Paying for dates are fun when their is no pressure to get her to bed

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I take chicks on the date all the time without fukkin them because I know sooner or later they gonna hit me up and let me do as I please. It always happens. But it only works if you cool with her and got Time and or money to play with.
 

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AMEN. Grown man shyt here...if you do what you wanna do you will be able to enjoy your night no matter how it shakes out with your date. If I fukk, I fukk...if I don't,I don't but good golly I wanted to ride some Go-Karts tonight and I did just that. Mission accomplished...shorty just an extra in the movie I call life.
This saved me on a date ended up hating.
 

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I only go on dates with the intention to eventually fukk. Maybe not that night, but soon. :yeshrug: If not it's just a waste of my time and money, and these chicks will readily use you for a free meal. :camby:And if we don't fukk I let that bytch know she wasted my time. :ufdup:

Of course, it’s the courting process but I think what we are all saying (including you) is that as we mature we don’t add the expectation of sex to any individual date. When we’re younger it’s like “this the second date I’m tryna smash tonight” where as we mature it’s more like “I want to go see the LA Dodgers play, I’ma invite shorty she would be good company”.

The goal in the end is to have sex but the expectation for that individual date was to have fun watching baseball. At a certain point if those dates don’t get you closer to what you want, you just start inviting someone else...ain’t even no sweat cuz the whole time you doing WTF you wanted to do.

You didn’t skydive off a hot air balloon with a $1000 bouquet of Venetian roses or pull up to her house in a white suit in a horse and buggy.

- you wanted to see the latest Fast and Furious (bless your heart) so you invited her.

- you wanted to ride some roller coasters and you invited her.

- you wanted a nice steak so you invited her.

No skin off your back if she ends up not wanting to go further because you was doing shyt you was gonna do if she was there or not. NEXT!
 

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Of course, it’s the courting process but I think what we are all saying (including you) is that as we mature we don’t add the expectation of sex to any individual date. When we’re younger it’s like “this the second date I’m tryna smash tonight” where as we mature it’s more like “I want to go see the LA Dodgers play, I’ma invite shorty she would be good company”.

The goal in the end is to have sex but the expectation for that individual date was to have fun watching baseball. At a certain point if those dates don’t get you closer to what you want, you just start inviting someone else...ain’t even no sweat cuz the whole time you doing WTF you wanted to do.

You didn’t skydive off a hot air balloon with a $1000 bouquet of Venetian roses or pull up to her house in a white suit in a horse and buggy.

- you wanted to see the latest Fast and Furious (bless your heart) so you invited her.

- you wanted to ride some roller coasters and you invited her.

- you wanted a nice steak so you invited her.

No skin off your back if she ends up not wanting to go further because you was doing shyt you was gonna do if she was there or not. NEXT!

Yeah I feel you. I only go on dates I would enjoy even if she wasn't there.
 

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I have a system now that works very well :ehh:

Arrange date for sushi at a nice spot three blocks from my place. :steviej:

Buy two $12 sushi rolls and split them. :obama:Maybe 3 if I am hungry.

I don't drink anymore so I am no longer buying 4-6 $8 beers for myself alone. :cheers:

Bill is generally $35. :manny:

"Hey, let's go for a walk and smoke." :smoker:

"So I don't know if this is forward but would you like to meet Bubba (my dog):bubba:???"

"I WOULD LOVE TO MEET BUBBA!"

Walk three blocks to apartment.

Boom.
 
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