal]

1st date always be to get to know each other....hit up a park and bring food you Both make or hit up a food tasting. 1st date should be talking and trippin out

 

[Jahmal]

 

[MikelArteta]

Bump

 

[Critical Distance]

i guess if you're gonna have hard and fast rules this is as good as any.